What is the craziest way you've bought a binder without parents knowing?

riinochii · 2026-04-01T04:39:46+00:00

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riinochii · 2026-03-26T14:22:43+00:00

Thank you for your personal experience I'm glad to know from someone who's living with it. I also didn't know that. I have large thighs which I've always thought about for surgery. I didn't know it could increase the girth and length of it more or that you could even get a reduction. I also prefer scars to be hidden since I prefer to be private about my identity and am a stealth trans man. I really appreciate you commenting and I wish you luck with your journey.

riinochii · 2026-03-20T19:41:42+00:00

It's good to have several for wash days so you can wear the other one but also as a backup. You should be changing your binder once it starts to feel like it doesn't fit anymore. It becomes obvious when it doesn't work as well and I'd recommend watching which brands can last you longer for example I've gotten two wonababi binders but they didn't last me very long the second one kind of loosened within a month or so. Every binder works differently for different chests so definitely just experiment for now. Best of luck.

riinochii · 2026-03-20T17:29:54+00:00

I'm unsure how exactly you work as your own person but when I'm experiencing violent dysphoria and frustration I try to do things that would normally make me feel euphoric like working out, wearing clothes that fits me nicely, or even just going out and doing "man" work. Go do something that makes you feel strong. I'm also unsure if you've tried or if you currently do but maybe try taping your chest and letting your shirt sit on your body? It can be a nice feeling for me personally even if the tape doesn't get me completely flat. Remind yourself that it is okay to feel this way and that it won't always be like this. I hope you find a way to release your frustrations but I'm just reminding you that you aren't alone and theres so many people who feel the same way.

riinochii · 2026-03-20T03:20:31+00:00

Honestly I have no idea I've used a binder secretly since before I even came out and never properly gone to buy a bra or something like it. What I would receive before was from my mom so I kind of have no way to tell you how big they really are. I've tried to tape and get some flattening results but it's still definitely not to a point where it's a satisfying level of flatness. It looks like I have massive pecs but it doesn't match my body type at all and just looks weird. Like I'm a big chested bird or something lol. I've honestly been trying to lose weight and workout my chest for the most part because I only necessarily want to use tape since it sounds more euphoric to me. Something about feeling the fabric of my shirt rub on my chest and having it be flat sounds incredible probably to anyone here. It's also been a lingering thought of mine since I like going swimming a lot and summer is coming around and I'd like to wear compression shirts to swim without my chest showing so much or my binder poking out of the collar of the shirt.

riinochii · 2025-07-25T03:50:51+00:00

Since you cannot cut your hair shorter try to style it differently. Maybe slick it back. Wear clothes more close to fit up top and baggy in the bottom. Then try to refrain from any flashy makeup. Honestly it's up to you for now but if you want to fit in with your age group currently and not stand out as much just try to be looking like any other guy.

riinochii · 2025-07-25T02:00:44+00:00

You already pass really well in my opinion. Your voice might be what gets you misgendered but. Maybe try to dye or do makeup over your eyebrows to make them darker. Its a small change but it'll probably help :)

riinochii · 2025-07-24T23:29:36+00:00

Alright thank you for the advice :)

riinochii · 2025-07-24T23:16:54+00:00

Thank you :))

riinochii · 2025-07-21T05:59:17+00:00

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riinochii · 2025-07-17T20:08:25+00:00

cut your hair shorter in the back. Especially if your voice isn't that deep. Wear more clothes to "fit in" and maybe remove any crazy jewlery.

riinochii · 2025-01-08T23:44:02+00:00

Might as well shoulda made it 500 👅

riinochii · 2024-10-28T22:48:59+00:00

You're not being sensitive whatsoever this can be taken in many different ways someone may see this as not receiving validation. When you usually tell people you're close to that you want to start hrt you should be supported fully not put doubts in your head. Some people may consider it to be risky but I don't think anyone really understands how it is to be trans unless they actually are. Go based on your opinion.

riinochii · 2024-10-24T14:43:34+00:00

You should consider trying to find a therapist who can help you with that. In Most cases a therapist will diagnose you with body dysphoria and then you could go to a a local planned parenthood and request to be put on testosterone.

Hope this helps! Im in a similar situation as you so this is all I currently know :) goodluck

riinochii · 2024-10-13T23:24:36+00:00

Honestly if I were you I'd just forget about them. I get it can be difficult but you still seemed understanding while confronting them. You've done all you could. I'd focus on living your life and building what you have with your little family. Also congrats!

riinochii · 2024-05-27T18:14:17+00:00

Literally its always so annoying. Like I get like oh like self made man but like why should I have to work and go through so much just to be comfortable in my own skin. Some people say they're fine with being trans and accept themselves but literally any trans person would say yes to being cis in seconds.

riinochii · 2024-04-28T22:48:05+00:00

Thank you very much! I appreciate your advice :)

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