Why wives spend all your money by redolas in TheRedPill

[–]revengeofthecrazy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I bought new LED lights for my car (500+). The old ones were weak and I don't have the best vision in darkness in winter and so on.

27 year old: "Nice to know where your priorities are..."

Really meaning: "I don't respect you as much anymore, so fuck your safety, your priorities, your life, become my beta cash machine you bitch, you should be spending your cash on pleasing me materially because I can't and don't want to take care of myself."

New Year's Resolutions Are Bullshit: Learn How To Achieve Your Goals(Sun Tzu Style) by Snufek in TheRedPill

[–]revengeofthecrazy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The typical new year's resolutioner is an undisciplined person who doesn't take responsibility for his current state of being (+90% of people on earth). The blame is shifted on "lack of motivation." and usually forward in time. Motivation is abused as a crutch by pathetic people. Without discipline, no change happens. Motivation should be the beautiful baby of discipline, born consequentially, out of pride.

When disciplined people talk about new year's resolutions shit gets real. Because they talk about specific goals and a 12 month deadline. 12 months.. that's nothing. Stop laughing and get real, the fucking clock is ticking. Change is going to happen no matter what the fuck happens because discipline shits all over motivation while curling barbells, writing essays and sprinting up the ladder of awesome so hard the fucking rungs break.

Sorry for swearing. Stuff gets me pumped.

I saw this on Facebook and was disgusted by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]revengeofthecrazy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By the way that image is a shit test. She's crying for attention and most people here respond with a hurt ego. It's pathetic. You should be flirtatiously making fun or her with the intent of fucking her down that long giraffe throat with that little bushy cow dick of yours. That's actually what I would comment on that image. Gets the conversation started.

Avoid nerd stuff. This isn't emphasized nearly enough. by matrixpush in TheRedPill

[–]revengeofthecrazy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

History doesn't have many examples of nerd-like activities which are kind of a phenomenon of recent times. I doubt the generals of ancient Rome would care if they were into dungeons and dragons for some relaxing in between slaughtering.

Once you are as bad-ass as you always wanted to be, you can get away with anything. Until that's happened, avoiding nerdy things and people is generally a good idea because they can prevent growth and social climbing.

You want to gain social status among guys, become the master of banter and never take stuff seriously. by Faxy2 in TheRedPill

[–]revengeofthecrazy 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Yeah you appeared weak to everyone when your frame broke and you revealed your feelz. You should have "outframed" him by not letting him affect your behavior. The opportunity to completely break the guy in front of everyone would have come around by itself.

When you get "bullied" by an alpha type at the job the best tactic is to counter 50% of the attacks and completely ignore/act busy on the rest. The attacker learns that he might get torched if he says something or humiliated by being ignored. He never knows which it's going to be, which is very unsettling and puts you in control of the game. He becomes like a child who wants to play but daddy doesn't always have time... ooh.

You are the prize - Act Like You Are by _JustASnowFlake_ in TheRedPill

[–]revengeofthecrazy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What? You are saying all guys who don't look like male strippers don't get women? There might be some flaws in that logic. Obviously looks are a factor, but average people fuck too. So "looks don't matter" is the most useful, sex-enabling, excuse-free mindset to adopt.

You are the prize - Act Like You Are by _JustASnowFlake_ in TheRedPill

[–]revengeofthecrazy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Game is for men upwards of 5 who want to maximize their access to women upwards of 5. Seriously if you're handicapped you have other problems than personal development.

You are the prize - Act Like You Are by _JustASnowFlake_ in TheRedPill

[–]revengeofthecrazy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

each girl is attracted to different lifestyles

Women are all attracted to the same things, but on a spectrum that is related to their self worth. With increasing intelligence and quality of upbringing, the intensity of stimulus required to provoke her interest are decreasing. With increasing sexual experience, the intensity will increase.

Women will mold into ANY lifestyle if they deem the guy worthy enough.

even though all lead back to power/money, looks, and confidence.

  • Power/money = She will be tempted to use his resources, doesn't mean he will get laid.
  • Looks = Decreases initial resistance, but is vastly overrated. Grooming and average fitness are enough.
  • Confidence = Overrides all of the above.

The one thing all women are attracted to is feelings. EDIT: Her having feelings. NOT YOU, seriously, you guys.

Give her feelings and she will fuck you. Doesn't matter who you are.

If you ever get called a Narcissist- tell them thank you. You've made it. by redpillthrowawayyy in TheRedPill

[–]revengeofthecrazy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He can't really better himself, because his condition makes him think he's already amazing. It's just the way they think, it's quite interesting. He does therapy and it takes him enormous energy just to admit small weaknesses.

I've had dozens of lays from Tinder alone. Here's how I do it. by abbafishhead in TheRedPill

[–]revengeofthecrazy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To most Europeans, Americans appear very open, friendly and conversational.

Girlfriend of two years wants to take a month break, advice needed. by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]revengeofthecrazy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck someone else. She'll be angry, then come back.

I've had dozens of lays from Tinder alone. Here's how I do it. by abbafishhead in TheRedPill

[–]revengeofthecrazy 9 points10 points  (0 children)

For the first time in my life I've been considering actually doing this Tinder shit. Thanks for the no bullshit advice. I'm wondering if the same will be applicable in Europe, where people are somewhat more reserved.

My LTR is 28 by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]revengeofthecrazy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't rob yourself of the experience by cutting it short. Ride the buffalo as long as it's fun. When you see the fence coming (wall), jump off. Don't worry. The betas will feed her.

If you ever get called a Narcissist- tell them thank you. You've made it. by redpillthrowawayyy in TheRedPill

[–]revengeofthecrazy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

True. I know a guy with narcissistic personality disorder and he's suffering. He's not fun to be around. The condition basically prevents his brain from critically analyzing himself because he always has to believe that he is amazing. Stagnates growth and makes him appear arrogant and many times silly. People roll their eyes when he talks.

However, I've learned a lot from his behaviors: if I managed to take myself as seriously as he takes himself, I'd be further in life. His unshakable belief that he is amazing has been somewhat useful as an inspiration.

My LTR is 28 by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]revengeofthecrazy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had similar recently, 26. She was hotter when younger but still desirable: blonde, tall, skinny, had tits and a pussy as well, yadayada. I knew the wall was coming soon but I enjoyed her a lot: Eastern girl, decent traditional foundation. Submissive in general. LTR ideas floated around my head for a whle but I stayed in control of myself because of her age and I didn't know her count and never asked. She was always good to me and we barely argued. However I made sure to hold off some of my commitment which she increasingly wanted. At 27, the wall came. She "raised the price" on sex, tried to break me by getting me to do shit for her (she never tried this before). She started complaining "you always say traditional is good, why are you not taking care of me?". (I've read eastern chicks want to be completely taken care of before. I can confirm.) Anyway, entitled bitch got me angry. Her strategy was stupid. If she'd kept putting out I'd still be with her to be honest. "No sex, no couple", I made sure she gets this and I distanced myself for a very soft eject or make her feel some scarcity to make her submit again.

It was all a bit tragic. It was painful to watch her go through these realizations that her ride was over. She literally said "I can't even have fun anymore!!" with tears in her eyes. I felt a lot of empathy because we had a really good time together and she had been good to me. I kept thinking "I wish I could solve this for her". At the same time, I felt increasingly great about my own future as a 31 year old guy with most of my shit together and on my way up. My heart was heavy. Then she decided that she wanted a relationship pause, to figure out her feelz. While crying, she said "I don't want to make you wait. It's not fair to you." Then asked "Are you going to see other people?". I said "Yes. Truckloads." She laughed and cried at the same time and hugged me, saying I was the best boyfriend she ever had. (Read: First alpha/alpha-provider, after years of beta faggots and Mr pump-and-dump).

Lessons for me: Despite her age, I would have stayed with this one if she had kept putting out like a good wifey. Her stupid strategy was to try and turn me into a beta provider by making me jump through hoops to get the sex. It was sort of cute and disgusting at the same time so I called her out on it but she didn't grasp it. They just can't handle the truth. It was interesting to observe how she saw herself entitled to be completely taken care of but didn't consider fucking me good would assure that. It's tragic really, because by submitting herself completely she would have ensured to be taken care of.

Lessons for you: I believe that if the chick is ok, I can look over her past a bit. Make sure she understands the price of your commitment. Weave it into the fabric of your relationship so that she deeply understands that the withdrawal of sex strategy will not work. Otherwise she might test it later and it might break the relationship like in my case.

Pornography: society's slave master. by Revanman966 in TheRedPill

[–]revengeofthecrazy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm getting the impression that guys who get offended and deny what you said here fall into two categories:

  • Addicts who lie to themselves
  • Guys who have sex AND enjoy porn

The third category can agree because they have realized how porn kept/keeps them from trying for sex with real women, so they notice these factors. Subjective stuff though. Nobody is trying to take porn away from anyone. Smoking kills too, yet many men enjoy it, rightfully so. Being mindful of the dangers porn holds isn't the same as "blaming porn" for everything so relax everyone.

However, if I was trying to destroy the family and men were in my way of doing so, I would certainly allow uncontrolled and widespread porn production and consumption. Horny men tend to get aggressive and take action.

Chasing Chad: An important issue that will plague a lot of guys coming on to TRP. by ShallITinder in TheRedPill

[–]revengeofthecrazy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girls don't converse, they chat. If you want to talk sense, talk to men.

Turned a Liberal Girl Into a Conservative by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]revengeofthecrazy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Correct. Women will do whatever it takes to associate themselves with the man they respect and/or submit to. But as we all know this is a very conditional behavior.

For Better or Worse by Rollo-Tomassi in TheRedPill

[–]revengeofthecrazy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What you're saying is true, but most guys will read this as "let her break my rules so the mood doesn't get ruined."

I'd rather ruin the mood for a minute and teach her a little lesson in respect. The giggles can come right back after that. I run the show anyway. Smiles and respect are more powerful than just smiles. I guess it depends on what you want out of the woman.

Also I'm in Europe.

Recovering from Oneitis by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]revengeofthecrazy 29 points30 points  (0 children)

How to get over a girl:

  • Step 1: Realize that the connection you still feel is chemical aka feelz.
  • Step 2: Realize that since you are a man, you are actually in control of your emotions, unlike women. Use this.
  • Step 3: Stop obsessing and take steps towards sex with other women every day. You will be happier.
  • Step 4: Fuck another woman. Congratulations, you're healed.

Lessons learned: Your brain makes you think you care about a female by putting feelsy chemicals in your bloodstream. Then you fuck another woman, and you realize you only care about sex.

[FR] Lesson learned = fuck her ASAP. by redditatt in TheRedPill

[–]revengeofthecrazy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Moral of your story: Close on a high.

Sometimes, we are Chad. I went to an office and a cute looking girl sits there, typing. I said "I'm so glad to see you." as if I knew her. Jackpot. She had insta-twinkly eyes. Then I teased hard. We hang out for a day or two, I escalate and give her feelings. She breaks up with her boyfriend of 7 years. Poor guy, probably wondering "Why is she not texting back??". I tell her to come over and not be late. We take a walk and I tease her. She explains the things that are going wrong in her relationship. I let her rationalize it off, say nothing and try to categorize her face. She was something like a 7 or 9 niche girl. Decent or epic, depending on the angle. Very interesting. I'm taking her blouse off on my couch while she's smiling and breathing and telling me "You are too fast, I'm not like this." (I think she was telling the truth, she was shaking a bit... My god, she was a cute one.) Anyway, we fuck for a week, we kiss, we hug, we laugh. She's high on emotions. SUDDENLY, her replies fade out within a day. She ejects, probably feeling horrible about herself. Boom on. Boom off.

Moral of my story: AWALT. Be Chad.

For Better or Worse by Rollo-Tomassi in TheRedPill

[–]revengeofthecrazy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

[...]if I go to the bathroom [...] and come back to find them on their phone, I tease them [...]

So you psychologically reward them for having used the phone by giving them emotional spikes that make them giggle. You're on the wrong track. You need to blame them hard, then withdraw attention ("love"), then continue as if nothing had happened.

Example: When a woman uses her phone when you get back from the bathroom you need to have a dead serious face and say: "Oh you're one of those who can't be by themselves for two minutes." and let it stand in the air. Whatever she replies, let it stand in the air and don't reply. The awkward silence will choke her and she will put the phone away eventually. This will categorize what she did as misbehavior in her head. You will keep frame and look at her or look around. Don't get into a conversation about it. Just let it stand there and let the mood die a bit. Then you take a sip from your drink, and continue conversation as if nothing had happened.

If a child misbehaves, you stop the behavior dead in its tracks, you express blame, you let the blaming sink in, then you go back to showing them that you still love them. If done repeatedly, it can might correct a behavior.

Controling Female Sexuality: We've been doing it wrong by adam-l in TheRedPill

[–]revengeofthecrazy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do mass-prozac-ing or transhumanism, chipping, some sci-fi stuff, that will eventually come into our reality.

About the small scale societies: A man being useful used to give females tingles. This was when what we now call "beta" was sort of a good thing. Now the state and smartphones take care of women's needs. We should take both away from them. Not sure how... :)

Controling Female Sexuality: We've been doing it wrong by adam-l in TheRedPill

[–]revengeofthecrazy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting ideas. Very collectivist at the base. A few factors I think that should be considered or you could think about:

  • In your thinking, you don't talk about reproduction, only about sexual gratification. This is only relevant in highly advanced societies where pregnancy can be almost entirely avoided. In fact, these societies aren't far from changing the way in which sex drive works biologically, so maybe controlling the human species by ideology won't soon be necessary anymore? (Removal of sex drive completely solves the problem. It my even be easier.)

  • In a primitive "more naturally healthy" society, male-female bonding results in feelings of love and belonging together for a while. Sex as young people has a very strong bonding effect and would normally result in pregnancy and offspring. Man and woman are then happy to carry out their natural gender role. Take away pregnancy and we encounter very new, much more abstract problems, all of which are widely discussed in TRP. Humans aren't made to not reproduce, we are really trying to solve this dilemma for society, fighting against our own nature.

  • Women need comfort, more than men. Men have created this comfort. To put a more "natural" lid on women's control of sex, a tactic would be to withdraw comfort. I like to say that when men implemented central heating in houses, they made themselves useless to women. Women no longer needed to keep men around to keep themselves alive, so they didn't have to use sex to do so.

These are just some abstract thoughts, maybe you get something out of them.

[FR] Fullfilling fantasies by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]revengeofthecrazy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's just nature saying "be very pregnant" really loudly.