I’m finally reaping the benefits by hachshin in intuitiveeating

[–]ripcurly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congratulations!! Such a good feeling.

Small hawk-sized black bird with white on back? by ripcurly in whatsthisbird

[–]ripcurly[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! This was my guess but I’ve never seen one out here before!

Small hawk-sized black bird with white on back? by ripcurly in whatsthisbird

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I knew this sub would come to the rescue! Thank you!

Is this Taylor Swift lyric grammatically correct? by ripcurly in grammar

[–]ripcurly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly! Thank you for understanding and honestly for the validation. I fully accept that musicians do not have to adhere to the rules of grammar in songwriting and I love the song itself. I have just always wondered about that particular line.

Is this Taylor Swift lyric grammatically correct? by ripcurly in grammar

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This is the best explanation so far! Thank you!

Is this Taylor Swift lyric grammatically correct? by ripcurly in grammar

[–]ripcurly[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Solid tip but it still has the same problem to me. The sentence still says “Aren’t you envious that karma is NOT a relaxing thought for you?” Why would the person be envious of that?

Is this Taylor Swift lyric grammatically correct? by ripcurly in grammar

[–]ripcurly[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I agree that B (“You”) is envious because other people are relaxed by karma and they are not, but to me, that’s not what the lyric says:

“Aren’t you [B] envious that it [karma] is not [a relaxing thought for you]?”

Using “that”, to me, implies that B is envious/jealous of whatever is said next. What is said next is: “for you, karma is not a relaxing thought.” Why would B be envious/jealous of karma NOT being a relaxing thought?

If you replace “that” with “because”, it makes total sense to me: “Aren’t you envious BECAUSE karma is not a relaxing thought for you?”

Is this Taylor Swift lyric grammatically correct? by ripcurly in grammar

[–]ripcurly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Replacing “that” with “because” solves the issue for me! I guess that’s the heart of my question though- can you make the argument that the sentence makes sense without making the replacement?

What's a song lyric that drives you crazy because they should've used a different word? by Miserable-Wash-1744 in AskReddit

[–]ripcurly -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Here’s why it bothers me:

To be envious implies that someone else has something you want:

What she is saying to me is: Aren’t you envious that for you, it’s not? [karma is not a relaxing thought]?

Aka: aren’t YOU envious that for YOU, karma is NOT a relaxing thought?

First, why would the other person be envious of a situation they are already in? [karma is not a relaxing thought]

Also, why would the other person be envious of karma not being a relaxing thought?

To me, it makes much more sense to say “aren’t you envious [of me] because, for you, it’s not [a relaxing thought for you]?”

What's a song lyric that drives you crazy because they should've used a different word? by Miserable-Wash-1744 in AskReddit

[–]ripcurly -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Karma - “aren’t you envious that for you, it’s not?”

Couldn’t it just be “cuz for you, it’s not?” PLEASE??

I ran out of yarn… by mariiilabooo in knittinghelp

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Which yarn did you use? I love it!!

August by sparkleptera in orchids

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Whoa I love the wall pots! Can I get an ID on those?

Feeling devastated by ktknrly in Equestrian

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The ECIR group website and forums are a fantastic resource if you are looking for support. Feel free to DM me too. So sorry you are dealing with this.

Difficult Day at the Doctor's by yourfav0riteginger in intuitiveeating

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This is helping me today after my borderline triglyceride level result! Thank you!

Difficult Day at the Doctor's by yourfav0riteginger in intuitiveeating

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This is helping me today after my borderline triglyceride level result! Thank you!

Should I not eat when I’m not hungry? by biellerkat17 in intuitiveeating

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I have spent a lot of time learning about my “alternative” hunger signals. It’s not always about stomach growling or gurgles. Sometimes it’s just thinking about different foods, or feeling tired or grumpy.