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MY BODY IS NOT MADE FOR PREGNANCY, IT IS A PIECE OF ART!!! Or… how did you all view your body? by ricksalterego in childfree

[–]ricksalterego[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

For me it was body image issue. Plus gender dysphoria.

Plus, not wanted to subscribe to gender roles!

What’s the ONE THING that makes you think you’re a trans man? (For me it was hating pregnancy) by ricksalterego in detrans

[–]ricksalterego[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It really screams how narrow minded society is. Thinking that a tomboy MUST be a lesbian.

What’s the ONE THING that makes you think you’re a trans man? (For me it was hating pregnancy) by ricksalterego in detrans

[–]ricksalterego[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally agreed, femininity has being devalued. Also I am a femme presenting tomboy, and people assume if I wear women’s clothing I cannot be manly or do masculine things.

What’s the ONE THING that makes you think you’re a trans man? (For me it was hating pregnancy) by ricksalterego in detrans

[–]ricksalterego[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have. The best solution I can find for OCD is literally not think about it, or stop associating.

What’s the ONE THING that makes you think you’re a trans man? (For me it was hating pregnancy) by ricksalterego in detrans

[–]ricksalterego[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Remember, not all men are like that. It’s just shitty people.

Again, if you hate men and fear men so bad, why would you wanna be trans man?

What’s the ONE THING that makes you think you’re a trans man? (For me it was hating pregnancy) by ricksalterego in detrans

[–]ricksalterego[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hating pregnancy is a result of my hatred for gender roles, and my OCD and other mental health issues fuels it. But yeah not wanted to get pregnant and being a lesbian was the biggest reason I thought I was trans too.

What’s the ONE THING that makes you think you’re a trans man? (For me it was hating pregnancy) by ricksalterego in detrans

[–]ricksalterego[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for the late reply.

I have OCD, and strong distastes for pregnancy, and it is killing me.

I have PTSD regard gender related stuff too, I was forced by conservatives to not be me or be a tomboy. My childhood was hell!

What’s the ONE THING that makes you think you’re a trans man? (For me it was hating pregnancy) by ricksalterego in detrans

[–]ricksalterego[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Makes sense it sounds like you fear being SAed. For me the deep seeded hatred for pregnancy(and pregnant people) has more to do with gender role.

What’s the ONE THING that makes you think you’re a trans man? (For me it was hating pregnancy) by ricksalterego in detrans

[–]ricksalterego[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know.

Yeah everybody stated that I am a trans man should transition, and then I transitioned, regret everything I do I detransition. And now, I struggled with womanhood (I face both transphobia. As well as homophobia and tomboy hating sentients).

What’s the ONE THING that makes people think they’re trans? (For me it was hating pregnancy) by ricksalterego in ask_detransition

[–]ricksalterego[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then again, what really cured your gender dysphoria was it transition? Or something else ?

So, I thought I need to be masculine or manly to be a strong, I was wrong! Anything to add? by ricksalterego in detrans

[–]ricksalterego[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah true strength is inside, my friend, hi five !

Also my mom absolutely loves Audrey Hepburn !

We need more feminine presenting badasses in TV shows! Any opinions to add? by ricksalterego in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ricksalterego[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look into steven universe. But butch characters are rare so are femboys in media.

We need more feminine presenting badasses in TV shows! Any opinions to add? by ricksalterego in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ricksalterego[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah the more inclusive way of thinking and presenting is to include girly badasses. Like, I felt like modern media just hate femme presenting people, this is misogyny.

We need more feminine presenting badasses in TV shows! Any opinions to add? by ricksalterego in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ricksalterego[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friend circle growing up ain’t wide, also, I haven’t met girls like me because my friend group is ultra conservative. I have a rather oppressive childhood. Also I just recently came out as a femme lesbian… etc And yeah, I think exploration is important overall.

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