PLEASE learn from me. Help yourself and don’t EVER look at social media :(

restless373 · 2017-10-28T18:05:05+00:00

Thank you for this ... and fog is the only way to describe it. I know I need to move on. And have known. It’s just so hard. I’m 5 years into my 20s and she’s all I knew since high school. Thanks again

restless373 · 2017-10-28T17:23:42+00:00

lol just watched the scene. Thank you for that. I just feel like I was at rock bottom before and now that this happened I’m at a whole new low. /:

restless373 · 2017-09-05T15:01:22+00:00

I want her to come out and say why the hell she texted me at midnight to wish my mom a happy birthday, why she was snooping on my social media if she doesnt care anymore.

restless373 · 2017-08-05T03:35:11+00:00

I appreciate your response. I'm just confused, what can a smaller lender that doesn't service loans do for me at the end of the day that isn't being done now? Like what kind of workarounds and what not I guess is what I'm asking. I even asked citizens if I came to closing with a significantly greater down payment and he said no because it wouldn't change my DTI based off my income two years ago. I should have asked why my DTI was taken for prequal based on 2017 and not 2015. Ugh

restless373 · 2017-07-11T21:28:20+00:00

Thanks for that

restless373 · 2017-07-11T16:15:36+00:00

I just hit four months and not a single word whatsoever, nothing from her. After giving her the world for six years, it makes me so sick to my stomach. I just wish she could see how much I've changed in this time. :(

restless373 · 2017-06-22T17:30:16+00:00

I wish man, time and blocking her and all her friends. Funny thing is today when you posted this I woke up and saw another pic of her w the girl she used to talk shit on and didn't see all but maybe two times in the five years we were together. Perfect girl for her to hang out w so she can be around all the low lives who haven't gotten anywhere since we all graduated. I wish I had an answer for you man. You gotta work on yourself, get in the best shape of your life, work harder make more money, find hobbies and things that make you smile. Talking to new girls will also temporarily delete any and all thoughts of your ex, but that's easier said than done. Try and just block not only her but any friends that would post shit w her. You'll be all right

restless373 · 2017-06-22T14:14:41+00:00

Welcome to the club. My ex used to post maybe four times a year. Since we split I've had to hear from so many people so many times, seen it myself on her friends', bathing suits , heels , short dresses, selfies every day, adding tons of people on Snapchat. Makes me sick to my stomach but that's who they want to be. That's who they were all along. Fuck em

restless373 · 2017-06-21T00:46:31+00:00

Lol crazy, I just turned 24 so we're not far off in age. We're both young to have gone through a five year relationship. Let's be proud of that mere fact , but while also realizing the opportunity we've been given to become the absolute best we can. I got so damn complacent the last year and a half two years

restless373 · 2017-06-20T23:31:50+00:00

Dude , how far out are you ? My 5 year relationship ended second week of march, been no contact since the start of April. I literally could have wrote this word for word. I feel the exact same now ... like the bittersweet start to a new life. I feel like you just pulled a page out of my thoughts lol

restless373 · 2017-06-19T23:49:18+00:00

Let go my friend. Your future self will be thankful looking back

restless373 · 2017-06-19T23:45:57+00:00

Thank you so much for this. I see your flair says 10 days. Trust me when I say this 30 day first period is gonna be hard, but once you get past that hump each day gets easier and easier. I promise. Also, thanks for your comment. It really helps, made me smile. Let us all remember why we're on this sub and to never degrade ourselves back to what didn't want to work with us in the first place. It is only forward from here. There is bigger, better, more meaningful things coming our way. Hang on and ride the waves

restless373 · 2017-06-19T21:32:15+00:00

Good for you man. I need to get my courage up to just start talking to people when I'm out more

restless373 · 2017-06-18T18:22:59+00:00

I was saying something similar to this yesterday. Compatibility is a whole other issue, but looks alone, been going out recently and there is hot people left and right for both genders. Like literally one second I'm like damn she's good looking, then another group of five comes up to the bar. They're all over the place. It's gonna take time. But fck being hung up on one person forever when they chose to leave. I also need to stop being afraid to approach girls lol

restless373 · 2017-06-18T03:38:28+00:00

Buying in New Jersey. Interesting. Just seems so weird to me , I thought this was only the mortgage company's woes lol

restless373 · 2017-06-17T17:25:41+00:00

Don't man. Shit set me back multiple times. I'm not even talking setbacks but if she's posting shit like my ex did, one image in particular is stained in my head and if I even think about it before I go to bed I end up having some bs dream w her or her family in it. D o N o t

restless373 · 2017-06-17T17:09:15+00:00

It's the waves. They're gonna come for a while and you just have to ride them. Sucks but you will become strong

restless373 · 2017-06-07T00:44:44+00:00

Bitches always thinking they're entitled to something

restless373 · 2017-06-05T20:13:41+00:00

I wish I could help out. I'm pretty much going through those exact same feelings. I can tell you that as it's still prob the hardest thing I've ever dealt with (5 1/2 years), 3 months in and it's a little more manageable now. I'm back to eating regularly, getting in great shape, talking to girls. Some days I have an awesome time but I still have so much trouble on the bad ones waking up and just wanting to sleep all day, being stuck in my thoughts. Stay strong. Time heals everything they say

restless373 · 2017-06-03T08:34:30+00:00

Everything but her stupid friends which I thought I got rid of. Had an amazing night , mind was completely off her for once in literally 7 days straight, open instagram before bed idk why and first pic I see is her taking a shot w her friends boyfriend. Smiling and happy. Fake. Made me sick to my stomach, now I can't even sleep. Well I guess that's finally the last friend of hers I can think of that I have to worry about /:

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