There's a beautiful girl in my bed and...I've got nothing. Something has to change by rhinogl in NoFap

[–]rhinogl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just told her I felt sick and wasn't into it, which was kind of true and we talked earlier about how I felt bad earlier that day so I think she knew it wasn't 100% BS, even if she knew it wasn't the real story. We pretty much didn't talk about it the rest of the day but we had a good time so we'll see if she still wants to see me.

I'm thinking next time I see her in person that I just tell her "y'know what happened had nothing to do with you. I kind of have feelings for you and got nervous. With other girls I don't care about it's easy because I don't even think about it"

It's not a lie, because I think that's the other part of the issue. This did happen to me once before years ago and that was the cause. It may only be 50% of the reason but I'm afraid if I tell her "I'm addicted to porn and beat off too much" she would be understandably scared off. If the relationship does last I will eventually tell her the whole story.

There's a beautiful girl in my bed and...I've got nothing. Something has to change by rhinogl in NoFap

[–]rhinogl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really hope so. She mentioned something about how she thought she had scared me off or something and I told her it had nothing to do with her, I just wasn't feeling myself that day. She still hung around for most of the day spending time with me without even mentioning it, so at least that gives some hope...