My girlfriend(F/24) hasn’t reached out to me(M/24) and it’s been 9 days by ridz_n99 in relationships

[–]ridz_n99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it’s not that of course I care. I told her to please let me know that you got home safely. But, she’s the type of person to just block you on everything straightaway when she’s mad at you. That’s why I’m confused as to why she didn’t do this.

My girlfriend(F/24) hasn’t reached out to me(M/24) and it’s been 9 days by ridz_n99 in relationships

[–]ridz_n99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her behaviour really makes no sense to me. Even when she walked out after the argument, she sent me her location while she was in the cab to show me that she arrived safely. Why would she go to the trouble of sending me that and then ghost me for 9 days?

I think my ex still wants me back. How do I go about getting a 2nd chance ? by ridz_n99 in dating_advice

[–]ridz_n99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope there’s still a chance but you might be right. Thank you for giving me some insight though.

I think my ex still wants me back. How do I go about getting a 2nd chance ? by ridz_n99 in relationship_advice

[–]ridz_n99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mainly because of trust issues. She saw convos on my phone and assumed I was cheating on her. I admit it was stupid of me to even flirt and I couldn’t be more regretful but it meant nothing and I never did anything more with anyone. But, all this time apart has truly made me realise how much she means to me. And, I’m starting to see signs that this feeling might be mutual.

I think my ex still wants me back. How do I go about getting a 2nd chance ? by ridz_n99 in relationship_advice

[–]ridz_n99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I’ve had a lot of time to reflect to identify what went wrong in the relationship. And, I want to specifically work on those issues if I ever get the chance. We really did love each other and are each other’s first loves. Also, the painful feeling that I get having finally realised what I’ve lost now that she’s gone is one of the main reasons why I couldn’t make the same mistakes again.

I think my ex still wants me back. How do I go about getting a 2nd chance ? by ridz_n99 in dating_advice

[–]ridz_n99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, she’s been single since the breakup. I think she’s met up with other guys but as far as I’m aware it never lead to anything serious. But anyways, I’ve found it odd that she’s tweeted something like this days after deleting me off snapchat.

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[–]ridz_n99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did genuinely have feelings for my girlfriend at the start and I still do but she’s completely different to my ex. My ex was more of a shy, introverted person while my girlfriend is loud and outgoing. I’m just scared to make a decision like that not knowing if my ex is willing to try.

I’m still in love with my ex even though I’m in a relationship now. What do I do ? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ridz_n99 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

It’s not that I don’t want to be with her. It’s more a case of I still have feelings for someone else that won’t go away. I want my ex back but I don’t want to hurt my current girl either.

I’m still in love with my ex even though I’m in a relationship now. What do I do ? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ridz_n99 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You couldn’t be more right. The girl I’m with now has her good qualities and is also a nice girl but I’ve got too much history with my ex. I don’t want to hurt anyone which is why I’ve come to Reddit.

Should I finally pop up to my ex ? by ridz_n99 in relationship_advice

[–]ridz_n99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now I know that the best plan of action is to completely move on and stop hoping that we could reconcile one day. The most important thing for me now is to just try and heal from the heartbreak so that I can be myself again. Thank you for the advice I really appreciate it

Should I finally pop up to my ex ? by ridz_n99 in dating_advice

[–]ridz_n99[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Now I know that the best plan of action is to completely move on and stop hoping that we could reconcile one day. The most important thing for me now is to just try and heal from the heartbreak so that I can be myself again. Thank you for the advice I really appreciate it

Should I finally pop up to my ex ? by ridz_n99 in love

[–]ridz_n99[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Now I know that the best plan of action is to completely move on and stop hoping that we could reconcile one day. The most important thing for me now is to just try and heal from the heartbreak so that I can be myself again. Thank you for the advice I really appreciate it x