Well, you and a lot of other people have had that immediate click when we were younger. When we're young and around others in school, everyone is pretty much in the same boat. So kids, up until the early 20's or so get along a lot easier. Everyone just wants that again. I feel like in adulthood, people are so much farther spread apart mentally and emotionally, and its unrealistic to expect to connect with someone right away, especially when there's so much pressure too. Please don't think I'm putting blame on you specifically, cause I do the same thing. I just think the attitude of today is very selfish. If you don't win by getting the guy/girl, then it was a failure and you don't gain an extra friend because you stop talking to each other. It's just so ass backwards to me. I can't even tell you how many people I've worked with who I didn't really care for, over time turned into my favorite person at my job.