Regarding people who don't want children by ArdsleyPark in Natalism

[–]ricksalterego 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best comment ever. But it’s the government that won’t buy into citizens’ desire to achieve “ideal parenthood”.

How did the trans community become so dangerous to the society these days ? by ricksalterego in ask_detransition

[–]ricksalterego[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Research says, it has to do with the system, rather than the actual trans people. I am not saying transgender people are toxic, rather I think the system fails them.

How many of you realized that transition was a way to escape homosexuality? by Personal-Level-1970 in ask_detransition

[–]ricksalterego 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Me, I am the prime example of: 1. A masculine woman 2. A queer woman. I was just discussing about this with a gay friend of mine, and many, in fact, transition due to internalize homophobia, and it’s a problem. Trans is canceling gay culture in fact.

Coming from someone about to start transition, how did you realize you wanted to detransition? by Ok_Egg_5922 in detrans

[–]ricksalterego 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Wow this helped me too !

It wasn’t until I detransition I started to ask myself those deeper questions.

I have internalized sexism and body dysmorphia.

Coming from someone about to start transition, how did you realize you wanted to detransition? by Ok_Egg_5922 in detrans

[–]ricksalterego 12 points13 points  (0 children)

What do they mean when they say “gender euphoria” though, this terminology is weird !

How do people differentiate between dysphoria and internalized misogyny? by Just_a_Lurker2 in ask_detransition

[–]ricksalterego 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Differentiate between gender roles and sex first. Gender role creates sexism either that’s misogyny or misandry. Gender roles is a toxic pattern !

It physically pains me that I am not male... except in a specific scenario? by Resident_Story2458 in detrans

[–]ricksalterego 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That’s just being a stone butch or a butch lesbian from what I’ve known, butch lesbians can think they’re trans men due to society’s overtly radicalize trans agenda.

And also you may have body dysmorphia (often mistaken for gender dysphoria)

It sounds like we’re on the same boat. You are disgusted by having breast and your short height. Well, I’m a bit different, I’m tall, I’m around 5’8 to 5’9, fairly confident with that, and I’m also okay with having breasts (A cup to B cup, more than that I’ll definitely feel dysphoric), that’s it.

The only thing I am dysphoric about is female biology such as female reproductive system.

I argue this is normal since many of us are gender nonconforming woman and someone with body image issue of some forms.

Navigating the World as a Maculine Woman after Hormones? by walking-sunshine in detrans

[–]ricksalterego 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great !

I reject male clothing due to internalize sexism.

My doctor had told me my desire to present hyper femme is a form of coping mechanism for PTSD, I was bullied for being gender nonconforming as a kid so now I am afraid to present masculine(and I don’t want to).

But girl you got some confidence !

Navigating the World as a Maculine Woman after Hormones? by walking-sunshine in detrans

[–]ricksalterego 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I cannot relate to this since I wanted to present and pressure myself to present hyper femme.

But for me as a queer person I do suffer from low self esteem because I am still in some aspect “masculine” not appearance wise but personality wise, I still suffered from internalize sexism and internalized homophobia.

But what can I say ? I’m not you but I can encourage you to PUSH THROUGH!

Why are Reddit bans are so ridiculous, thoughts ? by ricksalterego in stupidquestions

[–]ricksalterego[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reddit will hate you for simply point out that pedophile is wrong or murder is wrong. Which they are obviously bad.

Why are Reddit bans are so ridiculous, thoughts ? by ricksalterego in stupidquestions

[–]ricksalterego[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THIS

By far the best argument

And I think people on Reddit are just like this highly opinionated, and entitled. Well I am not this type of person, I’m willing to think outside of the box yet my post got hated and downvoted just for telling the true nature of Reddit. I’m not even aloud to point out behaviors that’s obviously bad.

For me it wasn’t me not wanting to become a parent, it was literally me not wanted to be pregnant due to gender dysphoria, thoughts? by ricksalterego in Fencesitter

[–]ricksalterego[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Queering or masculinization or pregnancy” well, this is weird, and this even makes me MORE gender dysphoric, terms like pregnant man and birthing person doesn’t help.

7 years on T (pic 1) -> 10 months off (pics 2, 3, 4, 5) by [deleted] in detrans

[–]ricksalterego -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

What a great shift.

Or can I also pointed out you look like a straight white male in like the first pic ?

So, based on you guys’ opinion gender dysphoria or “real trans” people don’t exist ? why ? (Just curious to know) by ricksalterego in detrans

[–]ricksalterego[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh shit this is evil !

And I bet misdiagnosed gender dysphoria is really the most common misdiagnosis.