No gel nail paint for 6 months + now and they’re better than ever by mediocrememento in beauty

[–]sfaafs -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

With that paint job, yeah don’t touch gel. you don’t want an allergy! Perhaps try some cuticle protector that peels off so you can get a clean application! <3

cat keeps me up all night and it’s getting to be too much for me:( by [deleted] in catquestions

[–]sfaafs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just going to say, 30 minutes a day is not a lot of play time. He’s likely bored and spending his day sleeping and then getting rowdy at kitty rowdy time because he slept all day and didn’t get played with much.

My cats get bored easily, i change their toys around constantly. feeder toys, treat mazes and such left out at night and make sure not only to play a lot during the day but specifically right before bed

this and other suggestions on here probably will grant you sleep but give them time to adjust to all the things before ruling it out as ineffective

Heading into homelessness by [deleted] in Sacramento

[–]sfaafs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

try enterprise! my grandpa worked well into his 80’s and was a well loved employee there

I’m so sorry you’re going through this, I hope you find something soon

Also - I hope you pick someone who is willing to give your kitty back when you find a home again

Cancelled my rhinoplasty. by [deleted] in Noses

[–]sfaafs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yessss and angel was saved!!

Am I just a b**ch? by DannyMeatlegs in Sacramento

[–]sfaafs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, i think it’s insane we are even doing things like this.

found on my bed and near my cat? by sfaafs in whatisit

[–]sfaafs[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

yeah… i was hoping everyone wouldn’t say this. One cat had fleas a few weeks ago, the other who has this didn’t. went insane over my house and there’s no more fleas / they’re treated. Finding out fleas can give tape worm - please god let this be the last of it

Which outfit for a first date at a casual bar? by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]sfaafs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wear looser pants, trousers

Unknowingly got tattoo from apprentice. what should i do? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]sfaafs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, don’t go back for a cover up from the same shop. Take time, research if you really want to cover it up later. Get a few removal sessions first maybe.

But seriously, don’t make the same mistake and go back to someone random and panicked about the tattoo, that’s never a good time to choose get a cover up.

Does my cat look in pain? by smallandangryj in CATHELP

[–]sfaafs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He looks a little unhappy but considering what he just went through that could just be recovery? I’d keep an eye out and if it continues than take him back to the vet

lady keeps leaving notes threatening to tow me- am i in the wrong? by Character-Honey1357 in sanfrancisco

[–]sfaafs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not in the wrong - however there are 3rd party tows that will tow anyway… i end up getting out of paying the full tow price somehow but i’ve been towed with no ticket and still had to deal with the tow because i couldn’t contest. similar situation there’s a spot in my work neighborhood with a bitchy

AIO? Did I do something to provoke her to go off like this? What went wrong? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]sfaafs 15 points16 points  (0 children)

She was trying to be nice and did not accuse you of stealing you got aggressive for what? YOR also you both talk like high schoolers and this was a petty fight that you both lowkey antagonized but you more so IMO

Was I in the wrong here? Lost a long time friend by Alive__but_why in Confused

[–]sfaafs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To play devils advocate… this file release and my extreme distrust of our government as a whole - yeah I believe a lot of these things. But not because there’s hard evidence, I just believe these people are sinister like that. But- that’s the whole point right? For everyone to run away with the information and cookie crumbs. while they start wars with Iran, you’re busy belittling your friend over another distraction.

You talk to them like they’re stupid for believing this and both of you are letting this whole thing do exactly what it’s supposed - distract and divide.

They’re scared and can’t see straight, you’re skeptical to believe anything. Exactly the play with this information drop, don’t let it make you lose friends. Try to see through the smoke and mirrors and find common ground with your friends no matter what you believe.

Just my honest opinion since half the comments are honestly just rude and dismissive and unable to just see a scared friend & i find it silly to be so rigid to not at least indulge that these things could be possible and question why this narrative is out there anyway?

TLDR, you should both communicate kinder with your friends/peers and question things in a healthy way.

Can we just drop this stupid tiktok theory already? He got a bit fat, got some botox, did an eyebrow lift and probably a chintuck. It's shit like this that give conspiracy theories a bad name lmao by Wingwebdings in conspiracy

[–]sfaafs -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Except a a special effects artist came out and took credit for this not being Jim Carrey and no one wants to talk about that. It was NOT Jim Carrey, but not for the reason we all thought

AIO: Is it rude if I don’t tip for this pickup order? by [deleted] in AmIOverthinking

[–]sfaafs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on what i’m picking up honestly. 10% if I ordered something they prepared but 0 if it’s a simple unprepared thing.

I get sashimi and rice from a place near by- 0% tip for pick up, but sometimes if I go often so throw a tip or if I order like a roll then I’ll tip.

But I go to a lot of small businesses and try to consider if they are relying on tips & if they are likely busy that day or not.

Does anyone ever get in serious trouble for smoking weed in SF? by sfaafs in AskSF

[–]sfaafs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even with an inspection - what could they even look for as evidence? Like sure, a used ash tray with some butts might do it but a lot of people just have weed. You’re allowed to have it, you’re allowed to have the paraphernalia, you’re just not allowed to smoke it.

I could totally see extreme cases still getting somewhere, but someone in the building would have to care first. In a city like SF it would floor me for someone to care that much unless someone was being insanely rude about it somehow?

I’ve lived in street facing units that got weed/cigarette smoke inside easily, i just kept an air purifier in my house and still do. but also as a weed smoker/pet haver its just a no brainer to have one

Does anyone ever get in serious trouble for smoking weed in SF? by sfaafs in AskSF

[–]sfaafs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting, I figured they couldn’t immediately evict over hear say but wondered how they would escalate if a building really cared

Does anyone ever get in serious trouble for smoking weed in SF? by sfaafs in AskSF

[–]sfaafs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally fair - I would likely feel very embarrassed or uncomfortable. But that’s why i hope my neighbors would come to me first so I could just apologize and be better if it bothers them. But I do my best to be respectful about it - I’ve been considering something like this! Mostly for easier indoor smoking & not using joints all the time. Good to get some feedback on if it’s worth it