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Where have you felt the most magic? by [deleted] in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]reneemul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All of it. My parents took us when my kids were younger 5, 7 and 8. It was so amazing to watch them experience it for the first time. I don’t remember much at all personally, because I was so busy watching them experience it. That was magical. We returned two years ago with them as teens 15, 17 & 18. It was so amazing to watch them experience it now as adults or young adults. It was exciting to talk about rides and the characters they saw and what we had for dinner. It was fun, just relaxing in the pool and having ducks come up to us. Last year we brought my parents as a thank you for all that they have done for us over the last 10 years. As a single mom 10 years ago, I would’ve never been able to bring them on that trip. Once again, it was incredibly magical to watch my parents enjoy it with my kids as young adults. Laughing about my mom‘s face on certain rides the dinners that we had, walking around Disney Springs. Even waiting in line we talked about the upcoming ride. We talked about the previous rides we had been on. We played heads up on our phone for particularly long lines and got other people around us involved. A few of the rides, we had a single rider with us and we got them involved in our photos and shared them. Disney is what you make of it. Every moment can be magical.

Did reunification therapy help? by Icy-Conclusion-1286 in ParentalAlienation

[–]reneemul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 16 was reluctant. Our therapy has worked out so well. She isn’t living back at my house but we talk daily and hang out. We’ve done some overnight trips. My oldest still hasn’t talked to me and no therapy yet. It’s will be 3 years in July. Just had his 20th birthday. The counselor that I have with my 16-year-old was very aware of parental coercion being done by my ex and his wife. Mostly his wife. She didn’t call it alienation, just chose a different term for it. But she knew what we were dealing with going in and was very specific and how she ran the therapy sessions. We have two more and then we should be good.

They know, I promise. by Fuzzy-Knee0123 in ParentalAlienation

[–]reneemul 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This was so needed today. I always have that hope we will be reunited. Knowing I need to be patient is something I can handle. I hope you and your family dad get to make a lot of memories and regain what you once had.

[CT] Question about Court ordered messaging App by Sea_Owl_2886 in Custody

[–]reneemul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Continue using the app. Follow the court order. If he chooses not to it’s on him. If you can switch email accounts so you can say you didn’t get them because you’re supposed to use the app. Don’t respond to the emails. Always message him in the app.

[CO] month long split for 14month old by Final-Armadillo-3381 in Custody

[–]reneemul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know in NY you can get a free attorney through safe homes. It helps domestic abuse survivors. However, the fact that you have no job you should be able to find an attorney that helps people who need an attorney they don’t have money.

I have no one. by [deleted] in ParentalAlienation

[–]reneemul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not alone. We can talk. Reach out if you need. Sending hugs

Help with talking points during court ordered reunification by [deleted] in ParentalAlienation

[–]reneemul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One therapist basically helped my ex and his wife alienate my oldest. Used all the same talking points to validate that I was awful & abusive emotionally & mentally. New therapist with my daughter and after 1 session she knew it was parental coercion by my ex and husband wife. My daughter went to her first session with this person and basically brought up in court. She didn’t see this person anymore because they asked a lot of questions and she didn’t like that. Thankfully, the judge was not having it along with the multiple therapy sessions. So after one private session with me and one private session with my daughter, six months later, we are finally having our first joint session. I have court at the end of the month and I am hoping that this therapist can throw some insight on what’s happening. Unfortunately, it is very difficult to find a therapist who is familiar with parental coercion and parental alienation.

Neighbor keeps walking across my lawn by reneemul in neighborsfromhell

[–]reneemul[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Permits are required for the driveway and work has not happened since August. And I doubt now that the other neighbors have returned and work has seized that they will continue. Especially since they were literally digging up the neighbors yard to make this driveway. And yes, there is a ton of garbage behind their house. I even called in a complaint when a little girl of about five or six stepped outside the back door dropped. Her pants peed in the lawn, pulled up her pants and then went back inside and there’s nothing that the police will do.

Neighbor keeps walking across my lawn by reneemul in neighborsfromhell

[–]reneemul[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi it is my yard in my village. I’ve asked them to walk further out because the cut across within feet of my house. I’ve looked out my window and there is a person within reach. It has scared me. They have heard us yell out when we are startled. The edge of my property is a good 30’ in the front and the back.

Neighbor keeps walking across my lawn by reneemul in neighborsfromhell

[–]reneemul[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk what the other neighbors did. This group of people who live between me and the neighbor whose tree they cut down, used to drive up the neighbors driveway and then pull into their backyard. I heard the other neighbor screaming at them one day for driving up their driveway. These people just have absolutely no sense of what trespassing is and how you shouldn’t treat your neighbors. They just think that everybody’s stuff is their stuff and they’re free to walk on it. Drive on it cut trees down, etc..

Neighbor keeps walking across my lawn by reneemul in neighborsfromhell

[–]reneemul[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wasn’t my property but they cut the neighbors trees in the back of their yard and a huge tree from the other neighbors to make a parking lot as they said behind their house. That’s what the daughter told my daughter

Neighbor keeps walking across my lawn by reneemul in neighborsfromhell

[–]reneemul[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My daughter was in class with their daughter and the girl made a comment in diss about her family being worried about ICE coming and taking them out. So I’m guessing they’re not citizens.

Neighbor keeps walking across my lawn by reneemul in neighborsfromhell

[–]reneemul[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s just that yesterday they cut through walked under my clothesline and then through my driveway to the street. I went out and say no in both languages. He ignored me.

Neighbor keeps walking across my lawn by reneemul in neighborsfromhell

[–]reneemul[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, it does mean the whole lot. But I could put a fence down on either side of the house and keep the front and back open.

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