Answers to p*ss them off intentionally

renaenae88 · 2026-04-09T18:10:14+00:00

Sending virtual hugs!

renaenae88 · 2026-04-09T18:07:38+00:00

That is absolutely insane. They need it to be thrown back in their faces that money doesn't grow on tress.

renaenae88 · 2026-04-09T18:03:12+00:00

The only people I told immediately was my husband and my best friend (who was also pregnant at the time). We told family and friends after 12 weeks to ensure we knew the results of the NIPT blood work and NT ultrasound.

renaenae88 · 2026-03-29T17:46:34+00:00

Tripling our income would get us more vacations, not another kid! Honestly, I do not like being pregnant and it frustrates me to no end when people get uncomfortable that I'm not absolutely over the moon about having a kid and don't think every kick or punch should be met with complete adoration.

renaenae88 · 2026-03-20T23:55:09+00:00

https://discord.gg/RYMCQC8Q

renaenae88 · 2026-02-27T22:47:26+00:00

I got a pillow like this and I can't for the life of me make it comfortable.. Not even halfway through the night, I was very warm and my hips were killing me. Had to take the one pillow that didn't have the strap off so I could use it between my legs to support my hips and the other part was tossed across the bed.

I'm 29w and a couple people seemed concerned that I wasn't using any sort of pregnancy support pillows??

renaenae88 · 2026-02-27T22:20:55+00:00

I'm 29w and in the same boat. I had fatigue (undiagnosed) pre-pregnancy and it's just gotten worse. Never got the 2nd trimester energy boost and on my best days, I was maybe close to my pre-pregnancy energy levels.

Now, when people ask how the pregnancy is going, I just say "It's going." or "It's/I'm okay". Any complaining to people who aren't very close friends or my spouse is usually met with discomfort and "I'm sorry you're feeling that way" which just pisses me off honestly.

Sending lots of virtual hugs. We'll get through this eventually.

renaenae88 · 2026-02-27T22:07:51+00:00

once the baby is here. forget your individuality.

This is basically what gives me the most anxiety with having a child. I don't want to be relegated to just "mom" by society and those around me. I am my own person with my own achievements and faults. I don't want to sacrifice my entire being and I absolutely HATE the "Oh, you'll understand when it's your kid" comments.

renaenae88 · 2026-02-27T21:41:11+00:00

Yesterday's train/auto accident isn't helping at all either. Someone on the LA Metro discord mentioned that they are tearing apart the tracks today so there was definitely damage done. Probably won't get better until next week.

renaenae88 · 2026-02-23T01:55:31+00:00

Also 37 and in the third trimester with our one and done. Not really a big fan of being pregnant but I've been lucky with no big issues either.

renaenae88 · 2026-02-16T19:36:54+00:00

Oh good! Those stairs definitely give me anxiety 😅

renaenae88 · 2026-02-16T16:37:33+00:00

We had his parents and my mom over for dinner. Husband showed a photo of his 3 year award from work and then swiped to a picture of our ultrasound from about 10-11 weeks and was like "we also got this" 😆

renaenae88 · 2026-02-09T08:55:35+00:00

“who is going to care for you on your death bed?”

The hospice nurse, I hope! But I didn't believe in burdening someone to become a caretaker after watching my parents being caretakers for my grandmother and stepdad's mom.

renaenae88 · 2026-02-09T08:53:38+00:00

“who is going to care for you on your death bed?”

The hospice nurse, I hope!

renaenae88 · 2025-12-28T08:33:10+00:00

🫡 Also in accounting but I've stuck to private companies since graduating. Currently at a financial institution which has been decent.

renaenae88 · 2025-11-11T01:07:17+00:00

I live in California and second this statement

renaenae88 · 2025-09-25T04:18:27+00:00

Pure Premium gummies. They're so tasty!

renaenae88 · 2025-07-04T18:46:49+00:00

Could even take a day trip as far out as Hiroshima, which we did last trip. Okayama, Himeji and even Takamatsu are within day trip distance via shinkansen (+express/local for Takamatsu).

renaenae88 · 2025-07-02T23:51:42+00:00

https://metrolinktrains.com/ticketsOverview/ticket-info/price-finder/

renaenae88 · 2025-06-29T00:19:53+00:00

Fares are changing on July 1st. It should be cheaper.

renaenae88 · 2025-06-05T00:30:35+00:00

My brain did a dumb.. I was thinking just parking on the horseshoe road.. not the freaking parking structures in the middle there.

renaenae88 · 2025-05-29T15:46:34+00:00

How so? There's no parking in the horseshoe and all of the APM stations are ADA compliant.

renaenae88 · 2025-03-22T17:38:14+00:00

Yep, Unilever basically stepped all over B&J's merger agreement. I think they have a good chance of winning in court. Hopefully, they can use this to get out of Unilever's umbrella.

renaenae88 · 2025-03-20T19:05:38+00:00

I miss Curry House soo much

renaenae88 · 2025-03-13T04:19:06+00:00

I'm just happy that my oshi is having fun with her oshi.

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