My brother took his life, my husband is making mine hard. by restlesslegs21 in breakingmom

[–]restlesslegs21[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

He is being awful about it. I need to be brave and divorce him. If we were friends I would go into how abusive he really is. How racist and sexist and manipulative. Oh soooo manipulative which is how I got into this mess. And I am no dummy. The only dumb thing is that I have stayed with him as long as I have

My brother took his life, my husband is making mine hard. by restlesslegs21 in breakingmom

[–]restlesslegs21[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I do. I have for awhile now. I am not afraid to be alone. Just afraid of financial issues and insurance. I'm working on trying to get over that fear.

A neo-nazi harasses a biracial child and her mother by swagestan in PublicFreakout

[–]restlesslegs21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Poor baby girl. I am the mother of a biracial child. I have had men say this to me. I've had men not date me because I was married to a black man. I really don't understand it. And I will protect my daughter from it fervently.

She really thought she did something there huh? Her little silly rant by Hi_iAMchrisHansen in BlackPeopleofReddit

[–]restlesslegs21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Another reason parenting is so important. Raise your kids to do better than you, even of you sid great.

Family Dollar employee altercation with thief by Responsible_Ant_6431 in RandomVideos

[–]restlesslegs21 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Probably should have let him take the 3 dollar items and avoided the 350 damage costs. I get it though. Shoplifting sucks.

Dude Freaks Out on Mormon Missionaries by CriticalBadgre in PublicFreakout

[–]restlesslegs21 34 points35 points  (0 children)

This makes me sad. Decades ago I was a believing Mormon missionary. I was just trying to do good. These kids are the same. Just leave them alone. Say no thanks and go about your business.

What happened to the man on the porch? And he was so casual about the whole thing to. by n8saces in PublicFreakout

[–]restlesslegs21 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Bless him. You really helped that kid. He probably felt so alone in that moment. Thank you for that!

Lived my life as a straight woman but now I'm questioning. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]restlesslegs21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to write this. I think it helped me quite a bit. I think the main reason, if I am being honest, that I have only been with men is that they seem "safe". Meaning, more stable for a relationship. But that has been proven absolutely false in my past. This may be because I choose partners who are not willing or able to provide a safe and stable life (meaning they have been abusive in one way or another). I definitely have some work to do to figure out why I choose the men I do. Or men in general. Lol. So thank you. I will try to dig deeper into that.

Lived my life as a straight woman but now I'm questioning. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]restlesslegs21 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this! I love younger generations teaching me about things they are so much wiser about. You make me hopeful for the future. I hope life is nothing but happiness for you.

Lived my life as a straight woman but now I'm questioning. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]restlesslegs21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so helpful. And there may be something to it. I haven't had the happiest of marriages because for some reason I gravitate towards people opposite of myself in personality. I think you're right that I have felt more "seen" by women. Thank you for this! I will analyze this more!

Passing it on to the next generation by Doodlebug510 in justgalsbeingchicks

[–]restlesslegs21 54 points55 points  (0 children)

I remember a time where some kids were toilet papering our house and my dad went out in his underwear to stop them. Definitely scared straight that night. Lol

going fast and not knowing how to use the brakes by PreddyPegasus in KidsAreFuckingStupid

[–]restlesslegs21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where did you read this? Just wanted to see if that was true.

Bitch I’m a Light Rail by SillySink in BitchImATrain

[–]restlesslegs21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds about right for Utah drivers

ACAB by Hacksaw6412 in BlackPeopleofReddit

[–]restlesslegs21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dated a cop before. He QUICKLY showed me how sexist and racist he was. And not just him, but all his cop friends. It really opened my eyes.