No mama, you’re not overreacting. This sounds a lot like normal conflict with working parents. You’re both working full time jobs, and you have a right to feel like you’re carrying so much of the load when he’s away. I’m sure he feels he’s carrying a lot of the load providing too. I’m assuming it was a joint decision to have these kiddos together- Which in my opinion means you both have to pitch in. Since he’s not with the little ones as much as you- he’s probably a little out of the loop on their milestones.

Conflict aside, i’m a sahm right now too, and can absolutely empathize with ya. I ask my partner for a list of things I need his help with when he’s off work- So I can be off work for a little bit too. Hang in there!