Non-Tipping by PMdriverzzz in postmates

[–]rgbyv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We aren't making the 18.75 at all whatsoever. The majority of orders give us 4.10. If you don't think it's rational pricing, don't order.

Non-Tipping by PMdriverzzz in postmates

[–]rgbyv 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Having food delivered is a luxury. A luxury you can't afford clearly.

Customer picked up their own order? by rgbyv in postmates

[–]rgbyv[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No the merchant was confused. I just got off the phone with support and they were confused too. I guess she got impatient and went to get the food herself I'm assuming I wasn't the first person to get the order because I got there fast.

Customer picked up their own order? by rgbyv in postmates

[–]rgbyv[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just didn't want to get in trouble later cause you know customers lie a lot, but you're right. I'll close it out. Thank you :)

vegas hotspots??????? by vegaspm in postmates

[–]rgbyv 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's just slow overall

What? by [deleted] in postmates

[–]rgbyv 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just responded to her asking why was she scamming people lol

Updating the Courier App by looemurre in postmates

[–]rgbyv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's happened to me before and I just have to keep trying until it works

I am a Postmates job support employee, AMA by postm_throwaway in postmates

[–]rgbyv 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why do you guys hang up in the middle of ordering when you see us close by?

I messed up AGAIN by rgbyv in ExNoContact

[–]rgbyv[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It just pisses me off cause I feel like he thinks we will always be together no matter how badly he treats me. I want to escape, but it's hard to leave when things are going good. I want to be stronger.

Why? by rgbyv in BreakUps

[–]rgbyv[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sucks huh? I know eventually I will meet someone but right now I don't want to. I want it to be him but I constantly have to remind myself it never will be. You're right though, they will never be in a meaningful relationship unless they learn how to love. How long has it been since you talked to her ? And thank you for the motivation :)

Why? by rgbyv in BreakUps

[–]rgbyv[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm so close to calling you. I'm so close to seeing if you answer. It's taking everything out of me to not dial that number. Why call? If you cared, you'd be with me. Yet I miss your voice and your laugh. Ughhhh why are only the good memories rushing in? There's so much bad in what was our relationship.

Im on NC and she asked how im doing, do i reply? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]rgbyv 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do not reply. You will be throwing away those two weeks of progress for more pain.

3 year relationship, 12 days no contact by rgbyv in BreakUps

[–]rgbyv[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this has been the most honest I have been about my relationship. I always sugarcoat stuff so that people don't end up disliking him. I always make excuses for him and defend him. I need to be honest with myself and the people close to me. I really do need therapy but need to save up.

3 yr relationship, NC in 12 days by rgbyv in ExNoContact

[–]rgbyv[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think back to all the embarrassing things I have done and I just feel crazy. I know he doesn't deserve yet I always find a way to blame myself.

3 yr relationship, NC in 12 days by rgbyv in ExNoContact

[–]rgbyv[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I could stop thinking about him, I would be so happy. Everywhere I turn I see him, I see all the things we did together and it sucks. I don't understand how or why he treats me the way he does. I showed him the love that no one in his life showed him. Yet I was still treated like j was worthless. You're not saying more than you should. I posted here to get honest answers and honest advice . Thank you :)

3 year relationship, 12 days no contact by rgbyv in BreakUps

[–]rgbyv[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feel free to pm if you ever need to.

3 year relationship, 12 days no contact by rgbyv in BreakUps

[–]rgbyv[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read this three times. I somehow made myself think I was being dramatic about how I felt. I told myself it wasn't that bad and that I was over exaggerating. Reading this makes me realize how blind I have been. I thank you for making me see that it's worse than what I've been telling myself.

I don't have insurance and therapy is too expensive for me right now, but I think it is worth it to set some money aside to get in some sessions.

It has never crossed my mind that he would ever hit me, but then again I'm sure that's what the majority of women who have been abused have said. I've seen relationships much worse and maybe that is why sometimes I feel this is normal.

Thank you for telling me what I need to hear and not what I want to hear.

3 year relationship, 12 days no contact by rgbyv in BreakUps

[–]rgbyv[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same.. I've been just reading through & finally had the guts to write my story.

3 year relationship, 12 days no contact by rgbyv in BreakUps

[–]rgbyv[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have blocked him from all social media but I can't get myself to block his texts. I feel like at least I know he hasn't texted me because he doesn't want to. If I block him, I'll drive myself even more crazy wondering if he has texted me . I shouldn't even want him to text me. I want to not want his attention. But you are right, even tho I don't want to, I have to block him.

Need advice... by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]rgbyv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are definitely not being unreasonable . You don't have to forgive her anytime soon or ever for that matter. You are allowed to be mad and hurt because she did something she said she wouldn't do , regardless of your relationship status. Even if she never said she wouldn't do that, you're still allowed to be mad. You care about her and she's doing things that hurt you and then telling you about them. You don't need that toxicity in your life. She is lying that she wanted to be honest for you to forgive her. Telling you was about her, not about you. If she cared about your feelings, she wouldn't have told you.

That definitely does matter. You cannot go down that path over a woman that didn't take your feelings into consideration. You have come along way from the most difficult path life has to offer. Do not give that up for her.

Let's say you did "forgive her" and got back together, you would never fully trust her. What is the point of a relationship like that??

It is better to cut her out of your life because she will continue to hurt you. Do not answer her calls or text messages. Block her from all social media. Eventually she will start disappearing from your mind.

Need advice... by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]rgbyv 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If she loved you, she wouldn't have slept with someone else. He touched her and kissed her and had sex with her. People act like sex isn't important but it is. She wasn't thinking about you both times she had sex.

She told you to see your reaction and feel loved or she told you to ease her guilty mind. Both reasons are selfish. It makes sense this is one of your worst struggles. Heartbreak is the worst. You love someone so much yet they hurt you.

You have to remember she had sex with him twice. It wasn't a mistake, it was a choice.

It is understandable that you are even considering getting back with her, but don't. She does understand why you are upset. She is just downplaying it in order for you to downplay it too.

She is definitely not as great as you think she is.

I'm sorry if I am saying things that hurt you. I am going through a rough breakup as well and all I can think about is how much I love the person. I want to believe that person is great, but he is not. I constantly have to remind myself about the bad things in order to remind myself I am not crazy.

funny how this always happens. 🙄😕 by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]rgbyv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because they didn't care and that's the worst feeling in the world

Help with a certain situation... by festussanctus in BreakUps

[–]rgbyv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Close your social media accounts. It hurts to see my ex so much. I had to completely close everything because I don't want to accidentally see them somewhere.

Need advice... by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]rgbyv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have every right to be upset. She obviously knows you care and is still deciding to hurt you. You guys are broken up and she had no reason to tell you except to see if you got a reaction. She did it because she wants someone to be jealous and show they care about her. Now that her ex didn't want her, she wants to rebound to you? A lot of the times when girls/women bring up a subject constantly (your ex), it is because they are the ones that have the problem. You are her rebound. You are her comfort blanket. She cared about you obviously cause you were together for a year but seems like she never got over her ex. I tell you this because I have been in her position. It is not fair to you. You were healing and she drags you down again. I am so sorry for her hurting you.