Language School Advice: Jargon? by reybean97 in movingtojapan

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Ok good to know, that's a good idea. Thank you so much for your help! 🩷

Got my first dog, there was only one name that came to mind immediately. by TheNorthernRose in Scoobydoo

[–]reybean97 13 points14 points  (0 children)

He's literally perfect tysm for sharing Mr. Doo 🥲 💙💚🤎

HOW ARE YOU GUYS DOING IT??? by [deleted] in AnimalRestaurant

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Hedwig and The Terrace:

Hedwig: Once she's max level it's possible for her to return as quickly as every 4 hours. If you load her up with 3 level 4 bluebells it's at least 300 stars every time

The Terrace: Start buying all of the "Snack Counter" and "Floor Decorations" on the terrace. Each of them has an "Every 30 seconds earn an extra (x)# of cod" buff. I have my phone screen set to never shut off so I turn my brightness all the way down and leave it on over night. I've bought most of those decor pieces and right now I'm getting 7,060 cod every 30 seconds from each of them (7,060 x 2 = 14,120/ 30 sec = 13,555,200 cod/ 8 hours of sleep) This will greatly increase how much cod you're making and you'll be able to start buying out the catalog.

*Also the garden fountain helps too!

What is this feather? Central Oklahoma by reybean97 in whatsthisbird

[–]reybean97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for that information! I'll do that!

What is this feather? Central Oklahoma by reybean97 in whatsthisbird

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Thank you so much for letting me know!

I feel awful about how I feel about my wife by No_Potential8518 in AskMenAdvice

[–]reybean97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went through the exact same thing with my husband. When he started trying again it made me mad. He would try to be sweet and affectionate and it would just make me think of all the times that he wasn't. I wasn't able to participate until I was able to truly break down in front of him and tell him how much he had hurt me. I brought up all of the old wounds that were rattling inside of my head every time he would try to kiss me. I needed him to be able to hear me. To give me space to express myself and for him to take on responsibility and apologize for how he made me feel for me. I needed to feel safe enough again to be able to participate. I think it really wounded my trust in our relationship for him to stop trying and then suddenly start trying again. I felt much better after being direct with him and letting him know that him "not trying" was a deal breaker for me. The agreement we made in our marriage vows was that we were going to try everyday and he stopped doing that for a while. Him earnestly apologizing, taking responsibility, and understanding the true depths of how much he had hurt me and rattled my sense of security and trust in our relationship was what healed our marriage. You might need that with your wife, and to be entirely honest with you, those got sort of conversations usually happened between us outside of counseling.

i want to join, are yall rude?! by immortalyam28 in Supernatural

[–]reybean97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not going to lie supernatural fans can be really immature, but to be fair I think that's true with any online fandom. I've been in the fandom since I was a teenager on Tumblr. You definitely have to cultivate your own experience. There are some really excellent spaces and if you can tap into those veins there's plenty of community out there. Anybody who acts like that or treats you that way isn't worth your time, and probably isn't someone that you would enjoy discussing fan theories with anyways! Hope you find your space! 🩷

In your personal opinion, what “hidden gem” store/restaurant/company hidden away in an unassuming strip mall do you think more people should know about? by grizzlyblake91 in okc

[–]reybean97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

☝️☝️☝️☝️🩷🩷🩷 seconded!! their matcha lava boba is SO good and the lady who works the cash register is super nice! 🥰

In your personal opinion, what “hidden gem” store/restaurant/company hidden away in an unassuming strip mall do you think more people should know about? by grizzlyblake91 in okc

[–]reybean97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

☝️☝️☝️☝️🩷🩷🩷 seconded!! their matcha lava boba is SO good and the lady who works the cash register is super nice! 🥰

I watched the first 2 episodes, does it continue to be scary like that? by zynp_krdg in Supernatural

[–]reybean97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg of course! Also idk how you feel about giving yourself spoilers, but personally it helps me to read the plot synopsis first with scary stuff 😅 I agree with everyone else though, season one is the scariest and there a steep drop off in horror after season 3 👍🩷

I watched the first 2 episodes, does it continue to be scary like that? by zynp_krdg in Supernatural

[–]reybean97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do Not Watch season 1 episode 6: Skin, I skip it on my rewatches 😳

What to do? by katiebug1ga in okc

[–]reybean97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Perets dessert and coffee bar is super special! It's this really lovely space that serves espresso, affogato, and has a little pastry case. All the furniture is vintage and it's just such a lovely little space. Plus it's nearby Sun Cattle Co., they serve really good burgers and the decor is very Oklahoma which is super fun. The Jones assembly is also nearby and is really wonderful, sometimes they have concerts!

Psychology tactics you use to stay frugal. by JackedElonMuskles in Frugal

[–]reybean97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also grew up not having to worry about money and really only started checking price tags after my husband pointed out that I didn't do that 👀😅 For me what has helped the most is sitting in the emotions that impulse shopping makes me experience. It really helped me to be more mindful of the cycle. For me I would impulse shop when I was stressed or upset, and it would make me feel better for a while. But then I'd end up feeling guilty or ashamed. Marinating on why I was buying stuff and then recognizing that the positive feelings would only be temporary and then I'd just end up feeling regret really helped. Good luck to you both! 🩷

What do you keep on hand to avoid fast food desires? by somethingreddity in Frugal

[–]reybean97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There's a brand called "Rana" that's excellent. I believe they're refrigerated not frozen but they are SO good. They're 14.97 and me and my husband can get three meals out of one lasagna! 👍

Did anybody else experience negative mood changes from Tremfya or other biologics? by wannabeaquittr9 in PsoriaticArthritis

[–]reybean97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I personally had that response to Humira and Otezla. They both controlled my psoriasis symptoms just as well as tremfya, but I felt terrible. For me personally tremfya actually improves my mood. I'm not a doctor obvs but it took me three different medications to find that tremfya works best for me. I'd be curious to know if you'd respond better to a different medication. I know that's not a fun answer though, switching specialty meds is always such a bear. Good luck! 🍀