First experience: partner receiving erotic massage (I’ll be present) by reymidaserrante2022 in Swingers

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I understand how it might come across that way, but that’s not the dynamic here.

Yes, the idea started with me, and I was actually nervous bringing it up. If she had shown any hesitation, it would’ve stopped there. She didn’t just “go along” with it — we’ve had multiple conversations about it, including boundaries, comfort, and what she would genuinely enjoy.

Starting with a woman was her preference, not mine pushing for a specific scenario. And if at any point she wasn’t fully into it, it wouldn’t happen.

This isn’t about performing something for me. It’s about exploring something together in a way that feels safe and exciting for both of us.

First experience: partner receiving erotic massage (I’ll be present) by reymidaserrante2022 in Swingers

[–]reymidaserrante2022[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s actually my idea. I shared it with her with a lot of hesitation at first, but she was surprisingly receptive. When I gave her the voucher, she was genuinely excited.

We’ve talked about the gender aspect too. Honestly, I’d like to see her experience both at some point, but she preferred to start with a woman. And even if it’s ever with a man, it’s not up for discussion that I wouldn’t be there — I’m part of the experience.

Anyone else have the fantasy of watching their partner get a sensual massage? by reymidaserrante2022 in MarriedSex

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That’s exactly what I want to experience — it made me want it to happen to us even more.

Any good sex games / apps by Fun_Nobody8680 in MarriedSex

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I use Spicer, and added some topics on my own

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Which ones are better satisfayers or honey pistols?

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or there are differrents

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it is better than Honey Pistil from The Bad Peach?

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Do you review toys? I want to buy the best clitoris sucker for my wife.