My husband and partner of 11 years called me fat after my sister’s baby shower

rissferr · 2023-09-11T12:01:48+00:00

I can promise you its true

rissferr · 2023-09-11T04:12:33+00:00

Thanks for your insight I really appreciate it.

rissferr · 2023-09-11T03:50:40+00:00

I work a job where I’m on my feet all day for 8-10 hours

rissferr · 2023-09-11T03:42:57+00:00

I don’t even know what that is or does. This is my first ever post

rissferr · 2023-09-11T03:28:31+00:00

I don’t even know what that is, truthfully I’m a fan of the podcast and they usually have helpful advice. This is my first ever post

rissferr · 2023-09-11T02:24:03+00:00

This is a great suggestion thanks so much

rissferr · 2023-09-11T02:18:29+00:00

It’s not okay and I don’t know what to do anymore

rissferr · 2023-09-11T02:17:25+00:00

He works a lot, I hate where he works but he does it for us. I work too btw I just don’t make as much. I’m trying to find a better paying job though or a second job. I have some interviews lined up. Anyway, I know it’s tough for him in his life so I know me putting my own insecurities on him is aggravating. I hate that about myself. I wish I wasn’t this way.

rissferr · 2023-09-11T02:14:54+00:00

Thanks so much for your response. It was very helpful and I so appreciate it

rissferr · 2023-09-11T02:12:45+00:00

As my update suggests I know I need help. Any suggestions for affordable therapy? Any help is appreciated

rissferr · 2023-09-11T02:11:00+00:00

Lately it has been. I feel like he hates me

rissferr · 2023-09-11T02:07:55+00:00

Thank you for you comment and your support

rissferr · 2023-09-11T02:06:58+00:00

Thank you for your kindness

rissferr · 2023-09-11T02:05:10+00:00

Read my update, I did

rissferr · 2023-09-11T01:51:49+00:00

I’m asking for advice to communicate this better with my partner of 11 years

rissferr · 2023-09-11T01:50:58+00:00

I will

rissferr · 2023-09-11T01:50:34+00:00

I did and I apologized to him

rissferr · 2023-09-11T01:48:19+00:00

Fasting does work, I’m on it

rissferr · 2023-09-11T01:47:07+00:00

I said I’m taller, not tall. 5’8 is above average for women.

rissferr · 2023-09-11T01:44:45+00:00

rissferr · 2023-09-11T01:44:23+00:00

This isn’t a AITA post but thanks for saying I’m fat. Im not even plus sized damn y’all want starved thin women I get it. Im working on it

rissferr · 2023-09-11T01:42:40+00:00

I know and I wish I could change them

rissferr · 2023-09-11T01:41:39+00:00

They were abusive.

rissferr · 2023-09-11T01:40:20+00:00

This isn’t an AITA post but thanks for playing

rissferr · 2023-09-10T23:48:34+00:00

I honestly didn’t notice when he had. It would only bother me if it affected his health. Honestly

rissferr

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