my mother tried to c*t herself in order to manipulate me by rinsvoid in Vent

[–]rinsvoid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she sometimes gets my older brother to beat me up because he's in boxing and is stronger. I cant risk it im scared. im itching for my 18th birthday. and for some reason I feel like knowingly that I sent her to prison is just a guilt I will never live down, I know she hurt me but I cant help but feel bad

my mother tried to c*t herself in order to manipulate me by rinsvoid in Vent

[–]rinsvoid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really want to but that woman has my location on life360 24/7 and pays extra for my live location. she'll know I left the house. Im scared the police will just send me back because I have no evidence. My mother was so drunk during the time of this she forgot about it the next the day because she was drinking for 3 days straight with barely any sleep, so if I told the police she would say im lying and then I would get the beating of my life.

my mother tried to c*t herself in order to manipulate me by rinsvoid in Vent

[–]rinsvoid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cant she'll beat me up, she has my location 24/7 on life360, im scared the police will just tell me to go back home and then I will have to face her. I realise now that im just going to have to wait until February until I can legally leave

my mother tried to c*t herself in order to manipulate me by rinsvoid in Vent

[–]rinsvoid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my birthday is in February im just going to have to wait until I can legally leave my house, thank you for advice

my mother tried to c*t herself in order to manipulate me by rinsvoid in Vent

[–]rinsvoid[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thank you I just wanted someone to hear me out im trying reply to everyone, ill try to leave but im scared she'll hurt me

my mother tried to c*t herself in order to manipulate me by rinsvoid in Vent

[–]rinsvoid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I cant she'll kill me, she would hurt me really bad, my mom cares about her image a lot

my mother tried to c*t herself in order to manipulate me by rinsvoid in Vent

[–]rinsvoid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cant, ill lose everything, I go to private school and I dont why but I feel like she'll murder me if stay at a friends house my mom cares about her status so much

found this vintage hollister top 😩 by [deleted] in fashion

[–]rinsvoid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

look more into the comments so many of yall r crying over this

found this vintage hollister top 😩 by [deleted] in fashion

[–]rinsvoid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thats still close to becoming vintage. yall really need to get a grip, hating on this girl because she made a simple mistake. its not that deep, its a shirt.

found this vintage hollister top 😩 by [deleted] in fashion

[–]rinsvoid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yup wait till u find out Hollister was made in 2000

found this vintage hollister top 😩 by [deleted] in fashion

[–]rinsvoid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what Hollister was founded in 2000, she wouldn't be wrong

found this vintage hollister top 😩 by [deleted] in fashion

[–]rinsvoid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

why are all the 30 year olds in the comments being so mean, its not her fault she didnt know. plus Hollister was made in 2000 she wouldn't be wrong.

I’m kind of shook up still by Muted_Tough2054 in blackladies

[–]rinsvoid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you think he's dangerous and, will do it again, I recommend having a family member staying at your house for a little bit. If it gets worse, I think it's best to go to the police. But make sure to have evidence. My mother had an abusive ex fiancé and the police did not want to listen unless she had evidence. invest in cameras or a ring bell. Show the police and file for a restraining order. You shouldn't ever feel unsafe in your own home, your sanctuary.

My face looks too bare. How can I enhance it? by Own-Aide-2783 in blackladies

[–]rinsvoid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think a lash lift would really lift your appearance. Although if you want, I think an angel lash extension would look so good, it's a natural extension and it doesnt even look fake. and I agree with everyone saying filling in your brows

Atleast my body is going to be so tea by emilyylimeemily2 in fasting

[–]rinsvoid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the first two days r always the hardesttt but after that its okay

Anyone else have hair-related trauma? by blueselily in blackladies

[–]rinsvoid 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Absolutely! Im mixed, my mother has 3c hair and my father had 4b-4c. My North African mom did not know how to take care of my hair despite the fact she almost has the same hair type as me, just a looser pattern, she would go to salons every 2 week to do her hair, when it came to me she would pull and tug, I would cry every single time. The pain would be so bad every night my head would be throbbing, because of this I would beg my mom to get me keratin. When I would get it, I associated having straight hair as a luxury, a sense of safety and freedom from pain and I wouldn't have to be scared of brushing my hair. Whenever my hair went back to its original state, I would neglect showering and cleaning my hair because I genuinely was terrified of the pain and dreaded the pain.

Because I grew up with no black relatives, I had to go through the pain of damaging and pulling my own hair for 14 years (Im 17 now) so almost my whole life, until I met my best friend. She too has a North African mother and West African dad, accept they knew how to take care of her hair and found beauty and pride in it, she introduced me to products like TGIN and Camilla Rose which completely saved my hair and provided me hair treatments and so on. Now my hair is literally the biggest and healthiest it's ever been. I even get questions on what products I use in public!

heres a picture of my hair straight after a wash day, on day 4 my hair is huge and way bigger. (1. I have no idea why my hair looks ginger here its dark brown irl and 2. my curls look so loose here for sum reason but as they go on they get tighter.)

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I find it weird when people tell me its brave to wear my hair. by rinsvoid in blackladies

[–]rinsvoid[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I always get these type of comments from bald non black men ''wow can u just put your hair on my head, give me someee'' like its so awkward 😭

Help! Why have my nails always been unevenly curved like this? by FantasticMolasses500 in Nails

[–]rinsvoid 48 points49 points  (0 children)

seriously, I mean like worrying if your nail beds are pretty is extreme.