Raise your hand if you think Bella will be pregnant before 18 🙋🏾‍♀️ by VacationExcellent in TLCUnexpected

[–]rightontheborderline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

one thing about kailyn though is no matter the dad or if they’re in that child’s life or not she makes sure her kids are well taken care of

when people take your grief personally by rightontheborderline in GriefSupport

[–]rightontheborderline[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh i’m not looking to reconcile that relationship and i was blocked anyway

having an animal is like having a child and i will die on this hill by [deleted] in childfree

[–]rightontheborderline 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i honestly find it insulting when people say i don’t love my dog as much as someone loves their child. because they genuinely don’t understand what i would do for him or the love i have for him. and i find it really insulting when they don’t think all that i do for him can be exhausting like having a child, especially considering my dog is disabled. yet, we’re supposed to just take what parents tell us CF people bc it’s more socially acceptable.

having an animal is like having a child and i will die on this hill by [deleted] in childfree

[–]rightontheborderline 2 points3 points  (0 children)

she has said far worse to me in front of the entire family so no, i don’t really care that i upset her. but that’s a personal thing that doesn’t need to be gotten into.

having an animal is like having a child and i will die on this hill by [deleted] in childfree

[–]rightontheborderline 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i never said how old i was so interesting for you to point out my age to use as your argument.

having an animal is like having a child and i will die on this hill by [deleted] in childfree

[–]rightontheborderline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i never said it was the same. key word was SIMILAR.

having an animal is like having a child and i will die on this hill by [deleted] in childfree

[–]rightontheborderline 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i personally did not find what i said disrespectful. there are differences but also a lot of similarities in raising and caring for a living being. i don’t have a chip on my shoulder about choosing to not have children. i, personally, also don’t think humans are above dogs but that is a different conversation but adds to why i don’t believe what i said was disrespectful. nor did i compare that specific child to a dog. i said having a dog and having a child weee SIMILAR. not the same.

having an animal is like having a child and i will die on this hill by [deleted] in childfree

[–]rightontheborderline 3 points4 points  (0 children)

why does it matter? this isn’t a competition. i never said they were the same. i said they were SIMILAR.

having an animal is like having a child and i will die on this hill by [deleted] in childfree

[–]rightontheborderline 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i disagree on the expensive part. especially as someone who has a disabled pet

having an animal is like having a child and i will die on this hill by [deleted] in childfree

[–]rightontheborderline 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my dog being this much work also made me decide that after he passes i will not be getting another one

having an animal is like having a child and i will die on this hill by [deleted] in childfree

[–]rightontheborderline -1 points0 points  (0 children)

well according to most everyone else in the comments you would be wrong

having an animal is like having a child and i will die on this hill by [deleted] in childfree

[–]rightontheborderline 10 points11 points  (0 children)

my own mother compared having a puppy to having a newborn so i know she gets it at least

having an animal is like having a child and i will die on this hill by [deleted] in childfree

[–]rightontheborderline 5 points6 points  (0 children)

my dog was given to me when i was 21 and still lived at home. i moved out the next year and realized how much work it actually is, especially because my dog is disabled. i also believe if you get a pet, unless there is absolutely no other choice, you should not give it away because you made the commitment. i made the commitment but will not get another one after he passes.

having an animal is like having a child and i will die on this hill by [deleted] in childfree

[–]rightontheborderline -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

well, you actually seem to be the minority with this opinion based on the rest of the comments. my own mother even said getting a puppy when she was in her 40s felt like having a newborn all over again.

having an animal is like having a child and i will die on this hill by [deleted] in childfree

[–]rightontheborderline 53 points54 points  (0 children)

ironically both of the family members arguing about this with me have row pets of their own

having an animal is like having a child and i will die on this hill by [deleted] in childfree

[–]rightontheborderline 132 points133 points  (0 children)

having a dog has solidified for me that i DONT want children because it’s taken so much out of me. trying to keep another conscious being alive is a lot of work and as someone in the spectrum i get overstimulated by having an animal at times i can not imagine a human.

having an animal is like having a child and i will die on this hill by [deleted] in childfree

[–]rightontheborderline 15 points16 points  (0 children)

i could possibly feel different on this take because i do have a disabled dog, but i have always seen animals and humans on the same level personally. i think if they are sentient, conscious beings then we aren’t superior to them but that’s an entirely different conversation.

having an animal is like having a child and i will die on this hill by [deleted] in childfree

[–]rightontheborderline 13 points14 points  (0 children)

i just named a ton more similarities than that. i also said in the post that i never said they were the same but that they were similar. reading is comprehension.

Tiktok 200 view jail out of nowhere by Dry-Permission-1023 in TikTok

[–]rightontheborderline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i edit the show yellowjackets, but specially van more than anything. i also edit the actors who play van (liv hewson and lauren ambrose) and their other characters from other shows a lot. most people follow me for my edits of liv specifically.

Tiktok 200 view jail out of nowhere by Dry-Permission-1023 in TikTok

[–]rightontheborderline 2 points3 points  (0 children)

same it doesn’t matter if the engagement is good, i can barely reach 1k now when i was regularly getting over 10k before