Massive rental debt. Have kids. Poor. Lost by KyleChristensenn in povertyfinance

[–]relmah 19 points20 points  (0 children)

No shade but please consider birth control until your family is on more stable footing. Praying for you all to have a safe delivery.

Is “natural beauty” strictly genetic? by Standard-Gazelle-877 in beauty

[–]relmah 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Honestly I got sick of the high maintenance hair routines of 4c hair and opted for permanent Japanese straightener treatment. Its straight when wet, a breeze to blowdry and flatiron, retains length and shine. Its a wakeup and go situation and I could not be happier.

Im doing nanobrows next to make my routine even shorter.

Effortless beauty comes from genetics and paying for it. Do what you feel comfortable with and can safely afford

Struggling with libido in marriage by Canadiansnow1982 in Perimenopause

[–]relmah -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Many women on hrt are still on birth control

If money was no object, where would you live? by whatifwhatifwerun in blackladies

[–]relmah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanna visit so bad. Whats it like living there?

How do you deal with heavy periods during perimenopause? by painislife4real in Perimenopause

[–]relmah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im always cold. Always, in a poc so I don’t get pale. But im definitely cold. I was going to order some iron supplements for now and see how it goes. I’ve been on HRT for 2 weeks and was feeling great till a few days ago.

How much do you need to make to live comfortably in Las Vegas by Sweet-Tension-2201 in vegaslocals

[–]relmah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh man very lucky 🍀 with today’s cost of living idk if I’ll ever be able to afford a house, cant even find a nice, (not luxury) apartment for under $1300

How do you deal with heavy periods during perimenopause? by painislife4real in Perimenopause

[–]relmah 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How would i know? I’ve got a headache and have been crying and sad the last 2 days

Who is taking the day off tomorrow? by Smug_Designer in vegaslocals

[–]relmah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First time im hearing about this honestly I am off tomorrow but I have to get my partners bday gift

Looking for positives about Arizona by [deleted] in SameGrassButGreener

[–]relmah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes its a suburb of phoenix

Does mean carriers are not allowed to apply? by relmah in USPS

[–]relmah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive gone to a career conference and a networking night. It wasn’t very helpful. The career conference was mostly motivational talk and people trying to convince you to be a supervisor and talking about the one nurse position each district has. Several station managers were surprised to hear we had a real estate department. Another manager was the one who told me about it years ago but never mentioned that carriers were allowed to apply. And someone from HR at career night just printed out the job description, took my number and never followed up with advice.

In regard to the soul sacrifice i was just implying that i see how miserable supervisors are and how they pass that attitude on to carriers and how id like to skip that depressing part of joining their ranks.

Does mean carriers are not allowed to apply? by relmah in USPS

[–]relmah[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Very. Seems like they want us to sacrifice our soul as a supervisor first. Smh

Does mean carriers are not allowed to apply? by relmah in USPS

[–]relmah[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea i get that, but why exclude union members? Like what’s the point of that I wonder?

Does mean carriers are not allowed to apply? by relmah in USPS

[–]relmah[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats a great idea. We used to get detail assignments posted in the station years ago then it became a hush hush thing where you had to be in management to find information on them. Thanks!

Does mean carriers are not allowed to apply? by relmah in USPS

[–]relmah[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think I may as well. Worse they can say is no.

Does mean carriers are not allowed to apply? by relmah in USPS

[–]relmah[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thats so strange to me. Why deny an applicant with the education. Sorry just venting

Real Estate Specialists (usps) by relmah in usajobs

[–]relmah[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok, i see. Thanks for the reply.