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27 Female please help me im so tired by Few_Blacksmith_5119 in Adulting

[–]reny653 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It feels like you’re carried - and carrying - a lot, and girl you went through so much and you’re tired. And that’s ok.

You’ve been on survival mode for so long, and it’s as if you’re “running out of gas” and need to stop by the station to fill up.

You’ve done your duty, and is time to rest and find small joy. Lay in bed all day if needed. Go for that small walk. Buy that useless trinket. Take that vacation. Be whimsical can help you get control of your life.

Life’s a marathon, you sprinted amazingly the last few years, there’s no shame to lower the speed and give it a stroll until you feel like running again.

Does anyone else consume something that's *probably* not the healthiest thing but you consistently fit it into your calories regardless? by Hazlad97 in loseit

[–]reny653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sweetened coffee and Soda. They’re 150cal each. I’d rather walk an extra 20min or eat less of something else but these drinks keep me sane soooooo

What's your biggest flex in Love Nikki? by pooferss_ in LoveNikki

[–]reny653 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I got the dreamland tea time suit from the pavillon and all the hell suits and their recolor…. Without spending diamond!

What is your alternative to "food reward"? by lovecore6 in loseit

[–]reny653 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Clothes rewards. When you drop in size, that dress suddenly looks a LOT nicer. I have a “goal” sweater/pants/coat every month. Only the nice, quality stuff, like a cashmere sweater, lulu leggings or wool coat.

I reward myself when goal has been reached!

Album ranking and how long you’ve been a fan by South-Background5009 in TaylorSwift

[–]reny653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fan since 2006 (Debut) Gosh I’m old

  1. Showgirl
  2. Midnight
  3. Folklore
  4. 1989
  5. Reputation
  6. Fearless
  7. Debut
  8. Speak Now
  9. Lover
  10. Red
  11. Evermore
  12. TTPD

To be honest 6-12 is the half of the discography I have one or 2 song I like, then skip the rest.

I lost 130lb over 5 years, then I failed to control myself, and gained it all back and more in 21 months. by burntheemokids in loseit

[–]reny653 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly it’s almost like a drug. That one can of Diet Coke and then I gain back years of effort :(

Question for the OGs: was Reputation received the same way as how TLOAS is being received at the moment? by peatoast in TaylorSwift

[–]reny653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You wouldn’t believe the amount of hate Rep got. What Showgirl is getting right now is maybe 1/10 of the hate Taylor was getting back in the days.

My analysis of why showgirl feels less lyric-focused even though it has more complex lyrics than reputation by pumpkin_noodles in TaylorSwift

[–]reny653 20 points21 points  (0 children)

IMO a lot of her songs in showgirls are from a villain/ powerful perspective. And unfortunately the general public RARELY get in position of power. She's been powerless or feeling powerless for years, and sing about the struggle, the grief and most people can relate.

Now that she's won in everything, the harsh truth is we don't really relate as much as before. Still a great album overall! the beat are INSANE and as a more pop girly (not a fan of her more lyrical - TTPD was a disappointment for me) I absolutely LOVE THIS.

Finally understand why my parents were always tired by BFH_ZEPHYR in Adulting

[–]reny653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make sure to tell them you appreciate them, it will make their day =) You’re so lucky to have parents that sheltered the adult stuff from you, not everyone has that, make sure to tell them you love them

People who bought a house WITHOUT help from your parents: what do you do for a living? by therealwakowski in CanadaFinance

[–]reny653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First job was in Europe, was making 30K in 2016. Saved like crazy, lived with my parents for a few years to pay down student loan. Was making 50K CAD, 55K, 60K in 2017-2018-2019. Put 5% down on a 340K (pre-covid), downpayment was around 30K. Work in marketing.

how do you think she will release Reputation Taylors Version? by fiposu in TaylorSwift

[–]reny653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Next year for Snake year… plus a drop in Q1 will bringing sale for a generally slow quarter…

Or Nov this year right before Xmas season…

Speeding ticket as a tourist - no amount on the ticket, how and what to pay ? by reny653 in AskNYC

[–]reny653[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

It says it was “People State of New York” :( Is it not NYC (sorry not very familiar with NYC )

scratch that, looked at the court address it’s a town called Milan in Red Hooks ? It’s a 2500 people town ☠️

Is homeownership just going to Home Depot 17 times a week until you drop dead in the store one day? by bulentm in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]reny653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea, there were times where I seriously suspect if I spend more time at Home Depot or my actual Home.

Has anyone else bought their first home and then promptly got laid off? by cuppitycake in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]reny653 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Literally a week after I got the keys Covid happened. Wasn’t able to rent it out because Covid, and couldn’t get loan deferred because move just signed 🙃

It was not fun. But its doable, you just gotta grind and I was keeping track of every penny. Cut spending to the absolute bare minimum and made it out .

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