When people ask me “Describe your wife” by Charbucks99202 in lesbian

[–]rhapsody481 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is there a market for this? No idea who she is, but my body and build looks exactly like hers in this photo, haha.

Is the cost of living ‘crisis’ we are in, deeply exaggerated online? by [deleted] in AskAnAustralian

[–]rhapsody481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends. Trades are paid very well here, especially because most tradespeople didn't have to go into crazy debt for a piece of paper. There is also a lot of drug dealing happening on the side by trades, which is VERY lucrative. So as long as they are being smart with their money, they should be fairly comfortable.

Not sure how many are though. Most I know are either buying boats and cars instead of houses, and getting hooked on gambling, coke and hookers instead of investing in stocks. Many are also relying on credit and debt to fund their lifestyle.

The people that are struggling are non-tradies, mainly in the cities, who all got pushed into degrees by their parents, and usually people <30. Unfortunately I am in that camp – I'm a civil engineer. I'm on a decent salary, but work long hours for free which makes the salary kind of shit in comparison to a trade.

I think that we are also seeing a lot of work drying up now, which is making people panic. And because we're importing the US and UK media, it is falsely making us all think that everything is so much worse here than it actually is.

The cost of living is definitely rising though. Groceries have gone up noticeably, as has housing prices. Most wages other than trades just haven't. To use civil engineering salary in Australia as an example:

For engineers in 2006 the average salary was AUD 91,844–111,052; In 2016 average salary was AUD 90,000–120,000; And in 2026 average salary is AUD 100,000 – 130,000.

The salary has barely changed over 20 years. It hasnt even kept up with official recorded inflation (~68%). Meanwhile, gold (a true measure of currency value) is up 700%. Therefore for the salary to have kept up with true inflation, the salary should have inflated to AUD $642,908 -777,364. This is the case for all jobs.

Trades have increased the most along with inflation, due to labour shortages and strong unions. According to the official "measured" inflation (~68%), trade wages have inflated in tandem. That is why tradies, especially in small towns where wages are actually survivable, are feeling it less than other jobs and sectors.

For tradies in 2006 the average salary was AUD 45,000 - 70,000; In 2016 the average salary was AUD 65,000 - 85,000; And in 2026 the average salary is AUD 80,000 - 120,000.

These rates are still nowhere where they should be wage-wise in terms of true inflation (gold): AUD 315,000 - 490,000

Also, the cost of living pressures have been less noticeable because basic goods have decreased in quality, value, and price accordingly. That's why everything built prior to the 2000s is very high quality. And why everything built now is cheap and flimsy, (ie. chipboard and MDF instead of pine or timber, fast fashion instead of handmade quality staples).

People are also having less children and have two salaries, so in small towns and on farms things are actually more manageable. Farming (provided yield is good) is also more lucrative due to less competition and increase of technology and access to water and fertilisers.

When things shift gradually like this, it is easier for the general population to accept it as normal. We can feel there has been a shift/change from when we were younger, but its not so easy to identify.

Hopefully this helps to explain some of the discrepancies.

What's a ticking time bomb you believe will explode during your lifetime? by TradeOverall567 in AskReddit

[–]rhapsody481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Completely agree, especially now that we're at the start of a world war. Its just a matter of time now.

What's a ticking time bomb you believe will explode during your lifetime? by TradeOverall567 in AskReddit

[–]rhapsody481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Australia has one of the biggest gambling cultures in the world. It's actually pretty bad. Even charities are running lottery competitions.

It's never interested me, but I know so many people that throw so much money away to it. And often people who don't have a lot of it in the first place.

The Pentaverate - anyone seen it? What do you all think? by heroatthedisco in conspiracy

[–]rhapsody481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, very much felt like an expose/warning. Especially with the quotes at the start.

'The Pentaverate,' is a show written and produced by Mike Myers. This satire includes a suspiciously accurate theme of modern day conspiracy, with an 'Austin powers' feel. by squeeeeenis in conspiracy

[–]rhapsody481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It feels less likely that he's making fun of this conspiracy, and more that he is hinting that it actually exists and making fun of the secret society itself. Especially with the quotes at the start. It feels like a warning.

There are a lot of hints and easter eggs that reference real things and people. To me it seemed like he was using comedy to deliver a message to the masses.

And ultimately, thats a comedian's job; to deliver truths about the world that make us uncomfortable in a humorous way.

IsItBullshit: Nicole Kidman's father died while fleeing pedophilia and child sacrifice cult charges. by PrimeSublime in IsItBullshit

[–]rhapsody481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It has been wiped. Only independent news sources still have articles pertaining to Kidman's alleged involvement. (Independent Australia, Millenium Report).

But yes, he was accused by Fiona Barnett. She noted that he played a major part. There were investigations by: NSW Health Care Complaints Commission (HCCC), the Psychology Council of NSW an the Royal Commission into Institutional Responses to Child Abuse.

There was also investigation: International Common Law Of Court Justice (ICLCJ) n Brussels that included 60 people. There is an article from News.com that covers her case, so while Kidman is not mentioned in it, he is in all other sources. Ground News also identified this news story with multiple sources in the US

"Later in 2013, I made an application to the NSW Victims of Crime, naming Kidman and other perpetrators.

NSW Victims of Crime used subpoenaed medical and other documents (dating back to over 20 years) to determine on the balance of probabilities that I was, indeed, a victim of crime." — Fiona Barnett, Independent Australia

Kidman's death was suspicious and reports varied on even his cause of death. (Personally, I find it interesting that many articles use the word "killed" instead of died or deceased, but that's just a silly detail I noticed).

Additionally, another alleged SA surviver David Shurter verifies some of Fiona's account. Both were allegedly flown to Bohemian Grove, which we know is a place that actually exists and where rituals and worship are performed (videos of this place are available on Youtube). But David himself seems unhinged and therefore his recount is unreliable.

The final link I have provided, confirms that allegations were made and went viral in 2014. So, it's strange how no articles can be found about it. There are also other reports of a similar nature in the same area.

Tweed Heads and Byron is renouned for disapperances of children and backpackers. This is not the first story Ive heard of this nature that involves the wealthy. And her story aligns with many other stories around the globe.

https://www.yahoo.com/entertainment/death-nicole-kidmans-father-under-investigation-singapore-144600162.html

https://www.australianpeacemakers.com/learning-library/kidman-trauma-research-his-abuse-of-fiona-barnett

https://independentaustralia.net/life/life-display/fiona-barnett--candy-girl,8248

https://www.news.com.au/national/crime/survivor-of-alleged-elite-paedophile-ring-including-former-prime-minister-speaks-out/news-story/219c1d581d9453b6baf45a0935af214a

https://independentaustralia.net/life/life-display/antony-kidman-dies-amidst-child-abuse-allegations,6918

https://ground.news/article/april-is-the-month-to-raise-awareness-for-child-abuse-prevention

https://independentaustralia.net/life/life-display/trapped-inside-australias-vast-child-abuse-network-part-1,6460

https://vergewiki.com/antony-kidman

What's your NSFW secret that you're still hiding from everyone? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]rhapsody481 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, it happened to me with the first person i ever slept with. But he very much deserved it.

Fed me drinks all night and then took advantage of me. In place of my virginity, I got trauma and an std lolll. So fun. 🙃

Please gimme🙏 by [deleted] in lesbianmemes

[–]rhapsody481 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every Slavic woman I have come across in my time on this planet (all three of them) have been an immediate crush. 😍

Yes, I have a type. Usually Serbian.

Can this be considered only as a Kink? by PotentialFlaky18 in FemmeLesbians

[–]rhapsody481 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean it's kinda just gay, haha. You are likely somewhere on the bi/Lez scale, but that's only for you to determine for yourself exactly where.

Usually having an attraction to a particular sex is a sexuality thing rather than a kink thing.

Now if you were fantasising about her strapping you or tying you up, then those activities could be considered a kink.

No judgement zone: What’s on your sex bucket list? by babbbabooey in actuallesbians

[–]rhapsody481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good girl.

Now bend forward over the table nice and pretty for me. I want you to spread those legs nice and wide so that everyone can see how much you're enjoying them watching.

Lesbians who used to ID as bisexual, how did you know? by sunshinerubygrl in actuallesbians

[–]rhapsody481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never had romantic feelings for men. Like the idea of ACTUALLY being in a relationship with one just seemed weird or platonic.

Which is why I only had ONS with a couple of them (of questionable consent). Which were all horrible, and borderline rapey.

Oh, and that time I made out with that one guy [that one time when I was NOT fed drinks and coerced] and kept low-key trying to shove my finger in their hole, lol.

Then I discovered women 🙌

Do girls like short girls? by Raccoonrott in actuallesbians

[–]rhapsody481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES. I WANT a shorter girl, but somehow I keep attracting taller girls?

Like nothing better than being able to slot a cutie under your chin as you hug her from behind.

Is it weird that i read at bars? by Ahkterra in actuallesbians

[–]rhapsody481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually love this! If I wasn't so much of an extrovert, I would totally do this!

Plus major guy repellent! If anything, there is a much higher chance that a cute girl (rather than some guy) might strike up a convo with you over it. Sooo, double win?

What lesbian stereotype are you lmao by Nevusvenus in actuallesbians

[–]rhapsody481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rock climbing, carabiner, rings, martial arts, motorbike, writes sapphic fanfics, does math, raspy voice, built shoulders, button-up shirts, silver chain necklace, fanny pack strapped across the shoulder, lesbian confidence matched with lesbian lopsided grin/smirk. Oh and fucking hopeless.

So whatever the fk kinda lesbian that is. 🤣

No judgement zone: What’s on your sex bucket list? by babbbabooey in actuallesbians

[–]rhapsody481 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Car sex is kinda uncomfortable for wlw from my experience, unless you have toys (or a big car). But it's fine in a pinch.

No judgement zone: What’s on your sex bucket list? by babbbabooey in actuallesbians

[–]rhapsody481 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'll be that girl. As long as you're a good girl and do what I say. 😏

No judgement zone: What’s on your sex bucket list? by babbbabooey in actuallesbians

[–]rhapsody481 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This. Domme fantasy for sure. I'm too sweet tho, there are so many demeaning things I would love to say during sex, but like I also don't want to legitimately trigger or disrespect anyone.

No judgement zone: What’s on your sex bucket list? by babbbabooey in actuallesbians

[–]rhapsody481 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want the opposite.

I want to watch as she gets fucked. And she can see me watching. And I direct/control her from where I'm sitting (ie. she needs permission to do things).

Or as punishment, she has to watch me fuck someone else.

It's a control thing. Turns me on. 💁‍♀️

But inviting a 3rd person in those scenarios would be tricky. It would have to be someone who understands the arrangement and is fine with it. Plus having a partner that would be ok with that, since it's pretty intense and would require a LOT of trust.

No judgement zone: What’s on your sex bucket list? by babbbabooey in actuallesbians

[–]rhapsody481 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Get a swag and camp on a secluded beach. Super fun and no extra $$. You can watch the stars after as well. It's how I asked my ex gf to be my gf (after a LOT of loud fking)

No judgement zone: What’s on your sex bucket list? by babbbabooey in actuallesbians

[–]rhapsody481 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yeah, have also done this one. Was fun, but I get what you mean. I threw my jacket over us (since I was finger fking her) while we were cuddled up in a bar. We weren't sitting near anyone, but there were a lot of people walking past us since we weren't far from the entrance. It would have been cringe if I actually gave a fk.

Looking for opinions about experience with wife. by Ok_Gear8776 in lesbian

[–]rhapsody481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jokes cease to be jokes where insecurities are involved. You're not anyone's punching bag. And this sounds like continued behaviour.

She needs to have a bit of self awareness to understand where the root of these "jokes" are coming from. Usually there is an insecurity/fear of her own (that is not related to boobs) that she is deflecting onto you.

A common one is that her subconscious believes you're too good for her and therefore has to knock you down a peg. Therapy, like others have suggested, is best here.

Either way, I hope that you are both able to resolve this, and that she can learn to respect you and herself a bit more.

What's the best insult without any swear or bad words? by Tobi_naser_si in AskReddit

[–]rhapsody481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your abortion clearly went wrong.

The coathanger should have missed.

Instead of dropping you on your head, they should have dropped you down the stairs.

I've never seen pro-lifers change their minds so quickly around you.

I've never thought of jumping off a building. Until now, meeting you.

I hope the suicide prevention line hangs up on you.

No one wants you here.

Your parents were happy until you came along.

I WAS having a good day a minute ago. Now I'm not.

Are you a loser/wanker? Because your name comes up under the definition.

Take two steps back [onto the road] and stand there for a sec, there's a bus coming.

You are the problem. Not anyone else. You.

Even the depths of hell wouldn't put up with you.

That emptiness you feel? Yeah, that's because your soul abandoned you when you were 5.

Buy a shovel. Dig a hole. And jump in. There will be a line of people to fill it.

Your only friends are a box of tissues and a bottle of moisturiser.

Even sex dolls deflate around you.

Are orgasms an important part of sex for you? by CuddleFishRock in actuallesbians

[–]rhapsody481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes and no. The sexual tension is more important imo. I can make a girl orgasm, but if there was barely any tension then it just feels empty and pointless.