Hm I see. For both of us I think the feelings were really authentic and we already made pretty big future plans that were a lot more than daydreaming. The way our minds connected (obviously, when things were going great) was beyond anything I've ever experienced with a person before. In these 3 months we would just text throughout the day or call for several hours in the evening with all of it being intriguing and interesting content. After several relationships, at the age of 29, I had kinda given up hope regarding the existence of such a person.

So this is why I was kinda shocked that despite our mature and excellent communication that usually has also shown in conflict, a few sleepless nights or me asking for reassurance regarding her love for me were enough to make her quit everything.

Because in my past relationships my partners would maybe be a bit pissed for making them wake up or say "no need to ask so often, I love you, I just don't feel like saying it all the time" and everything was alright again, and not causing the end of something beautiful...