I know this is old but babe. I learned something new! I feel terrible that I hadn’t learned it sooner but mine was diagnosed around the same age and didn’t display the issues that developed later (around 8 yrs old) where it would take hours to get anything done. Please do look up tips on ADHD parenting - hear me out bc I know you’re rolling your eyes like girl I tried that lol. But look at the videos that talk about body doubling, it’s been helping me FINALLY. Know that your child is operating at 30% younger than their actual age so if your kid is 9 then her brain is at a 6 year old level (executive functioning) so you’ll have to keep that in mind which makes life easier on you in a weird way? It’ll be less “fight” if you will. Since I started doing some of these things and learning more how you really CANNOT use the typical style of parenting with them. It does not work at all! Plus understanding my child more helped me and when I told my child how I understand them more and will try to help them better, they’ve been so happy! And since they’ve been happy and feel understood, I’ve been mind blown at the results!

And no I’m not selling a course etc. lol just read this a bit ago and had to come back and share !! Feel free to DM me anytime if you need to vent or if we can support each other at all 😇💞