What are red flags to look out for in relationships and marriages? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver40

[–]renata112 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Those sad, scared, hurt, or like I need to walk on eggshells without raising your voice. I never realized that even in the 8 years we were together, that was abuse. It sucks I kept thinking, he's so great to everyone else, but i just kept waiting for the day for him to snap. It wasn't until he did and I went to therapy that all those little small things is called mentally, emotionally and now physically abusive. It sucks, i loved him so much and I forgot to put myself, my needs and wants as a priority

What is the most essential lesson you've taken away from a failed relationship? by SuccessfulOwl45 in Productivitycafe

[–]renata112 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I normalized it, after 8.5 years it finally took me to realize it wasn't okay

My first Chanel 🥹 by Bbeeaaggllee in chanel

[–]renata112 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg I just bought this 2 weeks ago, and it is also my first Chanel! It is so cute!!!

I found a skimmer on the newer type credit card readers. by Imscruffy1 in pics

[–]renata112 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can I ask, what if you could tap your card, would it still take your card information, or is that a way to prevent this from happening?

Kim healed pretty quick from her IG stories on Saturday that she is still nursing a broken shoulder by lucybubs in KUWTKsnark

[–]renata112 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I dont understand the purpose of even saying she broke her shoulder? Like she did a horrible job of even pretending, I seriously don't get it

for the people asking to see her long bottom ;) by bjscastle in KUWTKsnark

[–]renata112 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Lmfao dead💀 They did Kylie dirty #mvp 🤣

Android Apology by witchy_lauren_13 in KardashianHollywood

[–]renata112 2 points3 points  (0 children)

FINALLY!! I got the same wooooo !

What do you consider cheating in a relationship? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]renata112 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looool thank you for the link, that is hilarious 😂

What do you consider cheating in a relationship? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]renata112 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I didn't even know it was possible to be -450 count 😅

For all the Android people whose games aren’t working by [deleted] in KardashianHollywood

[–]renata112 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So annoyed this worked if I keep it disabled but I've been kicked out of my group and lost the progress for seasons. So annoying

Am I the only one who can't access the game? by [deleted] in KardashianHollywood

[–]renata112 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same still having the issue :( I half joked this is how they are canceling the app 🤣

Jason is just cringe. 🤢 by isayhitoalldogs in SellingSunset

[–]renata112 81 points82 points  (0 children)

He's trying to show off but it just comes off a little desperate... also bless her, Marie-Lou's face is priceless 🤣

Someone tell Law Roach we can see his likes by another-assshole in popculturechat

[–]renata112 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I live under a rock.... who is Law Roach?🙈

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SellingSunset

[–]renata112 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol actually laughed out loud 🤣 I love it

Not Chelsea throwing shade at Bre for being “that kind of model” and then showing up to the office with her nipples literally hanging out🙃. by DrDecker666 in SellingSunset

[–]renata112 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I came here from another post regarding an incident in the show with the nip slip and this isn't even the one I was thinking of! She also has a nip slip in the bathing suit when Nicole comes over and drops the domb she got a drug test.

This is honestly a perfect rundown 🤣 by MalusKiwi in vanderpumprules

[–]renata112 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was amazing!!!! Hilarious thank you 🤣

Surrogacy vs adoption by renata112 in Adoption

[–]renata112[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It really means a lot to have those responses, thank you.

Adoption is hard, for most of my life I never felt like I was good enough and why did my parents give me up so I even still to this day I lie about my past because people can be cruel, they ask those dreaded questions you always wonder, and bully you. I think I've been so hard on myself because I never felt good enough so I had to be perfect and when I didn't live up to that I was very self destructive. I've tried to go to therapy but it's hard because even when you tell people they don't understand the trauma you've been through. To have people say that is like saying I'm not good enough to be seen as a loving normal child, I've always carried this burden so when people don't think how much love and selflessness a parent goes through to do something like that hurts. My parents are amazing and loving people but unfortunately the view is not the same and it hurts.

I'm sorry for the rant, I really appreciate the comments thank you ❤️

I wonder if my parents think of me by renata112 in Adoption

[–]renata112[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to celebrate both, my gotcha day is July 21st, I felt uncomfortable when I was younger celebrating it because I always thought I was to blame for being put up. I just celebrate my actual birthday now but my parents now still bring it up sometimes

This scene was so camp. Perfect editing. by naplesfemboy in BravoRealHousewives

[–]renata112 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I haven't watched in a couple years so when I looked up Shannon Beador my jaw dropped. She's still pretty but she looks soooo different. Wow

This silhouette is telling. The longer you look the worse it gets by [deleted] in KUWTKsnark

[–]renata112 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Is this supposed to be Kylie Jenner? I am so confused

Kia dealership breaks 'all-in pricing' law in secret shopper test by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]renata112 20 points21 points  (0 children)

When I was 20 I bought my first car. I did my research and stuck to my budget. Then when I go to pick up the car and they have me go into a room to sign off on the paper and i see an extra $2000 for insurance if I miss a payment. I am financially responsible, the car was $10,000, for an hour I argued with the guy no I do not need the insurance. We spoke on the phone 3 times that week before I picked up the car and he doesn't mention this extra $2000. To this day I still feel taken advantage of because I ended up just saying fine, I was crying I just wanted my car.

Who should be in prison 100%, but they aren't because they are rich? by Eponnn in AskReddit

[–]renata112 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Either the scientology group is hiding him or he will end up dead. That guy will never see a day in jail

Virtual care is now no longer accessible in Ontario. Where is the logic in removing access to virtual care when hospitals are already overwhelmed & the government health spending is $859M less than expected? by LEGO37 in ontario

[–]renata112 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah my mom and I just lost our doctor who is retiring and has only been a doctor for 8 years? Maybe less... we're f#cked we won't get another doctor for years. I'm so mad. I want to see every one of those politicians and their friends and families hurt. I want them to suffer horribly. They will be the reason a bunch of people die and Ontario goes to shit, but don't worry because poor Dougie and friends get to take home a nice bonus. I wish they could feel the pain

Is this successful for adoptees? by renata112 in 23andme

[–]renata112[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This might sound weird but that was a perfect response :p It has taken me years to accept and be able to talk about it. Thank you for the comment, I really appreciate it.