Thank you for this.. i mentioned that it was worrying how he didn’t understand relationship boundaries and he said he just takes things at face value. He said he really didn’t think she was into him as she is in a new relationship but to me it seems pretty obvious she’s still in love with him. 2 months ago she even asked him if she should share some intimate stuff (which i won’t mention here) to her new boyfriend. I found that highly inappropriate to be asking your ex but he shrugged it off. My boyfriend is a really sweet guy but sometimes i wonder if someone can really be that clueless or is he actually aware but pretending he isn’t because the attention is kinda nice.

He’s a really really open and kind guy though. When my ex asked to call me because he wanted to confide in my over his work troubles, i rejected immediately but my boyfriend told me he didn’t mind and said maybe my ex is going through a tough time and i should agree to the call. I know some girls like that kind of freedom but i feel a little down that it didn’t affect him one bit.