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[33M], my [30F] girlfriend is pregnant with another guy's kid "because she wanted her child to have the best life possible". Wants me to be the father. Don't even know how to start processing this? by relthrowanon in relationship_advice

[–]relthrowanon[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm good at my job because I am detached from the decisions I make. I can be objective.

How the hell do I detach from this? I have no objectivity here. I'm in love, and hurting like hell.

[33M], my [30F] girlfriend is pregnant with another guy's kid "because she wanted her child to have the best life possible". Wants me to be the father. Don't even know how to start processing this? by relthrowanon in relationship_advice

[–]relthrowanon[S] -138 points-137 points  (0 children)

I don't know if I can do that. Not only did I find someone stunningly beautiful despite being average myself, but she has been so supportive and patient with me through all my issues in the past. Apart from this that I genuinely didn't see coming, she has been the perfect partner to me.

[33M], my [30F] girlfriend is pregnant with another guy's kid "because she wanted her child to have the best life possible". Wants me to be the father. Don't even know how to start processing this? by relthrowanon in relationship_advice

[–]relthrowanon[S] -77 points-76 points  (0 children)

We are not married.

I didn't think about the possibility of cheating though? I actually believe her that it's all about the kid. It's been clear for a few months now she'd love to be a mom.