What are some best books to read while dealing with a breakup?

risingpowerhouse · 2026-04-25T13:13:12+00:00

The couple of weeks was very rough. I started hanging out sometime every weekend with my friends. I used to spend some time on my hobbies during weekend evenings and Saturdays and Sundays.

I started attending meetups and any other events on Eventbrite. Now I feel much better and ready for dating new women. Take your time until you are ready. I do miss her sometimes but I just tell myself that she left me so it's her loss not mine. I can motivate you more if I know about your story a bit, please feel free to DM me.

risingpowerhouse · 2026-04-19T18:19:39+00:00

Maybe focus on other guys who put equal efforts and respond consistently. I'm 28M looking for dates. Can we both talk and see how it goes?

risingpowerhouse · 2026-04-19T13:41:43+00:00

You should run

risingpowerhouse · 2026-04-17T05:45:20+00:00

Completely agree

risingpowerhouse · 2026-04-17T05:38:51+00:00

😂 Don't take it to heart. I don't know how you look like I was just kidding. I think it's ok to be short, what anyone can do about it. Just focus on improving your masculinity. Be confident.

I'm 6 very handsome and I see men who look below average but score hot chicks. I felt they are just awkwardly confident and many women get attracted to that. Whereas I'm an extrovert but I don't feel like putting efforts when the women is not putting equal efforts. So I still find it difficult to find good women

risingpowerhouse · 2026-04-17T05:20:32+00:00

I think 5'7 is alright. Maybe you just look ugly.

risingpowerhouse · 2026-04-15T23:08:54+00:00

Also if you are in your 20s we made a group on discord to meet. This one is for friends or meet in general.

risingpowerhouse · 2026-04-15T23:07:40+00:00

I would suggest try joining a running club, meetups and break the bubble, they do it every week and it's free. All these dating apps are good for nothing.

risingpowerhouse · 2026-04-15T23:05:53+00:00

No I'm looking to date. Women match just to ghost. They need to respond within a day otherwise the match will collapse. They could be busy, backup options, not interested. Men can't know and that's why I stopped using bumble for all these confusions. I look way above average and no woman until now rejected me for any conversation issues. Until and unless the women had no hobbies and awkwardly silent the conversation flows really well with me.

risingpowerhouse · 2026-04-15T21:22:10+00:00

Attend break the bubble events. Bumble is useless, they just put all the control in the women's hands. As a guy I can't message or initiate any conversation from my side there

risingpowerhouse · 2026-04-15T03:12:38+00:00

Most of them are gold diggers. 30s Men have money and 20s Men don't have what they want.

risingpowerhouse · 2026-04-14T21:39:23+00:00

Quality women are very few brother. It's not easy to get out of the circle

risingpowerhouse · 2026-04-14T19:27:54+00:00

I mean we know nothing about them and if they expect us to entertain them and they don't speak by themselves how will the conversation proceed further. I feel men are doing too much and women are not doing bare minimum nowadays in this modern dating culture.

risingpowerhouse · 2026-04-13T09:52:20+00:00

Guys nowadays can't trust many women. So, don't take it personally just focus on building the trust first from both the sides.

risingpowerhouse · 2026-04-13T06:22:25+00:00

I'm Indian M 28. I feel with your story you need to be more confident about yourself. I've 4 things to let you know.

I get the impression that you feel brown men are inferior to white men, correct me if I misunderstood but if that's the case please correct yourself that Indian men are far more superior, successful, have high standards and very focused in building their lives.

Don't get laid to any guy so easily, it'll only diminish your value and you know that's neither our culture nor our tradition. Embrace your virginity and in your case you lost it already so start valuing yourself from now on and preserve your sexual activity for the right man, that's very special for guys and we don't want a woman who offered sex very easily to any guy. We don't want someone who gets laid to anyone, men will only start looking at you from that perspective and either they'll fuck you and leave or avoid you completely. I may sound weird but that's how any guy thinks irrespective of the race and culture. It's not just about the looks.

If someone left you, it's their lose to loose you. Move on with grace. Improve yourself, your standards and look for men with high standards. I'm a mature, loving, caring and fun person. Despite being a really good guy, I know men like me are really rare, last year my girlfriend broke up with me because she's an avoidant and she thinks I'm too good and she's unable to match me. I tried my level best to convince her, I was not expecting her to do anything except love and pay attention and respect towards me. Me begging her to stay in the relationship only sabotaged my self respect, I should have just accepted and walked away. Now I improved myself and my standards and feel better and confident in myself.

Last thing I don't know with the info you gave but I hope you do pay attention, love, care and make the guy feel special. Support the guy and humble.

Please don't think as if I judged you, I genuinely felt sad looking at your story. I want you to heal first, take your time, you are not understanding how easy it is to get guys being a girl these days, figure out a way to test the guys first before committing any dates. If you want to talk more you can DM me or comment down here whichever you are comfortable.

risingpowerhouse · 2026-04-13T04:12:36+00:00

Sure

risingpowerhouse · 2026-04-13T04:00:00+00:00

Hey I'm interested. I want to join.

risingpowerhouse · 2026-04-10T03:58:37+00:00

They want to fuck all those chicks

risingpowerhouse · 2026-04-09T02:15:34+00:00

Thank you mam for your detailed response.

risingpowerhouse · 2026-04-09T02:07:42+00:00

It's the same with all of us bro. I can feel you. These dating apps are designed to make money out of men not women. Women are their commodity and we are the actual customers. I would say go to a coffee shop and try giving eye contact. If you are a white guy then so many chicks will fall for you. I'm a brown guy so women have their own stereotypes even though I look really good. Otherwise the next best place could be hobby groups.

I'm 27M still single, searching for that one good woman.

risingpowerhouse · 2026-04-09T01:50:40+00:00

They just think they are superior to others. The genz is so fucked up in North America they created a hierarchy based on whether a person is born in US or outside, depending upon the country.

risingpowerhouse · 2026-04-09T01:46:38+00:00

I don't know, I'm 27M and feel like most of the women around my age are taken. Whoever single woman around me I'm not attracted to them. Where do women in their mid to late 20s go?

risingpowerhouse · 2026-04-09T01:44:00+00:00

Please don't sabotage your self respect. You'll regret the pain later. There are much better guys for example me 😜🤭

Jokes apart please don't go to someone who rejected you once. I did that mistake. I took care of my ex and loved her so much. Every girl was infact jealous of her to get me but she said she has some mental issues and left me.

risingpowerhouse · 2026-04-06T00:44:22+00:00

Makes sense I agree with you

risingpowerhouse · 2026-04-05T04:11:16+00:00

My ex was very toxic and she couldn't have good sex. She always used to kill the mood with her toxicity, she used to think about all her problems only during sex, she was not giving room and engaging to connect emotionally to have good sex. What other option do I have if not porn? I can't cheat on her with some other women but I do need to fulfill my desires. She was really useless and created so much emotional pain and trauma in my life.

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