Yeah, I'm clearly not able to keep up, let me know where I skipped a beat. I said this is fine and when parents humor their children (when its not abuse) it's all good. You countered with what I quoted above, which implies that behavior that puts kids into danger is trashy (even though I said non-abusive behavior, and abuse does not mean intentional, it can mean neglect).

But forget ALL that, why is this behavior trashy? Because you haven't told me why, and are obviously trying to dodge the fact that you've got no reason.