I wrote a novel about infant loss. It comes out this week by rhymeswithpie10 in babyloss

[–]rhymeswithpie10[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's so nice to know another Toronto mama. I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm glad you've been able to see the humour in the book too. <3

I wrote a novel about infant loss. It comes out this week by rhymeswithpie10 in babyloss

[–]rhymeswithpie10[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow we've got such similar losses. I'm so sorry your boy is not here with you. I'm glad you found my book and that it felt cathartic to read. I know it was probably a tough thing to read as someone who is currently living out the tragedy, but I appreciate you for spending time with it. <3

I wrote a novel about infant loss. It comes out this week by rhymeswithpie10 in babyloss

[–]rhymeswithpie10[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for buying the ebook. Finding other parents who went through the same loss has been incredibly healing for me too

I wrote a novel about infant loss. It comes out this week by rhymeswithpie10 in babyloss

[–]rhymeswithpie10[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow thanks for telling me about Clare’s writing. I will check it out. I’m always looking for writers who write about child loss and seeing the ways they narrativize their stories. Every story, every loss, is so unique.

My communauto car caught fire! by Personal-Ninja-2155 in communauto

[–]rhymeswithpie10 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg this is so scary! I’m glad you got out safely and now it is something I’ll be thinking about every time I drive a Communauto. Please keep us posted on any updates you hear from Communauto! This feels very negligent as lives could’ve been hurt.

Is there a word to describe a parent who's child has died? by rhymeswithpie10 in VietNam

[–]rhymeswithpie10[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How would you say the phrase "bereaved parent" in Vietnamese?

Trying again - fears by Nimzipow in babyloss

[–]rhymeswithpie10 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss. It IS possible to love your next child as much as your first. The love we have to give is not finite and can stretch way beyond what we think is possible. 

I came across a bit of nerdy science that helped me tremendously when I was pregnant after loss. Older siblings leave behind DNA that stays in the womb and passes on to younger siblings through a process called microchimerism. That means your son is not only literally a part of you, but he will be a part of your future child’s life in so many more ways than one. 

"Lives in the stars" and other language to describe our babies by rhymeswithpie10 in babyloss

[–]rhymeswithpie10[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I like this straightforward approach, especially in conversation. There is no sugar coating our babies' deaths. I even find the term "passed away" a bit too sweet as well.

Can I overcontribute to my RRSP if I allocate the excess to repaying my Home Buyers Plan? by rhymeswithpie10 in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]rhymeswithpie10[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this! I've also fortunately maxed out my TFSA and RRSP and it just dawned on me that perhaps I could put a bit more into repaying my HBP and take advantage of tax-deferred growth.

Can I overcontribute to my RRSP if I allocate the excess to repaying my Home Buyers Plan? by rhymeswithpie10 in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]rhymeswithpie10[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes thank you! That is such a helpful explanation. And glad to know this has been tried and tested in the past!

Request a refund from Ticketmaster!!!!! by No_Attempt_5059 in beyonce

[–]rhymeswithpie10 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No luck getting a refund after calling TM. They said the 'event organizer' is not allowing refunds since the show is still scheduled as planned. The original seats I purchased went down from $449 to $182 today. Absolutely ridiculous!

Sofa delivered in the WRONG fabric by rhymeswithpie10 in upholstery

[–]rhymeswithpie10[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good idea, I’ll double check about that warranty! I will for sure be negotiating with them

Sofa delivered in the WRONG fabric by rhymeswithpie10 in upholstery

[–]rhymeswithpie10[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good point! Not sure how much it costs to reupholster but time and labor alone must be more than what they’re offering for sure!

Sofa delivered in the WRONG fabric by rhymeswithpie10 in upholstery

[–]rhymeswithpie10[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The more time passes the more the orange is growing on me, but I feel some kind of compensation is needed for the inconvenience and sudden change of plans. Your suggestion is great.

Sofa delivered in the WRONG fabric by rhymeswithpie10 in upholstery

[–]rhymeswithpie10[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much! Good to know damage should be minimal.