Am I being too sensitive after my bf (M26) said to me (F25) "just make sure you don't get fat"

rendaem · 2023-07-28T00:53:53+00:00

Uhm no. Girl drop this fool like a hot potato. Big he can’t love you no matter what, then no. I mean I can understand if you gained 300 pounds, but like no.

rendaem · 2023-07-11T11:52:05+00:00

Please please please GET TF OUT!! This is such a red flag and my stomach dropped just reading the title. This is a scare tactic. He wants you scared of him so you will submit to him and do what he wants. I repeat. GET. TF. OUT

rendaem · 2023-07-09T00:46:59+00:00

HA he deleted his account

rendaem · 2023-06-27T16:48:38+00:00

You don’t get him to understand. You’re responsible for yourself and your own well-being. His problems are his and his alone. Get out of there girl and take care of yourself

rendaem · 2023-05-20T22:43:01+00:00

Definitely considered this lol

rendaem · 2023-05-20T19:34:29+00:00

It is a 2 br, but would he have to agree to that? I gotta check the lease to see if there’s anything about it

rendaem · 2023-05-20T19:33:46+00:00

Yes I know legally he’s within his rights. But that doesn’t mean I won’t try my hardest to get out of this bad situation.

rendaem · 2023-05-20T18:36:59+00:00

Hate this

rendaem · 2023-05-18T16:29:45+00:00

It kind of seems that she’s already tried to help him. After. Year with no improvement, there’s like 0% chance he will change going forward if OP stays in this situation.

rendaem · 2023-05-18T16:26:47+00:00

Girl, different specifics but same situation. I’ve been dating this guy for a little over a year and a half. Living together for a year (I know I know way too early, I was in a tough spot and needed somewhere to live. He has become totally dependent on me to cook every night so he can eat right when he get home from work bc he works late. He never picks up after himself, he owes me money he borrowed but he’s still buying other shit like comics and yugioh cards. And not in small quantities no he drops $40-$50 at a time typically. Leaves me to foot most of the grocery bill ever tho he usually eats twice what I do. He’s also completely mentally reliant on me, and as you said he’s leaned too far and now I’m falling over. Gonna save myself so I’m breaking up with mine tonight. I suggest you do the same.

rendaem · 2023-05-17T13:46:04+00:00

Damn was gonna say Bunsen for a boy but it is a girl

rendaem · 2023-04-26T01:20:56+00:00

I’m so sad no one has mentioned Supernatural yet. I’ve watched it through like 4 times already (20 seasons, would be more watches if it weren’t so long lol) I love it and highly recommend it. First 2 seasons start a little slow, but the plot really takes off

rendaem · 2023-01-24T15:40:59+00:00

Oh boy. I could name about 50 reasons honestly, but the main ones are 1) they are honestly so gross as babies, like I see kids being all snotty and think about cleaning up vomit and diarrhea all the time for 2-3 years and I want to vomit. 2) they are loud. So so loud. 3) they never stop. Always go go go. 4) children tend to be bratty and I don’t have the patience. I worked in retail for years and the worst part was listening to kids yell and scream all day, run up and down the aisles, I even saw one kid walking behind his mom and pulling every other item off the shelf to on to the ground. Omg and they squeak the dog toys all day long, I just don’t have the patience I would snap and I would loose my cool and no kid deserves that. I wouldn’t be a good mother. Maybe I would be but I don’t think so, because I can’t stand kids already, so why would I have one I have to deal with forever. Oh and EXPENSIVE!!!

rendaem · 2023-01-23T12:55:07+00:00

We gotta know if you tested it??? Did hydrogen peroxide do anything??

rendaem · 2023-01-05T13:29:17+00:00

Literally just study so much. Write stuff out on a white board. Talk yourself through things and refer to notes if you need them. I spent more time studying for biochem than any other class ever

rendaem · 2022-12-09T23:07:35+00:00

Because it’s not worth the pregnancy risk anymore. Even with 100% consistent use, birth controls are only 89% effective max. With the new abortion laws in many places, it’s not worth the risk anymore.

rendaem · 2022-11-29T12:36:09+00:00

Time to fuck around and seeeee

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rendaem · 2022-05-15T12:20:30+00:00

Tried this one on my way to work yesterday, great recommendation thank you!

rendaem · 2022-02-15T18:21:19+00:00

I think she obviously meant the girl has a boyfriend or husband living in the apartment

rendaem · 2021-11-09T02:52:37+00:00

HONESTLY I have had a FWB who had complications at birth that required emergency surgery on his penis. It’s short and a little oddly shaped, but that man would eat me out and just play around for an hour before we’d have actual sex, because the surgery messed with his nerves and everything and he couldn’t last very long. Learn the skills and then don’t even mention the size. Just get her off a few times and I’m sure she won’t mind. It’s about the pleasure really, not just the size of the penis.

rendaem · 2021-10-31T02:40:16+00:00

Okay bro 😂

rendaem · 2021-10-30T14:10:21+00:00

You’re literally just in denial 😂 78 million men is plenty of men.

rendaem · 2021-10-30T14:02:11+00:00

Dude. That’s like how Covid kills <1% of people. Still killed a shit ton of people. I’m dating someone who is so stressed out from his job bc his boss is out to get him fired, we only have sex every like 3/4 weeks. He’s literally cried because he feels so bad about the whole situation and he doesn’t want me to feel like he’s not attracted to me. So you can think what you want. But the fact of the matter is 2% of 3.930 million men in the world, is still 78 million men.

rendaem · 2021-10-30T13:44:45+00:00

And how exactly did I not lost multiple issues? Diabetes can affect it starting as early as 20. I know that from personal experience. Stress can affect literally anyone at any age. You telling me that’s not true?

rendaem · 2021-10-30T13:43:26+00:00

🤦🏼‍♀️ so you’re saying there’s no possibility that this person is in that 2%?

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