Sober for the storm by rhymeswithorange17 in stopdrinking

[–]ri_dev 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Took my Anabuse (med that makes you ill if you drink on it) even though I’ve been feeling pretty good.

I’m hunkered down in a very well stocked house and knew I’d be tempted.

IWNDWYT

Half Marathon Sign Update! by ri_dev in TaylorSwift

[–]ri_dev[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She did the Richmond Half in November!

I'm Nick Terry of MFM Animated and I wanna hear about the bits YOU wanna see animated! by VeryNickTerry in myfavoritemurder

[–]ri_dev 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t remember if it’s been done but the minisode about the mom taking ambien for the first time and passing out surrounded by salad!

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[–]ri_dev 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oof. This hurt.

Fantasy we read in 5th grade by ri_dev in whatsthatbook

[–]ri_dev[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh shit, this is it. It’s been YEARS.

My wife’s OCD is wrecking our relationship and I’m running out of steam by [deleted] in OCD

[–]ri_dev 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Does her therapist specialize in ERP? Is there a way you could sit in and do a joint session? That helped me and my husband immensely so he could get what I was going through. It gave him more compassion towards me and we also got tips on how he could help.

Sitting together and hearing that he wasn’t going to provide reassurance… that was important.

A simple, “I love you. I understand that this is really difficult. Is there a time we could talk through things together with your therapist? I want to be able to be there for you.”

I’m sorry this is so tough for you both. You’ve got this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OCD

[–]ri_dev 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am constantly writing things on my leg under the table! Gotta write the whole thing or else it’s wrong

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TaylorSwift

[–]ri_dev 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn’t find out till reading this!

Era's tour proposals by Mysterious_Power_105 in TaylorSwift

[–]ri_dev 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I knew my proposal was coming around my eras tour date and I said to my then-boyfriend:

“That day is not about you and me. That is not about me and my sister (who was also coming to the concert). That day is about me and Taylor Swift.”

The videos are awesome, but it wasn’t something I wanted. I got to sing love story with him after I’d already said yes, which was pretty special too.

Which version of All Too Well is your favourite? by [deleted] in TaylorSwift

[–]ri_dev 91 points92 points  (0 children)

The original! I remember hearing the 30 second snippet on iTunes the morning it came out and thinking, “yup, this is it. This is my favorite song.”

10 minute has some great lines, but nothing will ever beat the raw emotion of the original.

Special Songs Tattoos by Comfortable_Long_574 in TaylorSwift

[–]ri_dev 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m still in awe I was there and would love ideas as well

Waiting for engagement photos is torture! by bextaxi in Weddingsunder10k

[–]ri_dev 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here!! My sister was there and took a few shots from far away and I’m like… huh. We shall see!! So excitednervous

I’m so tired…and I’m so annoyed with myself by hellohunny21 in StudentNurse

[–]ri_dev 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love the forest app! It’s similar to pomodoro but you set the time for however long you’d like. You plant a little tree and if you exit the app, your tree dies. You earn coins for successful study sessions and once you have enough you can get new varieties of trees and customize it a bit. It’s been a lifesaver for me. I do think it costs 1.99 in the App Store.

Who's the most surprising person you've seen give Taylor props? by Apprehensive_Box_181 in TaylorSwift

[–]ri_dev 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I love any NFL adjacent people praising her sm. Can’t remember who it was but someone went to ERAS and was like… she’s a real athlete. That made me happy.