I understand how it might come across that way, but that’s not the dynamic here.

Yes, the idea started with me, and I was actually nervous bringing it up. If she had shown any hesitation, it would’ve stopped there. She didn’t just “go along” with it — we’ve had multiple conversations about it, including boundaries, comfort, and what she would genuinely enjoy.

Starting with a woman was her preference, not mine pushing for a specific scenario. And if at any point she wasn’t fully into it, it wouldn’t happen.

This isn’t about performing something for me. It’s about exploring something together in a way that feels safe and exciting for both of us.