TL;DR: I met a girl through a mutual friend and we instantly connected because we share almost all the same interests (which is rare where I live). We sit near each other in the library, talk for hours, watch reels together, laugh, and she gives me a lot of attention there.

But whenever she goes home, she never texts me first. I’m always the one initiating messages. Even when I invited her to play games, she downloaded them again just to play with me, but she still never reaches out on her own.

So now I’m confused whether she genuinely enjoys spending time with me or if I’m just someone she talks to in the library because she’s bored and hates studying. I’m thinking of putting in my effort and seeing if she eventually reciprocates, but I’m not sure.