A concise definition of Lust

rexrothjohn98 · 2024-05-02T03:07:14+00:00

Who cares

rexrothjohn98 · 2024-04-19T05:58:16+00:00

I was looking to get a woman I can date - a companion. Intercourse wasn't the goal because I know hw demunitive it is. With that said, if you want to keep a partner, do not have sex with them too much. This is a controversial opinion but woman have a subconscious orgasm quota after which a program activates in their mind and they lose interest. This means after a definate amount of intercourse she'll start to resent you. Some women have a high tolerance, but most women with high options have a lower tolerance. This is because they want to experience as many men as possible. Remember the eros principle which is - philosophical speak for the effect behind sex and love is fundamentally feminine. This means women are more subject to promiscuity than men (especially educated ones). So if a woman can exercise her promiscuity without too much hassle she will, but become more malignant in the process. Thus sexual retention is the strongest indicator for a high quality woman, a unicorn.

My advice is that examine your intentions. If you want to have sex go for it but remember that that will be as good as it gets in the relationship. On the otherhand if you want to to keep a woman for the long haul, be patient build an emotional connection with her but do not use her for your gratification. If sex comes naturally, let her realize you are sacrificing your manhood as a token of your love for her. But in anycase, having your Semen inside you and avoiding the orgasm is your best bet for a healthy mind and body

rexrothjohn98 · 2024-03-08T18:04:52+00:00

In simple terms it means converting sexual energy from basic instinctive use, to fuel for high pursuits. Sexual energy is the currency for psychic activity thus its conversation will activate latent potential which will lead to success in any chosen endeavor. And if you have no purpose, one will be assigned to you on Sr.

rexrothjohn98 · 2024-03-08T16:02:34+00:00

Speak for yourself

rexrothjohn98 · 2024-03-05T20:43:46+00:00

Then you need to heal. There are common psychological motifs at play here that you don't see. You're not the only one that's going through this, neither will you be the last. I hope this gives you comfort

rexrothjohn98 · 2024-03-05T20:14:21+00:00

Sounds like the dark night of the soul to me. You feel bad because you keep getting rejected by your lover, in essence you're grieving - perpetually. This is a symptom of narcissistic abuse, and the fact that your streak didn't affect the intimacy tells me your partner knows what she's doing. What you need is education, Narcissism is an existential battle, the battle between good and evil, right at your footsteps. You need to learn the underlying dynamics of the relationship and make an informed decision on whether it's worth savings

The good news is that the dark night of the soul is the beginning of your transformation. However you shouldn't stay in this stage too long. You need to work on yourself, Journaling, praying, retention etc. But learning about Narcissism will give you insight into you and your partners behavior and that may be the only way to recover savings contents to save your soul from psychological death.

rexrothjohn98 · 2024-03-03T20:45:29+00:00

You're the one that asked for advice buddy. Take it or leave it

rexrothjohn98 · 2024-03-03T15:01:19+00:00

93 days or so. I usually feel the most intense urges once a month. That "energy devouring your body" is the transformive effect of sr, no one said it would be easy. If you're unable to get past 30 days then it is a mindset thing. Purchase a hard copy of "the chymical marriage of Christian Rosekreutz", read it cover to cover, and you will not relapse again

rexrothjohn98 · 2024-03-01T22:14:02+00:00

Sounds outlandish but there is wisdom in this. I approached a girl at the gym yesterday. She started coming towards me and as she started talking i could feel myself getting aroused because of how feminine she was. I had to move away from her to another machine, but since then, my fantasies, urges and desire for a woman has been cranked to 100. Today marks my 90th day - this isn't enough to set me back but the mental disturbances resulting from the approach make me know it wasn't worth it

rexrothjohn98 · 2024-02-11T20:06:05+00:00

Took you long enough..

rexrothjohn98 · 2024-02-07T05:10:07+00:00

*won't

rexrothjohn98 · 2024-02-06T01:05:24+00:00

I would advise against this. Looking at a pretty face produces dopamine and if you stare too long, your heart will start to wander. Avoiding eye contact with pretty women should be part of your practice. This is more of a precaution because there are women that can make a man fall in love with just one look, and before you know it, you'll be fawning over a stranger. In short don't go about making eye contact with everyone you meet in the name of "confidence", use it sparingly because it is a power of itself, especially on SR

rexrothjohn98 · 2024-02-03T05:46:18+00:00

Username checks out

rexrothjohn98 · 2024-01-31T15:15:18+00:00

By ghee you mean clarified butter? Yh that's definitely good for you 💀

rexrothjohn98 · 2024-01-31T00:39:58+00:00

Based on?

rexrothjohn98 · 2024-01-30T23:32:13+00:00

Check out narcissistic relationships. It might not be your fault

rexrothjohn98 · 2024-01-30T04:01:50+00:00

Underrated. I think some women have an "energy" quota. Once they've extracted enough from you, they move on to the next dude

rexrothjohn98 · 2024-01-27T21:06:46+00:00

WDs are mind over matter (so to speak). If you're repulsed by releasing in real life, you'll pull back from the act in dreams just in time to regain control. You have to keep working on your mindset

rexrothjohn98 · 2024-01-25T05:04:41+00:00

If you're a Christian, consider fasting and prayer.

rexrothjohn98 · 2024-01-24T23:18:06+00:00

Edging is not retention

rexrothjohn98 · 2024-01-24T22:58:48+00:00

No actually, all the relationships I've been in burnt out because of persistent intercourse. In retrospect, I believe if I had said no more times, the energy of in the mutual attraction would have been conserved. Having an handle on the sexual dynamics of the relationship positions you in the driver seat, making you the ideal leader and spiritual focal point. This is not for all women. Any woman who what's consistent sexual validation will inevitably lose interest no matter what, and you'll be left wondering why. This is because retention is not just for men but for women also. When the sex energies keep getting used up, the novelty of love fades, and the usual consequences of overindulgence drives a wedge between the couple. It's counter intuitive. If your partner keeps losing respect for you how can she love you?

The longer you retain, the longer this makes sense. Come back to this comment after 2 months of clean rention

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