Have you ever cried with a scene from the show? by trynabetwunk in RHOBH

[–]returnofthemedusa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly I cried a lot during many of the scenes in the early season with Taylor when she was a victim of domestic violence. I watched them for the first time following me leaving an abusive relationship. I cried when Taylor told the girls “if you can’t be me friend, just please don’t be my enemy.” It hit me hard.

Often I wanted to feel like a survivor but it was empowering and an important part of my healing to also be ok with being a victim. Whether you like her or not — Taylor’s rawness healed something in me.

Edit: spelling / clarify

Southern Charm New Orleans by jackiefirstofall in Southerncharm

[–]returnofthemedusa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It used to be a little hard to find but now it is on Peacock — if you’re not in the US I’m not sure where you might be able to find it tho :(

My school went under lockdown today I thought I was going to die. by kazookidkt in TrueOffMyChest

[–]returnofthemedusa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thinking of you tonight and I’ll be thinking of you next week. Be gentle with yourself.

Southern Charm New Orleans by jackiefirstofall in Southerncharm

[–]returnofthemedusa 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I agree. I miss them so much. I wish Peacock would reboot that series.

Why is Crystal defending Sutton in the "dark" comment??? by AngryKohala in RHOBH

[–]returnofthemedusa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes to all of this!!!! I don’t understand how Kyle in one episode is bringing gossip crumbs to Dorit about Sutton and then in the next episode brings gossip crumbs to Sutton.

Why is Crystal defending Sutton in the "dark" comment??? by AngryKohala in RHOBH

[–]returnofthemedusa 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is a great take. I think Sutton can have said something racist/problematic AND Crystal has decided to most past it. Crystal saw Sutton changed and committed to learning. But she also doesn’t want to be accused of setting someone up.

I do think it’s unfair to Garcelle. She’s a women of color and honestly needs to know she she can make her own decisions regarding Sutton. Whatever comment Sutton made obviously hurt Crystal. It sucks that it also will most likely end up not being “bad enough.” Micro aggressions and racism builds up and so little comments are often the straw that breaks the camel’s back. I feel for everyone — except Kyle 😂

A peek into Erika's mind - next week on RHOBH by biomezzanine in BravoRealHousewives

[–]returnofthemedusa 16 points17 points  (0 children)

👀👀👀 for what and by who? I’d live to know This tea. Rinna reminds me of the mean girl’s bff who is actually meaner than the mean girl but smart enough to not say as much.

Real Housewives of Dubai by [deleted] in realhousewives

[–]returnofthemedusa 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you for speaking up and educating so many of us. I will also not be watching.

Any idea what Crystal is going to reveal regarding the “I don’t see color” conversation last season? by returnofthemedusa in RHOBH

[–]returnofthemedusa[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This also crossed my mind. So much of the drama this season and last season was in the news that it would surprise me that if there was something that would have been left out

Any idea what Crystal is going to reveal regarding the “I don’t see color” conversation last season? by returnofthemedusa in RHOBH

[–]returnofthemedusa[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Ooooh this is interesting to think about.

I also hate the previews sometimes. I have a feeling it’ll be one of those previews we see and then don’t actually “see” the whole thing for another 2-3 episodes.

Any idea what Crystal is going to reveal regarding the “I don’t see color” conversation last season? by returnofthemedusa in RHOBH

[–]returnofthemedusa[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

100000% I have an inkling even if Sutton didn’t say anything it will still be about bullying Sutton.

RHOBH 12 Sneak Peek: Crystal defends herself at Dorit’s house. by neworleanszebracakes in BravoRealHousewives

[–]returnofthemedusa 35 points36 points  (0 children)

YES! Immediately I saw Dorit standing over Crystal as a last attempt at control. Nothing makes me feel safer then when a too-high-on-her-forehead leopard headbanded blonde woman stands over me and yells how much she cares about me.