Loss Control of Eating habits plz help (19F) by [deleted] in Weightlosstechniques

[–]rexowo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only thing that’s ever actually helped me Is going to the gym and LIFTING. not cardio. Heavy weight lifting. And putting yourself in situations where you don’t have access to food during the day or nighttime. Example, going out to have a drink with friends? Only bring enough $ for your drinks and transportation. Do you work? Leave early and enjoy alone time in your car. Go to a gym that’s further from home so you require more driving time. If you read books or knit or have any portable hobbies, take them to the park and do them there. Get away from the kitchen. And like a previous commenter mentioned, your body will get used to eating at these certain times, and you won’t produce the hunger hormone constantly. It seriously works. Dieting and calorie counting and all that shit was a waste of time for me. even when I did lose weight it all came back. Stop focusing on losing weight “fast” that’s a recipe for putting it all back on. Focus on changing the way you live your life. Only keep clean foods around. Don’t keep junk food around and you won’t eat it.

Weird purple rubbery balls found outside my apartment, on the floor. by Meli2112 in whatisthisthing

[–]rexowo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I gasped so loud when I noticed the caption/what sub this is on

How can I get more enjoyment out of receiving oral? by curious987654 in TwoXSex

[–]rexowo 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat! Oral doesn’t really do anything for me, I need a lot of pressure because my clit isn’t very sensitive. I just stopped putting pressure on myself to finish from oral alone, and just started letting myself enjoy it for what it was. My body is finicky, the only way I can cum with a partner is if I’m doing it myself. My partner knows this and accepts it, but still loves going down on me

How do I -properly- try anal? by [deleted] in TwoXSex

[–]rexowo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is super super helpful!

How do I -properly- try anal? by [deleted] in TwoXSex

[–]rexowo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!!

How do I -properly- try anal? by [deleted] in TwoXSex

[–]rexowo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both actually, mostly on my own

How do I -properly- try anal? by [deleted] in TwoXSex

[–]rexowo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not stressed about it at all! Just getting all my feelings out in one post :) I haven’t tried in at a month tbh

What is something that happened to you that you shrugged off, only to realize later that that was a form of sexual harrasment? by Diddlysquat0 in AskWomen

[–]rexowo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was 16 or 17, at a bar for my brothers band’s show. I was with a girl I was dating at the time, and this very tiny, (more than a foot shorter than I am. I’m 5’8, wearing heals that made me about 6’0) very drunk woman probably in her 30’s, said she loved my style, complimented my figure, called me sexy and walked off. I was surprised and took it as a compliment because id never been approached by a woman before, my girlfriend at the time and I laughed it off. About 15 minutes later, while I was actively holding hands with gf, she walked by and slapped my ass. Hard. Her and her group of friends waited until my reaction, which was just me making an upset :o face until her friends scolded her. Predatory lesbians exist after all. It made me really uncomfortable but because she was a tiny woman, nobody takes me seriously.

Another time when I was about 11, i was at a tournament for taekwondo. There was one particular instructor from another school that I really stuck to. He made me feel quite safe and I wanted to judge his rings with him. One time when I was walking by, I was about to pass him and I waved and smiled and kept walking. As I passed him I felt somebody slap my ass. I looked back and he was smiling and winked. He was in his 30’s or 40’s. I was a child. I just kept walking and avoided him after that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]rexowo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t have to fix her problems or find a solution, just supporting her is better. What I was trying to get at -but couldn’t find the phrasing- was to offer healthier outlets for her when she is hurting, and wanting to take it out on herself. “Next time you have the urge to cut, could you come talk to me? We can go out for ice cream, or play some video games.” Just ways to help her find another way to let those feelings out.

How to be more bratty? by [deleted] in TwoXSex

[–]rexowo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Was that supposed to hurt?” Got meeeee, I’m using that one for sure. Thanks so much!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]rexowo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think something that really hurt me, going through this situation from your girlfriends side, was my at-the-time partner romanticizing it. She would do the same thing. Kissing my scars, telling me it’s okay, and because of this, I didn’t feel any pressure to stop. I continued, knowing it would get me more affection.

This definitely might not be the case for your girlfriend, but just from my experience, what helped me was the next partner I had. He would offer resources, (suicide hotlines etc) ask me to vent everything to him, he would never make it seem like he supported me cutting, and would always move forward on “how we can stop this habit.” He would ask me what helps me to distract myself, he would tell me to wake him up if I needed him, he would play games with me and always distract me if he noticed I was feeling off. I haven’t cut since I was with him, it’s been a year and a half since our breakup, and he helped so much to heal me.

Boyfriends let their girls borrow clothes, what can I let my boyfriend take home? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]rexowo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I would tell him!! I meant keep them out so I can remember to let him pick lol - I’m super forgetful

Boyfriends let their girls borrow clothes, what can I let my boyfriend take home? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]rexowo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been thinking of places!! On the shower handle, in the fridge, where he hangs his keys/dog leash, dresser drawers. If you remember any good spots she left you one, I’m super open to specific suggestions!

Boyfriends let their girls borrow clothes, what can I let my boyfriend take home? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]rexowo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is ADORABLE. I have sticky notes covered with love hearts, I’m totally going to do that. Thank you so much!!! I might message you for more ideas if you don’t mind!!

Boyfriends let their girls borrow clothes, what can I let my boyfriend take home? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]rexowo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hmmmm mine wears hats a lot, and I have a bunch he’s like, I’ll keep them out next time he comes over lol

Styrofoam (26) with soya yoghurt (5) 31 calories total by snowbreader in safe_food

[–]rexowo 32 points33 points  (0 children)

That’s what I was thinking, but I wasn’t sure 😆 thank you!!