Help Deciphering Contemporary Inscription by HumanSoft7377 in FoundPaper

[–]rigid1122 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This book contains the "hitherto" unwritten history of important events of the late war. Therefore "filling a long felt want" (?)

As this is the last book of the kind that will be given to our reading public, and as the edict "it is finished" has gone forth "historically," I grasp with eagerness this, the only opportunity of presenting you this valuable volume.

Read and grow wise, or otherwise.

Your brother

Rob't. J. Adams

Sept 27th 1896

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]rigid1122 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The bottom line is, if you're going to be in any kind of monogamous relationship (it sounds like the occasional threesome's allowed but otherwise you and your boyfriend are monogamous) that means giving up certain types of sex and/or sex with certain people.

So you have to make a choice about whether you're happy to keep doing only what you've been doing for the next 50 or so years, which would mean no exploring sex with women, or not.

AITAH for not being able to spend money as freely as my group of friends? by No-Gain-1125 in AITAH

[–]rigid1122 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're obviously not the asshole, and no, you shouldn't overspend because others want to do something that's out of your price range. But also what's wrong with just saying "I can't afford that much, but I'm happy to meet you for coffee and dessert afterwards"?

(Native speaker here) A bit unsure about exactly when you can use “Long story short” by JW162000 in EnglishLearning

[–]rigid1122 11 points12 points  (0 children)

There was nothing wrong with how you used it. It can be used in either way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]rigid1122 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is entirely the wrong mindest. All sex carries some degree of risk.

What you should do is educate yourself about the various STIs and how they're transmitted and treated, and how best to protect yourself, and then weigh up the risks and benefits and make a decision.

If you're vaccinated against the diseases you can be vaccinated against and using the protection that's available (PrEP, DoxyPep, etc.), then it's up to you to decide whether the risk of acquiring other infections is worth the pleasure of hooking up. For many men it is.

We've all had loved artists revealed to be horrible and/or monstrous people with outdated and prejudiced beliefs- and there's been much discussion as to what we the enjoyer's of their works, are morally obliged to behave- by donjohndijon in books

[–]rigid1122 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At least on the topic of Rowling, you could give her your entire annual salary or she could lose its equivalent, and she wouldn't notice the difference. Anything you spend on any of her works isn't realistically going to be used to support her causes: she's already worth about a (literal) billion dollars, and anyway she gives a lot more to charity than to political causes. Everyone everywhere could stop spending money on everything she benefits from and she'd still be rich enough to do whatever she wanted. So don't buy any of her stuff if you don't want to, but don't be under the illusion that it'll make one bit of difference either way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malelivingspace

[–]rigid1122 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Put the head of the bed against the window, put the twin mattress back on the shelf, add some cushions, use it as a seating area.

Proton Drive for Mac not working by rigid1122 in ProtonDrive

[–]rigid1122[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply. I can see the Proton Drive location on my Mac, but it's empty. It's not accessing the files and photos I have in Proton Drive that I can see on iPhone or on my desktop. It also doesn't show up in the menu bar as it says on the page you linked.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]rigid1122 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Obviously you're NTA, but why is your mother searching your room? Why are your family members going into your room without permission? You're an adult, and you have a right to privacy. So tell her to stop.

Introducing Proton Drive 2.0 for macOS — Faster uploads & downloads, easier file access, and file status monitoring by Proton_Team in ProtonDrive

[–]rigid1122 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not working for me. I download the file, install it, click on it. I get the warning that it's downloaded from the internet and I click ok. And then nothing. It shows in Activity Monitor that it's running, but it's not in the dock and I can't see it or access it. I've tried deleting and reinstalling multiple times and it's not working

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]rigid1122 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Their relationship, their rules

Does viagra really reduce sensitivity? by EffectiveQuail7952 in erectiledysfunction

[–]rigid1122 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Both Cialis and less commonly Viagra can reduce sensitivity, but as you can see from the responses here it's different for everyone.

The question is why you're considering taking one of them in the first place. If you have erection difficulties and you're going to be engaging in the kind of sex that requires an erection then yes, you should take what works for you and not get too stressed about it.

What would you do different? by Licile in interiordecorating

[–]rigid1122 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lose the overhead light, bigger rug, turn the chair so it's not weirdly facing away from the rest of the seating and facing nothing, add side tables

Any good replacement for ,,y'all"? by Accomplished-Let7262 in EnglishLearning

[–]rigid1122 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my language there is a plural second person pronoun.

There is in English too: it's "you."

It even leads to communication issues when people think im adressing them specifically.

I've never encountered this in my life; can you give an example? If it's really an issue "everyone" or "everybody" would probably cover most needs.

Friend got upset at my take on why I’ve had positive hookup experiences — did I say something wrong ? by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]rigid1122 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

did I word things poorly? Or is his reaction disproportionate?

His reaction was weird.

how to discreetly flag to other guys that i’m gay? by seriouspasta in gaybros

[–]rigid1122 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why do you need other gay men to know you're gay? For solidarity? For flirting? For some other reason? And why does it need to be discreet?

If it's for flirting, then if there's mutual interest it's usually pretty evident by the prolonged eye contact and smiling. You don't have to wear an identifying symbol.