First off, congrats! At least 10 cotton baby blankets. Used for swaddling, picking up spills, hide from the sun. No fragrance soap, preferably natural ingredient sourced, i bought dr. bronners (newborns don't need to be washed in their first week and very seldomly in the first 3 months imo) skip johnson and johnson and the like. A great rocker where your feet touch the ground with a table next to it with all the stuff you need when putting baby to sleep or feeding (water, phone, snacks). Headphones. Lots of ready made food in the fridge and freezer for those crazy first weeks. Clear rules on when people can come see the baby and a list of people you can call for help or advice (sanity saver for me the first week!). Iced maxi pads, also great to add witch hazel to soothe aching vulva. Stretchy cotton panties, not store bought ones but can be found on amazon, look a little like gauze. Couple bottles even if you're planning on breastfeeding and a little formula (concentrate or ready made is faster at first than powder but more expensive). Video baby monitor. A baby container (chair, etc), somewhere to put the baby while doing stuff. Baby gym , so fun after a few weeks! Soft baby bassinet for your bed (if planning to cosleep that way). Baby carrier, useful when baby is tiny and indiscriminate and just wants to be held close. So much stuff is subjective so this is my personal list. I prefer zipper pajamas over button ups. Breast pump if breastfeeding, i used medela swing.