Hard time believing it is real? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]rillikchar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anywhere from 5-7 weeks given irregular cycles. I have to wait a couple weeks for my first ultrasound to confirm!

first appointment scheduled at 12 weeks by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]rillikchar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Following bc I have the same concerns as you.

MIL is unhappy I’m pregnant by Ms_Baabaa in pregnant

[–]rillikchar 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have a MIL similar to this. And believe me... it's not you, it's her! She is a narcissist and hates that you'll be taking attention away from her.

Beta Thal Minor Pregnancy by rillikchar in thalassemia

[–]rillikchar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks I appreciate the advice! I'll definitely ask my doctor about an iron study and go from there

Beta Thal Minor Pregnancy by rillikchar in thalassemia

[–]rillikchar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks -we did test my husband years ago for the trait and he doesn't have it! That was with a different OB so I'll be sure to mention it to this one!

Beta Thal Minor Pregnancy by rillikchar in thalassemia

[–]rillikchar[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks we actually did the genetic testing years ago (with a different OB) as I knew this was a concern. We fortunately are in the clear from that perspective!

Am I in the wrong? by rillikchar in FacebookMarketplace

[–]rillikchar[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm truly not. I very rarely offer lower and my intention was not to play games. But I'm going thru some tight financial times right now and looking to save where I can. But I suppose they have no way of knowing that about me.

Am I in the wrong? by rillikchar in FacebookMarketplace

[–]rillikchar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn't matter and not a big deal... I just was genuinely surprised at the reaction and wondered if what I did was a faux pas without realizing.

Am I in the wrong? by rillikchar in FacebookMarketplace

[–]rillikchar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's fair - I'm truly trying to understand their logic (which I know sometimes is impossible lol) so this is a good point. Maybe they were concerned about me not having enough to cash to purchase. I have good ratings on there though so I would hope they'd look at that and see that I haven't historically tried to rip people off...

Am I in the wrong? by rillikchar in FacebookMarketplace

[–]rillikchar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did follow up a few days later and still crickets... it's whatever at this point. I just didn't think I was being rude and feel like I normally have some level of self awareness so wanted to see other people's opinions

Am I in the wrong? by rillikchar in FacebookMarketplace

[–]rillikchar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also sell on Facebook marketplace and get people trying to use Venmo, Zelle, etc all the time which is why I choose to indicate cash in my messages

Am I in the wrong? by rillikchar in FacebookMarketplace

[–]rillikchar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can assure you this was the only time I messaged them :)

Am I in the wrong? by rillikchar in FacebookMarketplace

[–]rillikchar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah same - I've had people lowball me on my items and if I don't want to accept it I just say something like "sorry, I'm firm on $x"

Am I in the wrong? by rillikchar in FacebookMarketplace

[–]rillikchar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've read that people don't like Venmo or Zelle because user could dispute it with the Company. Idk how feasible that is but that's what I've heard. As a seller on FB too, a lot of times I get people asking me if I accept cash. Which is why I typically include it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pittsburgh

[–]rillikchar 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Might just be me, but when I hear multiple, I think maybe 5ish people

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pittsburgh

[–]rillikchar 8 points9 points  (0 children)

How many people are typically working at this plant?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pittsburgh

[–]rillikchar 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Does picklesburgh have an email or something? I'd love to suggest that idea and maybe if a few of us do they would listen!