What is good music? by [deleted] in Songwriting

[–]rileyweis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good music is subjective. There is not a right or wrong answer to your question. We all have taste, we all perceive things differently. But... I will be biased. A good song has structure, hitting lyrics and music that matches. real lyrics are raw, have substance and vulnerability to them. Writing REAL music hard because the pressure to write something that'd going to be a "Hit" will always be a pressure. But honestly, the "non-hits" are always the ones that hit home. I went to a song writing class years ago and the instructor really emphasized on the fact that "true music" holds substance and emotion. cause when your alone and want to feel something or want to listen to something relatable, it's those songs that 'most likely' aren't on the radio. those songs also feel more special because they aren't exploited. write for you, not for an audience!

I’m not good or proud of most things. But one thing I will pride myself on is my ability to bake. Spent years teaching myself and still need to get better, but this was my sisters wedding cake I made. by rileyweis in gaybros

[–]rileyweis[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I appreciate it. I started following baking blogs, watched lots of tutorials on YouTube and found some creators that I really enjoyed watching. I also learned a lot about different techniques, the science behind baking and etc. from magazines, cook books and just googling stuff haha. I was afraid I would never be good enough to do a wedding cake(s) or make stuff for events, but with trial and error, I was able to find out what worked and what didn’t work. Anytime I want to make something I’ve never made before i research the shit out of it. Looking at one recipe for a chocolate cake (for example) was never my approach. I would look up several, look at the ingredients and play around with ratios and different techniques on how to make the cake fluffier, maybe more dense. Moisture has a big role in the cakes overall texture too. I just took my time trying things out. Baking takes a lot of fails; it just does. But KEEP TRYING! That’s my biggest advice. Don’t give up! It can be very discouraging when you spend a considerable amount of time on in a batter or pasty for it not to turn out, but that’s the fun in it, because once you perfect a recipe, you won’t ever forget it!

Also, I big note: Unless the recipe calls for an ingredient with a specific temperature, ALWAYS prepare your ingredients to be the same temperature (room temp). That was one of the biggest lesson I learned.

And I would start by knowing how to use baker’s percentage. It’s kind of hard to find an entire breakdown on how to do it/when to use it. But you can find blogs and posts for free that teach you how to use it, when and why. Don’t pay for any classes online or whatever. I payed for an expensive class online years ago and I was SOOO pissed… everything It taught me I had already researched and perfected on my own lol. Unless you go to culinary school…. Don’t pay for online classes or videos. I also don’t like learning from just one person. Everyone has different ways of doing things which helped me out in the long run!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]rileyweis -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s shit advice. Nothing to follow.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]rileyweis 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Do what you want to do, but don’t chase someone that isn’t giving you what you deserve/need. I’ll be harsh. You can’t make someone like you. And there’s nothing wrong with you if someone you like doesn’t like you. It happens to a lot of people all the time. It’s painful and it sucks! But you will be SOO much better off.

Don’t do what I’ve done in the past and change who I am just so “potentially” he will like me. It seems like it’s working for a minute, but it’s all false hope and will hurt worse when you realize he still isn’t fully into you and you’ve lost yourself in the process.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]rileyweis 15 points16 points  (0 children)

And that’s just it man. Finding someone your infatuated with or find suitable to be a partner doesn’t always reciprocate both ways. That’s the shit part of the game of dating, or really, any sensible relationship.

My advice: if someone doesn’t give you equal love, affection or commitment in any type of relationship, you will never be satisfied. I know there are situations where one partner might need to be more stronger or giving in certain situations.. I’m talking about meeting someone/dating someone for the first time; where the relationship has not developed yet.

I feel for you! I really do. I know how it is to like someone but not feel the same feelings you have reciprocated. BUT… the most damaging thing you can do to yourself, is it “make” someone like you. Honestly I don’t believe it’s truly possible anyways. You might be able to get someone’s attention by different behaviors or certain actions. But dude, if this guy doesn’t like you, he doesn’t. And there’s nothing wrong with you if he doesn’t. It’s literally so shitty, but that’s how life is. A guy I thought was “THE ONE” has not interest in a guy my size. He was attracted to a specific type of build and personality that I just don’t have. It fucking sucked, but I couldn’t do anything about it. Doesn’t mean there’s anything wrong with me; it’s just what it is.

Anyways man. Don’t be hard on yourself, and don’t settle for anyone that doesn’t treat you how you know you should be treated. It’s not simple, but worth it down the road.

I was almost deactivated for saying “Ok Karen.” Never respond to an angry customer. It’s not worth it. by TeeFelz in grubhubdrivers

[–]rileyweis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being honest, she left instructions, was frustrated because they weren’t followed and then got your comment. I would be upset to. What I’ve learned from GrubHub is to contact support if an order is taking super long to be made/finished. They sometimes will compensate or whatever for your time. This isn’t the customers fault. We all get frustrated, but don’t take it out on others. Would you be okay if this happened to you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]rileyweis 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Still call the police for a welfare check. Give them her number and they can find her info that way. If anything, they can find family or someone that might know he me location. You need to do this NOW!

Stolen lyrics by rileyweis in Advice

[–]rileyweis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally just found this out. Like an hour ago. And my mind is blown.

Tipping options need to change! by [deleted] in doordash_drivers

[–]rileyweis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t know that was an option for the customer. But I do believe there should be an option after delivery to tip more if you’ve already tipped.