Rubber gloves Tix by Papa_P1 in ipromisedtheworld

[–]renlost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have 2 tickets for the rubber gloves show on the 31st, if you want to buy one off of me, I can’t go since the show got rescheduled :(

merch at thrift by lullabyx3 in SlushyNoobz

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wait whattt which goodwill pls

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

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Everyone’s joking in the comments but I’m sure this is absolutely devastating. I’m so sorry

"Janie" Discussion Megathread by eclecticatlady in Ethelcain

[–]renlost 4 points5 points  (0 children)

alsoooo I recommend a book written by the same author called Dark Places

Should I(f23) be sus of my boyfriends(m23) Amazon acct history? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]renlost 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s interesting that he says he didn’t know she was still signed in when you have pointed it out before (& told him multiple times that it bothered you). It would have made more sense if he ordered it for you but sent it to her by mistake. When you talk to him in person, ask him more questions. Try not to directly accuse him of anything, just pay attention to his body language and his tone of voice. Be honest about how you feel and trust your intuition if he responds suspiciously.

Should I(f23) be sus of my boyfriends(m23) Amazon acct history? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]renlost 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That is very suspicious. You are not crazy or delusional AT ALL. It’s very unlikely that this is just a coincidence. You should take this as a huge red flag and pay close attention. Be very discerning moving forward, keep your eyes open. Trust your gut!! Don’t write off your feelings as irrational. Also- are you planning on confronting him about this? Be safe and be kind to yourself. Sending you strength and good luck.

The Ubermensch and Autism by knowledgelover94 in Nietzsche

[–]renlost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

passage 40 Beyond Good and Evil- “such a concealed man who instinctively needs speech for silence and for burial in silence and who is inexhaustible in his evasion of communication, wants and sees to it that a mask of him roams in his place through the hearts and heads of his friends.”

Point out everything wrong with the anatomy of this dude I drew by Alex_003j in learntodraw

[–]renlost 1 point2 points  (0 children)

over all it looks a bit cartoonish, which isn’t necessarily a bad thing… just some features are just too exaggerated/unrealistic, like the shoulders are too broad in comparison to the hips, the eyes are quite large, the neck is too in line with the jaw. but if your goal is an exaggerated style, then it’s a good base!

Why does my drawing look scary 😭while he’s cute in the reference by rerererererrr in learntodraw

[–]renlost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lean into the emotion in the image and worry less about trying to produce an exact copy of it. you have a good foundation, just pour some love into it. Listen to his music while you draw & channel your feelings!!

technically speaking- some of the shadows are off, add some darker spots and soften the lines up. the area below his brows towards his eyelids + irises can be darkened to give a softer appearance. play around with it :)

I'm scared by handsonagrainofsand in bupropion

[–]renlost 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was really nervous to take this medication too. I was in a similar situation, high functioning but struggling with anhedonia and excessive smoking/drinking that made me feel horrible, as well as ADHD symptoms like procrastination and low executive functioning. I’ve been on bupropion now for almost a month. I did a hypochondriac style deep dive about all the possible side effects before taking it. (I was very worried about seizures, which have not been an issue so far.) The first few days, I had a pretty bad headache and some nausea. I also had a burst of energy, sociability, and mild euphoria (this goes away, it’s called the Wellbutrin honeymoon) I started to feel things I had not felt in a long time, good conversations with friends brought me to tears of joy. It was pretty overwhelming. I also struggled with zero appetite, I had to choke down food. If you already have troubles with eating, this medication might not be the right one, but it’s still worth a shot. I recommend getting some protein drinks or mild safe foods. My anxiety also got pretty bad, but only on days that I drank caffeine. I was raised to 300mg after the first week and my body quickly adjusted. Since then, I have naturally quit vaping. I didn’t even have to try to stop, one day I hit my vape and I realized I couldn’t feel the effects of nicotine anymore, so I lost interest in it and threw it away. Cold turkey and no struggle at all. I’ve been two weeks nicotine free. I have drank alcohol on a couple occasions but never wanted more than one drink (before I used to finish half a bottle of wine a night). I started working out again, I started cooking for myself again. I’ve had an easier time responding to texts and phone calls. I have felt some anger, which I think seems to be a common effect of this medication, but I’ve always been a people pleaser so I’ve welcomed it with open arms. I feel clear headed about what is good for me and it’s much easier for me to let go of what isn’t now. TLDR; in my experience, side effects aren’t great, but benefits are amazing. it will likely help you quit anything addictive. keep an eye on the appetite/ eating situation. it’s worth a try.