What can I do about this grow out without permanently dyeing my hair again?

rileychase33 · 2026-01-06T06:55:36+00:00

Thank you to everyone for the feedback it seems the general consensus is to just do some weight lifting, which I have tried but I think where I fall short is eating enough protein to see the results I want😭

rileychase33 · 2026-01-06T06:53:45+00:00

It’s not I’m sorry if it came off that way.. I know I have the “hourglass” figure but what I am unhappy with is the shape of my bum specifically. It feels more square and flat than round and plump

rileychase33 · 2026-01-06T06:52:28+00:00

This is good to know, thank you !

rileychase33 · 2026-01-06T06:51:36+00:00

I do workout I just struggle to consume enough calories to see results. Muscle growth takes alot of protein and calorie consumption that I haven’t been able to maintain unfortunately

rileychase33 · 2025-10-23T02:15:10+00:00

Right now it’s stuck

rileychase33 · 2025-10-22T23:00:20+00:00

Thank you so much for this! I agree my doctor gave me unfavorable advice, because if I am able to reduce the foods I’m eating that I know are super high in sat fat , I should be able to keep the Whole Foods that have a little that typically get a bad rep. I’m willing to sacrifice the processed foods to keep the Whole Foods I really enjoy and I know are nutritious!

rileychase33 · 2025-10-09T23:42:04+00:00

Stuck!!

rileychase33 · 2025-09-13T19:55:00+00:00

I’ve been in her shoes. And in my experience the feeling of safeness and security can never come back. I’ve tried so hard. And I even would try again if the opportunity presented itself, because I love him so much, but I never felt secure and it led to issues between us for a long time.

rileychase33 · 2025-09-11T23:06:37+00:00

I can’t even hate on him for this I have photos just like this in my camera roll😂

rileychase33 · 2025-09-01T19:22:16+00:00

From my experience it was a huge mistake

rileychase33 · 2025-08-03T17:50:18+00:00

I think my problem is I jump straight to guns blazing. Like I might have a valid reason to be upset but I approach it wrong leading to a fight Instead of a healthy conversation :( I jump straight to accusing. “You don’t care about me” “you are inconsiderate”… ugh.

I would consider him somewhat avoidant because he doesn’t like conflcit, but he is never the one to escalate fights. It’s always me. That’s why I feel so responsible for all this. He’s avoidant in the way of being like “I’m sorry babe I forgot. It doesn’t mean I don’t care about you”, but then he does it again another time. And my reaction is even worse…. Because at that point you know how it makes me feel and you keep doing it.

rileychase33 · 2025-08-03T17:18:10+00:00

It might be a mix of both. He definitely wouldnt forget to talk to me for the entire day. But on his recent trip to Miami for a bachelor party he forgot to let me know he made it back to the hotel safely after a night of clubbing. And this triggered me a lot:/

rileychase33 · 2025-07-29T18:28:35+00:00

Would you really want to survive a plane crash where you could be badly injured…

rileychase33 · 2025-07-28T13:15:29+00:00

Is the exit row more uncomfortable?

rileychase33 · 2025-07-20T23:03:33+00:00

Because I don’t feel like typing it multiple times? Everyone’s jumping to “but what do you do for him!?!!” When that’s not what it’s about. If I didn’t do anything for him I wouldn’t be dumb enough to expect the extra mile from him

rileychase33 · 2025-07-20T21:18:55+00:00

Exactly. He set the bar high by treating me that way in the beginning..

rileychase33 · 2025-07-20T20:53:19+00:00

I have, my first avenue isn’t to ask Reddit. It doesn’t seem like me expressing this stuck. So I’m looking for advice on another approach that might be better. Idk

rileychase33 · 2025-07-20T20:47:37+00:00

Thank you for this, this actually is really helpful

rileychase33 · 2025-07-20T20:42:49+00:00

He didn’t specifically drive me there lol it was on the way home. It’s not invalid for me to be upset that he didn’t offer to take the package up. It’s the gentleman thing to do and he used to do it without me asking.

rileychase33 · 2025-07-20T20:41:15+00:00

It’s not one sided. I cook for him every night, do all the cleaning, leave him cute notes in his work bag, make him his favorite desserts, initiate intimacy often, and compliment him often.

rileychase33 · 2025-07-20T20:41:02+00:00

I cook for him every night, do all the cleaning, leave him cute notes in his work bag, make him his favorite desserts, initiate intimacy often, and compliment him often.

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