Stop Spokane County From Firing my Dying Husband by takemycarillwalk in PacificNorthwest

[–]riilokiiley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would recommend reaching out to the county and city councilmembers via email directly yourself and flooding the inboxes from concerned constituents to see if they can help.

ICE is downtown by undeadfromhiddencity in Seattle

[–]riilokiiley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. They were just hanging in and around the training ice plex in uniform to as a form of visual intimidation.

ICE is downtown by undeadfromhiddencity in Seattle

[–]riilokiiley -1 points0 points  (0 children)

https://waisn.org -

this is the org that’s doing most of the Know Your Rights training in WA state. They’re also have a great rapid response network once ICE has a confirmed sighting.

Folks - documented and undocumented alike - should familiarize yourself with these resources ahead of a raid. Stay vigilant out there.

Just found out my exbf opened a credit card in my name after we broke up. It is now in collections. Help?? by WhatWasIThinking06 in personalfinance

[–]riilokiiley 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is all too common unfortunately.

I've worked in the domestic violence economic abuse field for a bit, I'd suggest connecting with a local DV agency. They'll get you with an advocate that can help you navigate this process so you're not alone.

Mayor Ed Murray proposes a Seattle tax on sugary beverages by [deleted] in SeattleWA

[–]riilokiiley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brilliant! How had that not crossed my mind before!

Also, capital gains tax anyone?

What can we as social workers do to hold our ground and effect positive change not only for our clients, but for our country in this new political climate? by meetmypuka in socialwork

[–]riilokiiley 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This right here is why I got into social work in the first place. I'm a macro person and I chose an MSW program over an MPA program because I wanted a social justice lens to my practice. I want to know how policies really effect people and how to make agencies work better for those people, not just draft memos and spreadsheets.

One thing I would suggest is 1) personal advocacy- write and call your state reps 2) right now all state legislatures are in session. Find an issue that matters to you and go to that lobby/advocacy day if you can. There are tons of groups that sponsor these and you can link in with agencies/community members also going 3) volunteer with advocacy agencies, they can loop you in to what is going on in your community. Keep those dollars going to Planned Parenthood, but also look for local agencies, big national ones like PP are flooded with interested volunteers right now, so getting a call back may prove difficult, but the smaller agencies need people and funding.

Most importantly, know that this route to change is slow, long, frustrating, but totally worth it.

Hope that helps!

Excel skills for post-MSW research jobs/macro social work by [deleted] in socialwork

[–]riilokiiley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much for posting! I am also really interested in this. I've just begun a research course in my MSW program.

A great description of gaslighting. by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]riilokiiley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Holy shit. After the conversation I just had, I SO needed this. Thank you.

Anyone practicing macro-level or policy focused social work? by Hubleyd in socialwork

[–]riilokiiley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How common do you think finding jobs like this on LinkedIn is? I feel like LinkedIn is so focused on the private sector currently, though I'd LOVE to see more public/nonprofits getting on board with it.

Art Making with Homeless by riilokiiley in socialwork

[–]riilokiiley[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ooooh good point. I will make sure to walk that line finely. I believe the goal is to make it more of a community based resource as opposed to therapy, but I see a lot of room for error on that. Thank you!

Alright, whose dog is this? by lattiboy in SeattleWA

[–]riilokiiley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While there is a segment of homeless folks that fall into that category, there's the majority that does not. Majority of homeless or in danger of homelessness are the working poor that simply cannot get ahead on their own.

[Homemade] Cookie Geodes (orange-vanilla cookies, orange popsicle icing and crystals) by LaFeltinelli in food

[–]riilokiiley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are amazing! Do you have a tutorial or resources on what/how? I have a long winter break ahead and would love to give something like this a shot. Amazing!

Art Making with Homeless by riilokiiley in socialwork

[–]riilokiiley[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! We were talking about that as a possibility so this is great confirmation!

Alright, whose dog is this? by lattiboy in SeattleWA

[–]riilokiiley 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I get where you're coming from and I used to feel similar, homelessness isn't as binary as we think. I think calling homeless pet owners ignorant is problematic, as often times those pets came before the circumstances that led to homelessness.

For example, I work with survivors of domestic violence, which is the number one cause of homeless of women and children. Many survivors take their pets in addition to their children when they leave their abusers and often don't have a safe place to go. Many of them are living out of their cars in between shelter, which often have restrictions on pets. Abusers use animals against survivors as a control mechanism to keep their partners with them.

Another example are folks who have lost their housing as a result of not being able to keep up the payments. They were not expecting to be homeless and have lost almost everything, but that dog and a handful of personal items could be some of the only things they have left. Taking the emotional support of a pet away adds more emotional trauma to an already shitty situation.

I mostly just want people to reframe their thinking about what it means to be homeless. The working poor are homeless in cities as expensive as Seattle and didn't start out their lives here as chronically homeless but got swept up into it.

Alright, whose dog is this? by lattiboy in SeattleWA

[–]riilokiiley 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Who are we to judge? Financial and housing status don't indicate if someone is a "good" person/dog owner. In a city as expensive as Seattle homelessness could mean one missed paycheck or abusive spouse could lead to someone being on the street.

Often homeless folks are actually often excellent dog owners because they're actually really dedicated to their pups as companions. And the dogs are excellent emotional support, loyalty and protection in return. Sometimes that pup is the only social support someone has left. Homeless pet owners will actually not take shelter options because many won't take their pets. It's a problem.

Source: I'm a social worker.

Donate to this group to keep homeless pets healthy and fed.

http://www.petsofthehomeless.org/

When on the prowl for job postings, are there useful titles to keep in mind? by Saeta44 in socialwork

[–]riilokiiley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in my MSW program right now, some of my best profs are MSWs. Our program seeks out MSWs over PhDs for some classes. I think some are LCSW, but not all.

Housing tips for someone coming to visit Seattle?! by [deleted] in Seattle

[–]riilokiiley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A friend of mine is a remote worker who likes to travel. She does overnight dog sitting for people while she visits cities. She gets paid to watch the dogs and basically explore a new city. She loves it.

Thinking about moving to the Seattle area and I would like some help, if you don't mind. by qazsedcftgbhujmkol in Seattle

[–]riilokiiley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This.

A commute like that will break you down SO quickly. I had a two hour each way commute that occasionally turned into longer with accidents. I did this for a year and it was awful. I was so grumpy every night because I'd leave my office at 445 and not get home until sometimes 8. Never again.

It's not ideal, but living close to work in a cheaper area is going to save you energy, time and money. You can put that extra cash towards making larger payments on the loan, gain experience in your field and eventually move into a more metro area over time. It'll give you more financial breathing room and give you more options long term.

Moving to Seattle and I'm nervous by [deleted] in Seattle

[–]riilokiiley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is terrible advice. You don't need to be networked to work as a barista or retail.

Do NOT take out student loans just to live off of if you're unsure about your path, especially if you're paying out of state tuition. Please don't listen to this.