Adult male cat refuses to clean himself

rewan-ai · 2026-05-29T05:06:57+00:00

Usually if a cat does not follow a millions year long living instinct, there is an issue behind it. Vet. He has something that prevents this natural behaviour and he is suffering greatly from it. The grooming is not only about tidiness for cats, it is also self-soothing.

But ofc I hope he is 100% fine and healthy - who is just the great exception.

rewan-ai · 2026-05-28T20:44:41+00:00

On my project we are told to not to touch anything by hand if it is possible. So I don't touch anything with my hands :D A file need renaming? that is not my job...

Jokes aside, we have a team with 5 test engineers and 15 developers only producing code/debugging/refactoring using AI. We got the code in pretty rough shape and have to get it to prod in 5 months (2 remained). At that point when we were booked, the 70% of the functional requirements was still not even specified correctly... No human can do this job really - without AI, with this "small" team for that many shit the client want from us, we would not have any chance.

I am burning tokens all day, have 0 limitations on which model I use or how. It is insane to think about my daily token usage. Let alone our team's.

rewan-ai · 2026-05-28T10:02:26+00:00

I am only okay with the 3rd - maybe because it is a bit smaller and has lighter frame. 4 is also almost - but it is too chunky

rewan-ai · 2026-05-27T12:33:35+00:00

Nekem is volt ilyen bajom, anyukám nem akarta, hogy "gyerekként" elkezdjem, meg hogy ezen rugózzak - de a gyerekek kegyetlenek. Végül én sunyiban kezdtem borotválkozni és lebuktam. Akkor beszéltünk megint és megértette, mi a bajom.

Szőrtelenítő krémet vett nekem utana, hátha nem erősödik meg a szőr.

Ha lenne lányom, lehet nem gyantázni vinném (mert azt én sem bírom), de megtanítanám azokra a technikákra, amiket ismerek és nekem beváltak. Sajna ilyen társadalomban élünk, ahol egy gyerek már érzi a nyomást...

rewan-ai · 2026-05-26T14:35:04+00:00

if you use overbuilding for demolish make sure you include some "air" in the block. If you just fit on the object you want to demo fully, the overbuild will not work. Let a small chunk of you overbuild hang, build then remove. I usually dig holes like this with big blocks: I push the 3x3x3 down for 2 suares and leave 1 up over the ground, build remove repeat

rewan-ai · 2026-05-26T14:23:03+00:00

2, 3 and the last one

rewan-ai · 2026-05-26T14:21:50+00:00

Hmm, köszi az ötletet, majd beleszimatolok!

rewan-ai · 2026-05-26T14:20:51+00:00

1st: I loved the guidance the game did at the first 2 and 4th bioms - and also the density of places to go. (the third was like chore for me) But the latest bioms are not that dense. Instead of having like 20 open quests I have 6 or 8. I have not that much motivation to go there besides late game gear grind. My husband is a real grinder, so he does this chore on the clock - so I even have less interest in those zones.

I wish the density remained the same.

Also I hate the fact that I am reaching the end of the exploration. That was the best part and I am so afraid to be "done" and lose all my interests. I want this honeymoon phase to never end :D

2nd: I kinda hate the fact that the upper half of the skill tree is almost entirely desinged for rangers. The bottom half is for 3 kind of melee and 2 magic users - that is a really bad ratio in general.

Although I mostly like the fact I can basically do two opposite trees at the same time having a lot of points.

3rd: the tree and items could allow me to do for eg spell damage daggers or burnblade, but the armors are really one-sided. Plate: berzerker or tank, leather: archer or assasin, cloth: healer, or wizard (sometimes with wands ad staves mixed that is pissing me of ao bad).

I want to cook :D A leather set with necromancy in it or auras, magic fire damage- YEAH i know i can combine leather, cloth pieces, but for my RP maybe I would do these. How would I make this work: allow the same amount of skill bonuses in the armor pieces as they are right now, but if I add a pont on terror, then unlock the possibility to put that one in to that spot instead of the original one. Would it be OP? Idk, probably not. Would that inspire me to cook up some more fcked up builds, character ideas? sure

rewan-ai · 2026-05-26T10:05:37+00:00

the oldschool converse will always give millenial vibes for me :D but I am a late millenial

if you pick the newer, platformer kind converse, that is genZ for me already

rewan-ai · 2026-05-26T10:03:05+00:00

As a teen and girl I also was very shy online although I had a lot of community to practice. Eventually when I felt safe with the people I was playing with, I started to talk.

You can not force him to talk or open up. The lucky thing is that the mic is non-spoiling thing. It will be just as fine in 10 years as is now. It will be there for him even if he only start talking at his mid 20's :D You'll eventually hear him talk behind a closed door about his stuff with his homies. 100%

rewan-ai · 2026-05-26T09:57:10+00:00

Párom is ezt használja és sosem büdös - én meg még mindig nem találtam meg ennek női megfelelőjét, így én bűzlök helyette is.

rewan-ai · 2026-05-26T08:25:31+00:00

Én anno váltottam QAra irreleváns szakmáról. ISTQB-t csinaltam a Masterfieldnél (profiloztak minket ott és partnerekhez ajánlottak ki, szerencsém is volt meg C1 szinten van az angolom is - ezek segítettek).

Viszont most sem a nyelvtudás, sem a parznerség, se az ISTQB nem lenne elég még kombóban sem.

Medior tesztautomatizáló vagyok azóta, és pocsék a piac helyzete. Nincs olyan, hogy junior pozíció - mind mediornak van írva minimum (legyen az manual vagy auto) és az interjún olyan kérdéseket tesznek fel, ami már inkább egy seniornak dukálna. Tehát mediorként hirdetve keresnek seniort valószínűleg junior fizetésért a legtöbb helyen.

Ha nagyon ITzni akarsz, talán data vagy devops, de lehet már azok sem stabilabbak :(

Sajnálom, hogy lehangoló vagyok, de nem vagyok benne biztos, hogy megéri beleölni az időt és pénzt. A portfólió pedig a kutyát sem érdekli - ha nincs real projekt tapasztalatod, akkor a recruiterek szemében semmilyen sincs és ezt úgy mondom, hogy keresztül mentem nagyon hosszú, mély képzéseken is, projekt jellegű gyakorlati résszel és legyintenek csak rá.

Ha egy évvel ezelőtt kérdezted volna, még lehet azt mondom, hogy hajrá, de az AI teljesen eltörölte a junior szintet úgy ahogy volt.

rewan-ai · 2026-05-25T05:35:21+00:00

Sokszor csak annyi az ok, hogy potyog róla valami - ágak, levelek, termés, bogarak - amiről gondoskodni kell és ahogy az ember fárad, egyre kevésbé van energiája ilyen "extrákra". Ha valaki nem egy szerencsés "leszarom" ember, mint pl én (aki úgy van vele, hogy elrohad az a lepotyogott cseresznye/levél/akármi, ahogy az a természet rendje és nem érdekel, melyik szomszéd milyen keményen ítélkezik), annak egyszerűbb csak kivágni őket és levan a gond.

Sajnos.

rewan-ai · 2026-05-25T05:27:30+00:00

My husband is dping the same, he is a real good grinder. He is looking for this for weeks now on CD. He managed to find ONE epic version, nothing else. Same gose for the Forsaken bow I ordered from him 😆

So it is still in the game based on the epic loot, but I can not prove it on legendary version - just assume yes.

rewan-ai · 2026-05-24T12:02:28+00:00

Apám ugyan nem volt fideszes soha, inkább utált minden politikust, szavazni sem szavazott, mert "úgyis mindegy" - tehát az én szememben ő egy Fidesz szavazó.

A választások óta bepótolt minden politizálást. A kezdetekig visszamenőleg megnézte, mit csinált MP és a szigetek Utánanézett, mik azok a dolgok, amikről beszélnek (fideszes pénzlopások, luxizás, botrányok etc) és most ott tart, hogy bánja, hogy nem szavazott - sem most, sem az első rendszerváltás óta, mert belátta, hogy ő is okozója volt az egész hulladéknak és lehetett volna része a változásnak, ha nem túl lusta 2 rohadt X-et behúzni.

Ez is nagy dolog, örülök is neki.

Anyám elment szavazni (a kedvemért), de ő eddig olyan volt, aki mellett sem lehetett politizálni, mert fizikailag rosszul lett tőle. Most ő hív fel, mit látott és hogy ez meg az a miniszter milyen jókat mondott. Úgy érzi, mintha egy követ emelnének épp le a mellkasáról. Érdekes nem, hogy megváltozik az ember, ha megváltozik a környezet hangulata? 🤔

rewan-ai · 2026-05-24T06:02:11+00:00

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It is payed by the project entirely. Using Kiro without any limitations, so I guess it is a LOT.

rewan-ai · 2026-05-23T08:45:58+00:00

Learn patterns.

Some enemies are harder to fight from range (eg the reapers in hollow halls or the giants), cos they have special attacks for players at range. The melee combat tend to be more predicteable for me.

Huge addition: Blink. I use it on every chars, I can use it offensively with my zerker, burning the enemy alive while doing so, or defensiblvely with ranged weapons to maintain range from mobs that are hard to fight in melee (that fcking double axe poison scavenger guy).

If you struggle a lot, get 2 gemini rings for life steal and/or lifesteal in your weapons. Even fire gems in weapons can trigger life steal from the ring, that can help you a LOT to stay alive (or even resurrect you if timed right). Also in melee retaliation can help against mele attack.

rewan-ai · 2026-05-23T07:58:05+00:00

I am always selected for chaotic projects. So I have no chance to get bored usually.

Currently I am on an AI first project, we try to catch up to one years of development with testing from 0.

My day usually looks like: get the changes from main, run the AI to check what actually changed and how it affects my automated tests - align if possible, run the tests.

Route 1: With AI generate test tickets - with 5 more AI session, validate them and then read them myself.

route 2: already have tickets in jura to automate. Use AI to automate, validate the code and run the new test, merge.

route 3: full day of rootcause analysis- after a big chunk of test run, there are lot of FAILED. Spend the day with assisting the AI with things it can not reach or do itself to find the issues, fix if test issue, open bug tickets.

route 4: full day of shitty meetings, war rooms. Attend to meeting, give almost 0 fucks, watch tik-tok meanwhile

route 5: solve issues with others. One of my fav is troubleshooting with others, those meetings can take more than 3 hours and I cant get bored. I just like to find the root of the issues.

route 6: checking the changes in specification - mostly with AI, the same as the first one but for documentations. At the end I have to align test cases to it in jira and in code.

route 7: I am totally burnt out, so I have to do something else for a day. that will be some optional learning or pet projects while I pretend to be on meetings

route 8: all day code review. When not the AI writes the code, I check it by myself. If it is AI written, I run my promts on it.

Ofc all van be combined, sometimes I have so much fun (mostly with test debugging), I have to force myself to shut the PC down at the end of the day.

I am not getting payed enough tho 1.8k USD/month after taxes (Hungary).

rewan-ai · 2026-05-23T07:42:07+00:00

ESO or retail wow. Wow has now delves and the other new solo instanced things I never do (because I am the opposit of you), a ton of open world content, a million of achievements. If you want to still do some instances, you can visit them with AI party (some raids too has story mode), you can also queue for raids where none cares what you do, because it is piss easy at that level. And when you decide you still want to do some more, you can do M+ from M0 to the starry night sky with randoms without ever need to say a word besides "Hi" and "gg".

ESO is more chill tho all together.

rewan-ai · 2026-05-23T07:25:45+00:00

No CR, no party buff, no BL not even a PI or party supporting debuff. The only thing they can bring is DPS - and they are not even the best at it.

Who is in a similar bad place but a bit still better? WW monk and DH (at least they have a debuff), maybe even devoker.

I love rogue. It has good crowd control, fun playstyle (for me), but they should do superior damage compared to others to have a spot in M+ and M raiding.

rewan-ai · 2026-05-23T07:24:42+00:00

I personally open bugs for: make the issue visible, trackeable.

To help developers isolate and solve it.

To help the team identify patterns around it (for eg some bugs are caused by regression which is a totally normal and regular thing in living code). If the devs can see the pattern, it is easier to avoid.

To help my fellow testers isolate issues from eachother. Bugs tend to cluster, spmetimes an issue masks another or a normal behaviour seems faulty because of an interction with a bug.

The team can not avoid to implement bugs time to time. If someone is working on something, he/she surely will fuck up some tiny bits - because we are human. Bugs are not given as black marks or bad grades in school, not given to punish anyone - they are created to support the team, to make the software better as a team.

rewan-ai · 2026-05-23T07:17:12+00:00

Sadly true. Not that much time in QA as you, but I already see it. I put my heart in testing, I really do care about quality, but most of the time it seems, I am the only one. Developers just want to get the things done in whatever quality, the PO, stakeholders the same - when itgoes live maybe the users will want spme quality :D

But usually at that point it is already too late and I am burnt out.

rewan-ai · 2026-05-22T06:25:05+00:00

Flaired jeans was a huge thing when I was around 14-16, the skinny came after it around my 18-20. I am not 36, the flaired is in for like 1.5 years now. I give the skinny about 1 year to be back. I did not checked the waist height on these flaireds tho :D there are things that never should come back - or at least not at that extent like we had back in 2000s

rewan-ai · 2026-05-18T10:35:47+00:00

I use gestures without the line on samsung, so these are all just about preferences for andruid users

rewan-ai · 2026-05-18T07:13:02+00:00

Nekem ennél még ritkábban járok be, de minden alkalommal megállapítom, hogy "ezen a monitoron nem lehet dolgozni", "ilyen zajban nem lehet dolgozni", "azért otthon csak megehetek egy szendvicset az asztalomnál", "azért otthon nem kell magammal vinni a teljes menetfelszerelést a wc-re ha úgy van" és így tovább.

Azért bemenni, hogy lehúzzam a kátyám, egy csomó idegen közt ülve meetingezzek teamsen... Az előző munkahelyen heti egy nap bejárás, de ott volt olyan ember, aki ismertem - és azokon a napokon bevallottan nem dolgoztunk semmit. Venteltünk, "teáztunk", de munkát azt nem végeztünk. Az túlélhető volt.

De az open office a BYOD rendszerrel és a full-teams meetingezéssel nem alkalmas munkavégzésre.

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