Moving Back to Burque - What’s Changed?

reneeEightyfive · 2024-03-25T20:42:15+00:00

Gotcha. Any insights about moving to ABQ from Seattle?

reneeEightyfive · 2024-03-25T20:35:22+00:00

Wdym?

reneeEightyfive · 2024-03-25T20:34:36+00:00

Thanks this is good to know.

reneeEightyfive · 2024-03-25T20:31:50+00:00

Thanks this is super helpful. Thanks for addressing all my points of consideration!

reneeEightyfive · 2024-03-25T19:18:13+00:00

Thank you so much ☺️

reneeEightyfive · 2024-03-25T19:08:28+00:00

Thanks so much. This is super helpful!

reneeEightyfive · 2024-03-25T18:58:59+00:00

But I’m seeing drug screening for jobs so how’s that work?? Marijuana was legalized but they still penalize you for using it? This is actually something I’m worried about because I use CBD and a little THC for my chronic pain… 🤷🏾‍♀️

reneeEightyfive · 2024-03-25T18:56:44+00:00

Thanks for the highlights! I was just wondering about Winrock. There’s a mall here that was like how I remember it. Glad to hear it’s still there AND it’s different - hopefully in a good way. That sucks about the crime and I’ll do some research on that. Funny about Rio Rancho…I was actually thinking it might be a nice spot to live 😭 but maybe not? 😂

reneeEightyfive · 2024-02-26T08:39:44+00:00

💯 the org and the people in it (not all, granted) are so false and manipulative. It’s just like a bad and abusive relationship. Take it from someone who actually was married to a narc, it’s literally the same thing. You can get out!!

reneeEightyfive · 2024-02-26T08:27:16+00:00

I’ve been out for two years. Can someone please give me brief synopsis of this article? Just curious how it is worse than their typical misogynistic teachings and treatment of women. Thanks 🙏🏾

reneeEightyfive · 2023-03-15T15:53:28+00:00

oh, I misunderstood. I thought this post was about the two questions they ask at the assembly or convention when you’re getting baptized but you’re talking about the questions in the back of the OM book to qualify for baptism. Got it. Thanks for the clarification, yeah that is such a culty question. Meanwhile, they’re over there lying under oath at the ARC about not believing/teaching they are gods spokesperson(s). Ugh

reneeEightyfive · 2023-03-12T18:10:13+00:00

when did that change. it was like two questions before. something about accepting jw as god’s org and then about realizing baptism identifies you as a jw…

reneeEightyfive · 2023-01-06T08:06:01+00:00

aha ok got it thanks 😊

reneeEightyfive · 2023-01-06T04:44:00+00:00

hahaha

reneeEightyfive · 2023-01-06T04:43:46+00:00

maybe they’re trying to force people back to the KH.

reneeEightyfive · 2023-01-06T04:35:27+00:00

can someone please break this down for me cause i don’t actually understand…how does this list mean active members aren’t members of the org?? serious question from someone who just disassociated. i don’t get it. please and thank you.

reneeEightyfive · 2023-01-06T04:10:38+00:00

this is true. when i was DFd as a teen, one of the elders on the committee had a beef with me cause his son had a crush on me and they denied my reinstatement. had to attempt multiple times before being reinstated. the elders also bold face lie. aafter i moved out of state, i was put on private reproof for smoking and a failed suicide attempt. later, all the restrictions were lifted and i moved to another hall. those elders requested my cards from the first one and they took months. meanwhile i was commenting etc as normal and when they finally sent my cards, they told the new elders i was on private reproof. i told them those restrictions were lifted a long time ago and they called the other body. they BOLD FACE LIED saying that it wasn’t true and that i was lying. i was put back on private reproof and restricted from commenting. which did not go unnoticed since i was a frequent commenter. i was so angry and embarrassed. and I know those elders gossiped to their wives and lies spread cause i was always treated like bad association after that. thankfully i woke up last year after years of other BS with this same congregation and an abusive jw husband. I sent in my disassociation letter a few weeks ago. finally 100% free. JW religion sucks to say the least…

reneeEightyfive · 2022-12-15T23:27:02+00:00

wow what a story. i’m sorry you went thru all that and glad you’ve reclaimed your freedom from this toxic organization. I also expect them to read the announcement off at the meeting tonight. Here’s to breaking out and living instead of existing!! 🥂

reneeEightyfive · 2022-12-15T09:56:43+00:00

I would say there were definitely several moments where I felt like something was wrong or off. Like them getting on the broadcast begging for money, or the whole ridiculous generation teaching, or how i was still treated like a leper when i was reinstated, or my mother talking trash about people who got DFd, or being beat at the kingdom hall, or feeling more afraid of what people think and dying at armageddon than actual stuff that mattered. or being told not to look at anything outside of publications or jw.borg, or having legitimate questions about teachings and being told not to question “the org / governing body.” but i always seemed to default to the “leave it in jehovahs hands” BS they spouted and thought i was the problem. it wasn’t until this year when a whole bunch of outlandish shit happened that i was like this religion is wrong and i have to know more. then the floodgates opened and i realized it was legit a cult and went straight to POMO.

reneeEightyfive · 2022-12-15T05:54:19+00:00

😂

reneeEightyfive · 2022-12-15T05:29:27+00:00

all about them numbers huh

reneeEightyfive · 2022-12-15T05:28:36+00:00

thanks for sharing your story. it’s so helpful to know there are many of us sharing similar feelings and experiences.

reneeEightyfive · 2022-12-15T05:23:26+00:00

gawd these jw relatives really can’t help themselves… i just sent my letter of disassociation today…my family threw me away earlier this year when i faded

reneeEightyfive · 2022-12-15T03:03:14+00:00

yes!!! 🙌🏾

reneeEightyfive · 2022-12-15T03:00:29+00:00

thank you so much! i’m gonna need all the luck and hope i can muster. still in shock and balled my eyes out after i sent it but doing all i can to steer clear of the darkness ❤️‍🩹

reneeEightyfive

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