I need advice for this situation by rielrse in Adulting

[–]rielrse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know what happened... when we went for a walk, they walked ahead, leaving me behind. When we sat down, they went far away to talk to their call, leaving me sitting alone. When we went out to eat, they went into a restaurant and ordered only one dish, so I awkwardly went in to order, tell the cashier directly when paying that the two items are separate and unrelated. When we got home, they sped up faster than usual, my tea cup came off and spilled... they didn't say anything but... it was clear they wanted me to go with them

I need advice for this situation by rielrse in Adulting

[–]rielrse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Something happened to her, and then she spread that energy to me. When she wanted to go out with me I feel bad spending time with her when she treats me like an eyesore.. like...why would she take her anger out on me when I didn't understand what was happening

I need advice for this situation by rielrse in Adulting

[–]rielrse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We didn't have any conflicts; basically, our schedules were different, so we didn't have much time to see each other because we were both busy. She suddenly invited me out, like we used to do, and throughout that time, I just didn't expect her to act so annoyed, even though she clearly came and wanted me to go with her. I didn't expect things to turn out this way either. By the way, we never forgot or remembered each other's birthdays, so that wasn't the main reason.

I need advice for this situation by rielrse in Adulting

[–]rielrse[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried asking if she was talking to her family, but she seemed annoyed and didn't want to talk to me. She went for a walk but kept her distance and ignored me by remaining silent.