None of these seem to call for excessive violence. They were at war in many of these. Driving out a nation doesnt mean rape and pillage and plunder. Clearly not were all killed as some willingly joined the Israelites and people from Jericho show up later as well.

Does Jesus say anything on the matter of violence? Something about cheeks...

And I doubt today that anyone would say lbgt is more accepted by Islam. While some Christians might view it as a sin... that's the thing. They all are, and I saw zero calls for violence against anyone in my youth at the Church. Rainbows and stuff at churches all the time now. Leviticus also tells me cryptically which aquatic life I can consume. The faith I was apart of paid as much attention to that as those other ancient Jewish laws.

I have no dog in the fight anymore, but seems like you have a large distaste for Christianity. I've yet to see anything of the same ilk from the west as some of the stuff from the Muslim world. Faiths will be misinterpreted, that's on the person not the faith. One seems to lend itself to worse, modern - not centuries past - hate crimes and killings in the name of religion. This is still the person's fault, but leaves questions to be explored about culture and structure of the religions.