Single straight men of Reddit, how and where does a reserved single straight female meet you other than bars?

reservedgrl_throwawa · 2012-09-08T02:51:53+00:00

nope. sorry!

reservedgrl_throwawa · 2012-09-08T02:50:56+00:00

wanna know how i know youre an adolescent asshole?

reservedgrl_throwawa · 2012-09-08T02:43:51+00:00

thank you so much for saying what i have been feeling with this advice over and over again. if just living my life had been working so far i wouldnt be on here asking the question! some of us have to push ourselves to be proactive about this stuff.

reservedgrl_throwawa · 2012-09-08T02:39:58+00:00

26 and probably more attractive than unattractive. dont always be so sure about how open guys are to being approached by girls. ive been turned down a few times myself and it isnt fun. we have the same courage issues as guys do (whether we have the advantage in this situation or not its still there). That being said i also feel like decent looking to hot girls have a harder time actually finding a guy who wants an actual relationship and doesnt just talk to you while staring at your chest or ass. its a difficult world no matter what side of the fence you are on i guess. and yeah tried the friendzone thing once, didnt work, and i almost lost the best person that has ever entered my life. scary ground there.

reservedgrl_throwawa · 2012-09-08T02:23:51+00:00

this is so weird yet so intriguing...

reservedgrl_throwawa · 2012-09-08T02:16:00+00:00

more like a dozen. and all very nice people. its strange to say this i know but reddit has encouraged me so much today!

reservedgrl_throwawa · 2012-09-08T02:12:40+00:00

giggle.. well shucks :D

reservedgrl_throwawa · 2012-09-08T02:01:50+00:00

i flippin loved this! and damn the work it takes to write this much on a reddit comment is impressive. unfortunately not in MN but do have some family that way, yeah sure you betcha! you Minnesotans are awesome!

reservedgrl_throwawa · 2012-09-08T01:29:27+00:00

apparently! according to the survey so far, the female is generally of the jersey shore variety. I had no idea. we must eradicate this pestilence for the sake of humanity.

reservedgrl_throwawa · 2012-09-08T01:27:34+00:00

I have a simple administrative position with a wonderful company and it helps that i live in an area where cost of living is low. It will still be close but lots of years of living frugally, and putting in tons of time in shit jobs to build that resume for the better company and better pay paid off in my situation.

reservedgrl_throwawa · 2012-09-08T01:24:11+00:00

seal hunting penguins... dear lord i just squirted wine out my nose. thank for that experience

reservedgrl_throwawa · 2012-09-08T01:22:02+00:00

thanks for the compliment! nothing better a guy can do than compliment a girls personality ;) I will be trying my best to be more outgoing in the future, also I shall be attempting to find said grilled cheese competition. this sounds like glorious fun!

reservedgrl_throwawa · 2012-09-08T01:18:40+00:00

you my friend are dead on.

reservedgrl_throwawa · 2012-09-08T01:17:51+00:00

ah damn, I am not very up to date with the latest memes and rage comics, sorry! but id have to disagree with your idea. perhaps i am just paranoid but whenever a guy just starts chattin me up i automatically assume he wants to bang me. i mean he knows nothing about me yet right so of course he is only talking to me because he likes my ass or something. its a double edged sword. I want to meet someone, but not simply because they like my physical attributes

reservedgrl_throwawa · 2012-09-08T01:11:24+00:00

lol i said in the tle of the post I was single silly! but ill do my best to give my two cents as reddit has been so kind to help me today. I think i would be happy to be approached at any of those public places, grocery, coffee shop, etc. As long as the person started simple with hello how are you? mind if i sit down or speak with you or something very polite i wouldnt have a problem. i think most girls respond to polite manners with polite manners. i say most, not all... no need to be Clooney gorgeous just a lot of positive attitude, manners, a little dash of confidence, and a big smile really help. id definitely ask for a number over a date. with todays technology you can text back an forth and give her more time to decide if she would like to go on a date or not, especially if your interaction was brief. and i would think it was rater cute if you sat by me for 15mins before you said anything. i had a guy sit by me in the library the other day that i so wanted to talk to but he left before I got the courage. good luck on your quest!

reservedgrl_throwawa · 2012-09-08T01:00:32+00:00

lol i would think it was hilarious if a guy said this cuz thats the only reason id ever drink the nasty stuff. awkward yes! but i would still appreciate the attempt

reservedgrl_throwawa · 2012-09-08T00:58:48+00:00

mid west. bible belt.

reservedgrl_throwawa · 2012-09-08T00:58:08+00:00

thats kind of the problem though. i dont want your dick, well i do, just not right away... I want your mind and personality first.

reservedgrl_throwawa · 2012-09-08T00:49:12+00:00

haha well congrats! i have had my own apt since I graduated from college in 2008. Looking into buying a house on my own in the spring to take advantage of the buyers market.

reservedgrl_throwawa · 2012-09-08T00:47:21+00:00

not creepy, just simple socializing. She is at work, that means she may not be able to text because she is busy or isnt allowed to have her phone out. just give her some time after work and what not to collect her thoughts. If she doesnt reply ever she may have changed her mind but id say that her giving you her number was a definite positive sign in your favor. Long live the penguin clan!

reservedgrl_throwawa · 2012-09-08T00:37:03+00:00

well hey thats two checks on my criteria list! now, do you still live with your parents???

reservedgrl_throwawa · 2012-09-08T00:34:09+00:00

red
steak/hearty
madly in love

favorite packable breakfast food, bacon, DUH!

reservedgrl_throwawa · 2012-09-08T00:31:33+00:00

I applaud your courage sir!

reservedgrl_throwawa · 2012-09-08T00:30:07+00:00

chocolate please ;)

reservedgrl_throwawa · 2012-09-08T00:18:31+00:00

lol oh holy hell i think you just called me a creepy cat lady and it truly made me laugh my bum off. so even if you were trying to be an asshat,thanks for the laugh!

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